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Why don't Asian , Korean , Japanese ETC , like black women

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9 years 1 month ago - 9 years 1 month ago #424384 by PrettyyBritt
I feel there afraid to date them because of stereotypes , I've dated one before but I think all he sated was black girls , I'm black & white & I find them very attracted & love dating outside my race , I have talk to one recently & he seem into me until he started asking for uncensored pics of me , & sending me pics so I cut that off
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9 years 1 month ago #424400 by Soolyne
Hi hi,

I am gonna try to give my own answer regarding this topic but yes I dont pretend to make it a fact, tho this is what I observed.

If you are talking about Asians in Asia, I think it's just a matter of cultural beauty standards than anything else. You will notice that there, being "super white" is a huge beauty requirement, hence the fact that you will always see japanese girls avoiding the sun (except ganguros, yamambas etc but that's a trend that is actually rejected by japanese people in general). So it isnt even a matter of stereotypes, nor racism or anything, just a traditional aspect of their perception of beauty.

Then for Asians abroad (europe, america etc), some of them still want to respect their parents requirements and stay within their own communitty, others wont, that's a matter of individuals and their own tastes and decisions. I have myself a lot of asian friends who have completely diferent tastes, some like black women more, others asians, whites, north africans, latinas, it really depends.

So I dont know if i made my point clear but, I was just trying to say that it depends basically of your environment, where you grew up, how were you raised, what are your tastes, how do you perceive beauty. Just like for anyone else actually...

Anyway, keep your mind open, in this life, everything is possible :cheer:
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9 years 1 month ago - 9 years 1 month ago #424407 by Korean_Romeo
My advice to Black women are similar as my advice to Asian men. Both Black women and Asian men makes the lowest rank of racial hierarchy when it comes to interracial attractiveness. Don't look for those who "likes Black women/Asian men," but rather look for those who will like you. Or better yet, try to make them like you. Just because men and women generally aren't attracted to Black women and Asian men, this doesn't mean most of them won't find any individuals who happened to be Black woman or Asian man attractive. Most of the case, it's not that they have problem with women being Black or men being Asian, but rather it has to do with what Black women and Asian men lack to attract them. And it's not even just that. Both Black women and Asian men seem to suffer from defeatism with assumption(quite accurate one I might say) that many men and women aren't attracted to them. This awareness often makes both Black women and Asian men radiates this unintended negativity that actually plays(in quite substantial level) the role of turning lot of other men and women off. While we may talk about being victims of racism, both Black women and Asian men(I think this is more of the case for Asian men) should stop being victims of self-victimization.
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9 years 1 month ago #424421 by PrettyyBritt
I agree , I have matched with a lot of Asians on like tinder but I just feel they probably want me sexually lol , but I'm sure if I put my mind into it , & show them all black girls are not " Ghetto , & loud " he'll come around
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9 years 1 month ago - 9 years 1 month ago #424430 by hbkmog
I'm not gonna sugar coat or make it sound politically correct. It's actually very simple reason. Black people in general are pretty much looked down upon in Asia compared to other races due to stereotypes and history reasons. But most importantly, most Asians simply don't find them attractive. Actually it's not even racism, many of them have no problem with having black friends, but they just don't find them romantically attractive.
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9 years 1 month ago #424431 by PrettyyBritt
Yes I agree also the stereotypes mess up for black women because all are not like that , but thank you
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9 years 1 month ago - 9 years 1 month ago #424432 by Benny
Black women simply not so well known" deep down" compair to black men.

I can see a lot of ppl buddy around with some cool black dudes ,but the other picture is gonna take sometimes to display worldwide .unless Hollywood decide to creat something "inspiring",like they did to bruse lee.

I could be wrong.

-nakupenda we we
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9 years 1 month ago #424438 by andrew07w
There's always somebody for someone! Just be yourself!
Like I always said, at the end of the day, your personality and the chemistry between you two are what matter, not where you come from.
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9 years 1 month ago #424439 by PrettyyBritt
Thank you I love how you put that
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9 years 1 month ago #424440 by CNM
says who? actually, u know what? who cares says who? if u really feel this way, it's probably because u haven't slept with many asian guys. when i was a virgin, i used to feel the same way that "blah blah blah why don't white girls liek asian guys? why don't black girls like asian guys?..." after u sleep with at least dozens of them, i promise u that u will look back n laugh at whatever wrote here, hon. ;)
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