Birth date...

unlimited connections can be a problem..the more connections a person have the less additional marginal benefit both person will receive.

imagine you love reeses cups and you eat the first one and its refreshing and gives you the most happiness a reeses cup give you. then you eat 2nd one...its still good, but not as good as the 1st one..then you eat a 3rd one which will not be as good as 1st and 2nd...then you have a 5th reeses sitting on the table which you are pretty much sick off and eating the 5th reeses will not bring you additional benefits..imagine if a girl has 200 connections, each additional add to that girl, the girl will not receive any benefits because he is already tired of previous 200 guys. and the 201th person will definitely not receive additional benefit because he/she will be ignored like the 200th reeses, regardless the fact that 201th person can be a potential perfect match

maybe the connection should be limited to something small like 3? when a person lose interest, he/she can add a different person to keep things fresh. it also give the forum users the ability to choose.

I'd like to reply on wall's writing~

you can do - it's the link called "return gesture" which takes you directly to the poster's wall to reply

Just look to facebook for ideas. Tonnnss of stuff that you can do.

I would personally control the flood of posts that so many pretty newcomers on this site seem to receive. Nothing like a tsunami of desperation to scare the ladies.

I have a few suggestions I'd like to see implemented

1)

Search query results should be sortable.
for example:
"sort results by last online"
"sort results by last joined"



2)
I wouldn't mind if the header/menu was tidy'd up a bit.
For some ideas, here is an example one that I did without making any dramatic changes to the original.
l1j.webs.com/heyai/index.htm

apart from the style, i think it'd be nice to see "edit profile" as a submenu(under 'my page') and the 'interviews, buttons, bored, faq' can be consolidated under one menu.


3) Hobbies and Interest subforum -
(frankly, I think all the different language forums can be consolidated into one)

well, there's the "block user" function which keeps someone from contacting you.
though they still can post on your wall and send you friendship requests.

would it be possible to change the block-function to the extent that they are not able to post on your wall and send these requests?

I think this might help the girls (maybe guys, too) a lot when they are getting harassed or bothered by someone...

Site Admin,

I was a little lost on how to post a Youtube video on my profile page.

Please advise, thanks.

Forgiven

You just copy the link from youtube and paste it. click on the icon that looks like a film roll. paste it over the http:// part and click insert video and then submit.

ForgivenbyJesus wrote: Site Admin,

I was a little lost on how to post a Youtube video on my profile page.

Please advise, thanks.

Forgiven

Tonytfc wrote: You just copy the link from youtube and paste it. click on the icon that looks like a film roll. paste it over the http:// part and click insert video and then submit.

ForgivenbyJesus wrote: Site Admin,

I was a little lost on how to post a Youtube video on my profile page.

Please advise, thanks.

Forgiven

Actually, I noticed yesterday you don't even have to do that (it actually doesn't work for me).... I just paste the link straight into this window and it pops up o.O