What turns you on?

when I get a good night message from SO

when his hair is covering his eyes, it puts more emphasis and focus on his lips. makes me go crazy.

i think it's exciting to become a little bit like one's partner the longer you hang out with them because you pick up on their traits or mindsets and they've had an influence on you. they kind of shape and mold your personality a little more. and when you're away from them, you are reminded of them whenever you notice or say things the way they would have. it makes you love and miss them even more.

How about consistency and loyalty?

I find that sexy. Knowing that someone is really "in it" and trying at a relationship with you and only you.

Steve JS wrote: How about consistency and loyalty?

I find that sexy. Knowing that someone is really "in it" and trying at a relationship with you and only you.

to me, that's what makes it feel like a true and lasting friendship. that's when i become one of those "i'll sacrifice my life for you" type of persons (if any harm comes their way), being extra protective, but only if it's a true friendship where the bond and love for them is as close as a family member's.

So hard to find in today's world though. Everyone is looking for validation from as many guys/girls as they can get it from

People coming to the chat room XDD

men who open their mouth really wide.
(i can't help it, i like seeing their lips make all kinds of expressions. )

Steve JS wrote: So hard to find in today's world though. Everyone is looking for validation from as many guys/girls as they can get it from

yep, maybe it's just a matter of staying certain the right one will come when the time is right. and if that person doesn't come, having crushes for other people can be exciting, too, because of all the gooey feelings involved.

this is why i only date asian men. they make cute sounds when they move around: