What turns you on?

EYH1988 wrote:

Evedelirious wrote: Modest touches in a public setting. When you're out and they lead you touching the small of your back or resting a hand on your knee. They aren't inherently sexual but the undertones are what really capture my attention.

I once had a date with a man who was very quiet and I was on the fence about whether he was interested or not and if I wanted to put effort into it.
We were sitting in a cafe and when I crossed my legs he reached out and caught my ankle. I had no idea what he was doing until he simply set my foot in his lap and gently fixed the strap on my sandal.

That simple yet unexpected touch completely changed the game. I was his from that point in the date on. (Sadly we didn't work out.)

You know, at the end of 2010 I was on my way to Michigan from San Diego, California, to meet my parents for a few days the fly to Brazil to have a huge family reunion, in the airplane from Dallas, Texas(I think) to Detroit, Michigan, I sat next to a very cute girl, she was dressed very stylish and sophisticated she was probably my age or a bit older (22 at the time), while we were traveling she initiated a conversation and we had a pleasant talk for about an hour; I still remember when she offered me some animal crackers from the ziplock she brought with her. After a while she passed out, and was leaning on my shoulder the entire flight, for some reason it turned me on, not in sexual way, but in a warm feeling way. Unfortunately I didn't get her phone number or anything.

You know I think these sorts of things are so enticing because of the rarity of people touching others so innocently. Community has all but dwindled here and trust and vulnerability between people is difficult. It's hard for not only the person reaching out fearing rejection and the person receiving to recognize it as comfort and sweetness rather than a violation.

Sweet story , too bad you didn't get her number. haha

Lady_Jackson wrote:

Evedelirious wrote: ...he simply set my foot in his lap and gently fixed the strap on my sandal.

Gentlemen still exist! I'm head over heels for that type.

Oh I know, I had never had anything like that happen before it was stunning. I think I even cliched and lost my breathe for a moment, who knew something so simple could be so intense. If only more men had this sort of demeanor, we'd all be putty. haha

breakfast foods...mmm!!!

when the tampon string is visible. lulz

Long hair that smells nice gives me weak knees

silk



fur :3

^

Not getting charged for extra sauce at Mcdoanlds

really old men with a lot of money.

Rubber duckies and dolphins