Is it ok to write I’m into/looking for AMWF in Tinder?

Do you girls think guy who write I’m only into AMWF in his description is ok? Do you think he is straight forward and know what he want or creepy?

Is it better to remove it even you really just looking for AMWF relationship?

Yes it would be considered 'streight forward'
No it's not "Creepy"
Will people who read that think it's "ok?"
Every individual person will have their Own personal reaction to that based off how they feel, how they take 'rejection'(because a statement like that Is you declaring you Completely reject ANYONE who falls outside those perimeters.) and where their mentality is at on the 'is this racesist?' scale

Now that I have responded in the most unemotionally objective and unbiased way I can.....

Personally, as a person of color who is of an ethnicity (she resents) that gets a bad rep let's just say.... -.- (such as black women are loud, aggressive(verbally and physically)...'ghetto' I'm just not going to go on) profiles that imply that clearly state a person Not open to dating certain ethnicities or Only interested in One ethnicity...are a bit of a personal trigger. Someone who makes it clear they are Not interested in you SOLEY based off your ethnicity, or interested in you Because you Are a certain ethnicity and Not because of who you are as a Person...

I've seen profiles that specifically say No AA (which means African-American) I find it personally offensive and a trigger.

On the other hand a person Should be able to state their 'Preferences' Without being judged for it.

There's also a fine line between Preferences and Prejudices. So there's that.



So keep in mind the type of message you're sending... No matter How you actually mean it to come across someone might not interrupt it that way.

Also keep in mind that women on dating profiles are constantly filtering out those they are Uninterested for what ever reason and sometimes even when putting in your profile what you are and are Not interested in and you will Still get contacted by the very type of person you said you were not open to anyway T.T


I hope this gives you some sort of insight or useable advice....idk

Anyways it is Completely your decision what you put in your profile and it is completely the other person's choice respect what you say and move on or ignore as if you weren't very clear.

Also....Tinder? Does anybody ever talk about Tinder in a "I've met, The One" kind of way...

Also most female profiles on Tinder direct you to their Instagram. I usually scroll through screen shot their insta and message them there.

not a girl, but thought id chime in. you are only limiting yourself if you write amwf. especially on a platform thats pretty hard to get a match if youre not 6ft plus, aryan blond with blue eyes. if a legit profile is interested she will swipe right regardless. if you are only interested in white girls, then only swipe right with those profiles.

The Mandalorian wrote: Do you girls think guy who write I’m only into AMWF in his description is ok? Do you think he is straight forward and know what he want or creepy?

Is it better to remove it even you really just looking for AMWF relationship?

to me this sounds rather creepy than straight forward. when you really look for an AMWF, mention it is not needed as long you do not interact with others.
sometimes you miss great opportunities and nice people if limit yourself to your preferences, but if that's your final choice, its fine. so swipe everyone else away, and maybe there will be a little chance to find someone like this. friends told me it is really hard to find someone serious on Tinder plus someone for their AMWF preferences. not sure if Tinder is good in serious ways though....

i've had more matches putting 'looking for ASMR'

Nobody reads profile there anyways. So I am sure whatever you write Will be missed. However, i would do it, Just to make sure. Also, dont care what other people think. If all you want, is White chicks, you should definetily specify, So you dont have to mention that very thing to every girl who gets her hopes high...

I don't think it's wrong . Everyone has preferences. I do it all the time . If it has options on the settings of what you're looking for , I do it. And I always mention it on my profiles. It's not racist , it's my preference. I love Asian men and I'm not afraid to let anyone know. If they have a problem, then they can move on. It weeds out the rest of men , that I'm not into. There's plenty of women on sites , they don't have to bother me. I still talk to other races if they are clever or cute. But that's as far as it goes. I'm only attracted to Asians . So if you have preference, don't be ashamed of it. Everyone has a type. Do what makes you Happy, in the end , you're stuck with what you choose.

Nothing wrong with that.

Build it and they will come.

Life is short.

I think it's fine but it's also unnecessary on an app like Tinder. All you have to do is swipe right only on white girls. Problem solved.

Yes, each person knows what they want directly bluntly. I don't think it's creepy. Tinder works on a more exaggerated version of real life. I'm not on ' ’Fickle Tinder’ ’, I prefer the online interactions of some social sites and trying to meet them in person, but I understand that it's all about appearance, preferences, compatibility, connections and matches. There is a perceivable division between racial / ethnic selectivity, Preferences and Prejudices.

I think that Tinder to those who are happy to approve or disapprove of a person in a split second based off a photo. The guy who write I’m only into AMWF in tinder in his description.
I think taht is very honest and simple in his cover letter, you should note in expressing little about his personality, interesting hobbies, expectations and commitment at his limits. About what you do, what you like and dislike and what you’re looking for.
In your profile description, you have to make sure you don't come desperately or really looking for something. Be direct and aware in your search for what you want.
Don’nt Have an empty tinder bio. Just have emojis and like one sentence. It’s a cover letter. Talk. (At the same time, don’t have it be a WALL of text. One or two paragraphs is fine.)
Is sexier than a man who not only knows what he wants but why he wants it. This will also save you a lot of time and pain in finding what matters the most. Be clear about the limits in a few words and do not give as many details, if the person is not very reliable.
Introduce yourself! Doesn’t have to be wordy, but just cover personal hobbies, interests, what you’re looking for, etc.

Make a facetiousness here and there. Be witty, show a playful side, it’s really compelling and attractive - plus, it’ll give them a good jumping point to start a conversation!
Be clear about what you’re looking for. Even if you don’t want to go into detail, just a “Looking for AMWF’’to “Looking for something casual, not too serious” would really help people decide whether you’re a good candidate or not.
One of the things you can do is improve your profile, make sure you words you use to increase the curiosity of who you are! Also be positive.
So even if you feel you might not be a great match with a Great looking , you will have a positive out look.

Also the main thing you must make sure is that your photographs are positive, you have a big smile, optimism, it shows you doing things that you are passionate about, make it something that shows your genuine personality.
Any good photo of you taken (bonus if at your workplace, but most contexts will do as long you can be clearly seen).
Doing a physical hobby. Music wonderful, Gym is good, the more adventurous the better.
In fact, any hobby. The more interesting, the better. Bonus if you have pets. Some with facial hair, some without.
Look at nature, if there are 15 male birds and only 5 female birds in one area, it must be special and selective. It depends on your visual perception, preference in similarities, chemistry and personality. Destiny is unpredictable.

It is your decision whether you want to delete it or be patient if you are not sure to a certain limit, it is the other person's choice to respect and accept what you say, if they do not agree and there is not a result you have to be optimistic and move on.

You're on your way. I wish you the best of life. Health and luck!