Stories of Hey-Ai couples!

The last story sounds so improbable. There are so many points there where any one of them could have done the wrong thing or not been as aggressive in pursuing. It's also so typical of any courtship. The woman goes "meh... maybe... we'll see" and suddenly she "falls" for him at some unknown point for totally irrational reasons.

Men are thankfully more stable in their attractions, with a smoother peak and descent.

wish all these couples last forever~~

MagicMarker wrote: The last story sounds so improbable. There are so many points there where any one of them could have done the wrong thing or not been as aggressive in pursuing. It's also so typical of any courtship. The woman goes "meh... maybe... we'll see" and suddenly she "falls" for him at some unknown point for totally irrational reasons.

Men are thankfully more stable in their attractions, with a smoother peak and descent.

Hmm.. I think love in itself can be irrational. But when you love somebody, you can't just make those feelings go away..and I've definately known men to do crazy things when they fall for a girl. Same goes for women too. I think it's more of just being "human" than anything else. Regardless, I wish you all the best

MagicMarker wrote: The last story sounds so improbable. There are so many points there where any one of them could have done the wrong thing or not been as aggressive in pursuing. It's also so typical of any courtship. The woman goes "meh... maybe... we'll see" and suddenly she "falls" for him at some unknown point for totally irrational reasons.

Men are thankfully more stable in their attractions, with a smoother peak and descent.

There are guys that know how to push those buttons. For them, dating is like playing a game with cheat codes.

MagicMarker wrote: The last story sounds so improbable. There are so many points there where any one of them could have done the wrong thing or not been as aggressive in pursuing. It's also so typical of any courtship. The woman goes "meh... maybe... we'll see" and suddenly she "falls" for him at some unknown point for totally irrational reasons.

Men are thankfully more stable in their attractions, with a smoother peak and descent.

I beg to differ with guys I've met, lol.

Well the thing was that we were sure that we like each other really a lot but just weren't like deep in love for first month He told me that he wasn't sure about his feelings, he was the first one who fell from me tho lol.
We just weren't sure if LDR is for us, it was more about him (as we got together not that long after he was dumped by his ex) and not being sure than me to be honest.

Nobody of us was aggresive in pursuing, we just were aware of the fact that we can have no chemistry IRL that's all

I'm just happy that i have my beloved person and we're both sure, we want to be with each other forever

I really wish i could find that kind of love i got my heart broken a year and a half ago and he was an exchange student from thailand we had two weeks when he kissed me on prom both our first. But after he left he never kept in contact and i tried but i just got sad and wish i had done things differently. He had not to cry but i lied and said i wouldnt. I came on here because i want to find love as i did with him cause i cant find it at my school.

yuukigirly wrote: I really wish i could find that kind of love i got my heart broken a year and a half ago and he was an exchange student from thailand we had two weeks when he kissed me on prom both our first. But after he left he never kept in contact and i tried but i just got sad and wish i had done things differently. He had not to cry but i lied and said i wouldnt. I came on here because i want to find love as i did with him cause i cant find it at my school.

Dont we all *sigh lol

Oh dear I can tell u one thing, love is something nice but have also shadow sites but believe me u are 16 in ur life will come a lot people who will make u sad but as more who make u happy Und mach dir nichts draus es gibt so viele schöne Mütter mit schönen söhnen hör auf eine alte Frau xD

yuukigirly wrote: I really wish i could find that kind of love i got my heart broken a year and a half ago and he was an exchange student from thailand we had two weeks when he kissed me on prom both our first. But after he left he never kept in contact and i tried but i just got sad and wish i had done things differently. He had not to cry but i lied and said i wouldnt. I came on here because i want to find love as i did with him cause i cant find it at my school.

so sad
there are plenty of good guys out there,
hope you will find the right one
you are young ! dont waste your time like i did

best wishes