So what is it that attracts you to the opposite sex?

Genetic homogeneity....or money

Lannister clan checking in

Nothing

but:

If she's impossible (or at least almost imp) to getting conquered by another guy and having a "strong personality" with a good sense of humour and being just the opposite of a kind of girl to me... then I could think about trying talk to her. And if she's intelligent enough... well then maybe I'd spend more time talking to her

I know it sounds smug but it's an honestly answer.

No one who has a good est. social life would find any "slutties or dummies" attractive... they might look good... but that's by far not enough to get my attention.

If I had to Break it Down

flipflop wrote: My ears are also extremely sensitive to sounds and tones, what I hear and how I hear it influences a lot of my perceptions towards attraction.

First >> my ears are the first to pick up the radar, its odd but true lol tone plays a major part for me

paws wrote: Pheromones | Yeah it must be that smell | Draws me like flies to a light

Second>> my nose engages in the lovely (or not so lovely) scent surrounding the male - if I like I stay

The final part of my attraction process is to engage the eyes

Warm Personality
gentle heart
hugs
beauty
generosity
encouragement

Also being affectionate,caring, supportive and understanding. Works out, takes good care of their health.Small waist large hip ratio.Thick legs and ass.Must have a high sex drive for the entire relationship, and never refuses sex.

Im not picky at all.

Specific features in someone attracted me when I was younger (big butts or sweet eyes) but now it has gotten much more complex. The attraction lies in the little nuances of chemistry that I simply can't even put my finger on. Among the things I can point is mostly our compatible personalities, gazing at each other sincerely, comfort level, a sweet smile...and there's so much more...that's what really gets my blood hot.

The kind of girl who uses words like "cognizant" and "potentially" in the most F’ing casual manner, who strips these words of their sophistication and authority and brings them down to the ground and makes them comfortable and warm and huggable. I drown in my own pool of insecure urine in her presence which by the way she just loves to bring up all the time.

physical: eyes, legs, health, how she presents herself

mental: how she speaks, how knowledgeable, manners, personality

To me, the sincery, trust is the most vital factor in a relationship. As for ideal boyfriend, i am not sure how to exactly define , Yes it is nice and interesting or of diverse personalities,first i have to meet you in depth and make a final decision..

Physically, if someone has a good nose or smile. Also, I think women are biological wired to notice height.
But if someone can make me laugh, their face is nearly irrelevant. I deal with a lot of my emotions using humor, so it's super important to me.

Hormones attract me to the opposite sex?

In terms of how important a girls' physical appearance is, I believe it's the person's personality that makes their appearance, not the other way around