Asian Men and Black Women

nothing's impossible.

I think black or white doesn't really matter. Both ethnics are really exotic to Asians. Believe in yourself. Btw I'm an Asian who is into black and white girls. But certainly not Asian girls.

Love when Asian guys are open minded.

I've had the ocassional attraction to black women. I think many are beautiful, especially the physical aspect if you know what I mean

Guys are going to be guys no matter the race...like I've had bfs from Korea , China ,(not born here) and they all love my skin color and body , yea even guys who are straight from China think black women are sexy af , it's all just apart of the game . Honestly if a guy thinks of a black women less than another because of some movie or a bad encounter ...sorry that's his loss . If they like a woman for who she is rather than who she might be according to mass media ...more power to you js .

I've never had any problems getting Asian guys to notice me. It's the Black and Latino guys that don't seem to like that much. And becuase I thought I was supposed to date a black guy; I used to think there was some wrong with me. But when I started opening up to my Polynesian half and not just my black side, everything got a lot easier.

Welcome! It's not so bad. I've dated an Asian guy. Didn't work out,but it was quite a good relationship. We're still even friends. I have a friend that married an Asian guy. She was his first kiss and all. haha XD Just be confident and warm. Maybe the guys don't think you'd like them eh? <3333

As far back as I can remember, I've always been attracted to black girls. It's always been pretty damn obvious too. Lmao Same goes for Caucasian, hispanic and hapa. Not full asians for some reason. Actually, it's probably because I see most Asian girls as extensions of my family. hahah

don't ever feel ur not good enough for a race, if someone tells u ur skin is not attractive usually they are immaturity and i bet they have issues with their self to a point. i noticed most people that hate darker skin are busy hating their skin enough to do something about it. i mean most these asian dudes on here don't even like their own background to a point and u know how the saying goes if u can't love urself who will love u?? though don't get me wrong im not talking about all but most.

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Hello and welcome to Hey Ai!
Yes, the same question I asked myself, too.
Because it seems Asian men are only either into their "own" women who are Asians themselves or into blonde and blue-eyed western girls.
I do not know why, since I find latinas or black women much more attractive than blondes.
Maybe because latinas and blacks are more strong and say what's on their minds than quiet and devoted white girls.
Very few men want a woman with personality, because most of them are immature kids (even with 40 years) and want something they can push their own ego up with.

I know this is a very old post but...

Many people mistake attitude for personality.

A woman with a personality is confident, has her own thoughts, ideas, hobbies, interests etc. and might even be quirky or nerdy. That's attractive because then you can actually interact with them and share a lot of activities with them. Women with no personality or who always asks me to tell them what to think is exhausting to keep up with.

People who have bad attitudes can be frustrating to deal with: they act like they know everything, they try to assert their ideas over other people, and enforce double standards that benefit themselves. They call obnoxiousness confidence but it isn't.

To me a strong woman is one who is smart, confident, independent, resourceful and resilient. She can also be caring, loving, and ambitious.

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I'm from an area where there are limited numbers of black people but if I actually met a few and we had chemistry I don't see why I wouldn't like them. This has been the case for white and South Asian women for me. Now I'm all about the white and South Asian girls.

I read an article or watched a video that touched on AMBF pairings. It is more difficult because black people don't have light skin privilege. I have heard from other Asian friends that their family would be okay with them dating White people but not black, latin, or Indian so that kind of makes sense. Many other reasons include: media portrayal and stereotypes, contact theory and maybe a lack of opportunities to meet black women.