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Fragen, wenn Asia Männen nicht Deutsch sprechen können, gibt es noch möglichkeit...

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11 years 11 months ago #270249 by Be_Special
Fragen, wenn Asia Männen nicht Deutsch sprechen können, gibt es noch möglichkeit hier in Deutschland, um Deutsch Freundin zu haben?

Na ja, ich denke, es ist schwer für mich, ein lange Unterhaltung mit Deutsche Leuter zu haben. Besonders wenn ich mich nicht gut erklärung kann, ist es schwer für eine verbindung zu haben.


Oh gosh sorry for my german. I mean, is it hard for us, especially when we are still new here in Germany, struggling to master the most difficult language in the World (if not Chinese :) ), to have a deeper connection to German girls.

Very often, when I speak English to them, they just answer my questions with short yes and no, but when I switch to German, I realize that they are in general more interesting to say more about themselves, that's make it hard for me to make a connection, or at least try to get to know them more.


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11 years 11 months ago #270263 by Dü van Gogh
Maybe you should look for a German girl who speaks English properly or is interested in talking in English with you?! I often get the feeling that most Germans do know English quite well (they learn it long enough in school anyway), but are just too lazy to use it.

But if it makes you feel more at ease I witnessed so many guys in Germany who didn't speak proper German and still got a German girl...so don't worry about it. I don't think language will be a big problem. :laugh:

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11 years 11 months ago #270271 by Ying
Wozu deutsch? Sag einfach :Ich Tarzan du Jane. Sofort mitkommen. ... :laugh:

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11 years 11 months ago #270286 by hazel_eyes
sowas funktioniert noch?! :blink:

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11 years 11 months ago #270291 by Jessrabbit

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11 years 11 months ago #270296 by Sereni
Bei manch einem hilft auch nicht, wenn er sich Schokolade um den Bauch schnürt.. :whistle:

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11 years 11 months ago #270298 by traveljunkie
Hey Be_Special,

I admit it is not very easy with German girls if you want to get to know them closer, but it is not impossible.

First up, we are usually shy if someone speaks in English to us and we believe we are not good enough and are in danger to embarass us in front of you (especially when you are cute).

Secondly, if we are not fluent we are afraid that the conversation goes nowhere and also we have to go out of our comfort zone, not everyone can do that.

You might want to try Language Exchange meet ups, book clubs and joining in general a group of people that is pretty international. There are sometimes girls that are open minded, interested in learning (and in your case maybe teaching) and different cultures.

I am not sure if you go out, but you might want to try the Expat scene. There are plenty of websites. However if you don't want to meet anyone from online, maybe a course for something you have always wanted to learn brings you closer to the girls. If you show them that you are able to understand them in German, it would make things easier, e. g. you speak in English she in German (?)

Und wirklich Jessrabbit, kidnapping funktioniert nur bei dir

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11 years 11 months ago #270513 by Nanah
I think it depends, if a person is shy he or she would be shy while speking any language. But if not language barrier should not be a problem :)
But most German girls should actually know and speak English very well.

Ich meine common Leute, es wird ab der 5ten Klasse unterrichtet :pinch:

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11 years 11 months ago #270566 by Be_Special
Yes I have seen that, but only if they are from South America or South Europe, never seen Asian.

Just my personal observation, doesnt mean it wont work.

Dü van Gogh wrote: Maybe you should look for a German girl who speaks English properly or is interested in talking in English with you?! I often get the feeling that most Germans do know English quite well (they learn it long enough in school anyway), but are just too lazy to use it.

But if it makes you feel more at ease I witnessed so many guys in Germany who didn't speak proper German and still got a German girl...so don't worry about it. I don't think language will be a big problem. :laugh:

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