this is for men...

San_Ichiban wrote: shes long gone.

omg its you, you're still around x)

i deleted fb last year hehe

lul nah, im dead. my ghosts still roaming heyai.
havent used fb in aaaages anyway lmao
hope youre aight. hope tdot is aight. hope montage le is aight (;

Phattycakes wrote: I’ll disagree. I have goals and ambition. Most of the women I meet seem to have no goals, no ambitions, or no sense of adventure. They just want to be stay at home moms or just want to be taken care of. I mean if that’s your goal go for it. More power to you if you pull it off. I prefer the strong independent women, who can think for themselves, and take care of themselves. It’s just a completely different feeling for me. I look at like what does both sides have to offer each other and how will that affect our quality of life. If I just wanted to lower my standards, knock up some chick, and take care of her I could do that anywhere. I’m single, because I want to be. If I’m not single, it’s because I actually want to date this lady. Imagine a female finding out that you lowered your standards or they didn’t meet your expectations while you were dating.

I always felt the same way! We know our self-worth and are conscious of it. I'm highly ambitious and value women who are strong, independent, and intelligent as well... I escaped 2 marriages. Even though the women I was semi-engaged to were beautiful, they didn't have a brain. I couldn't even hold a solid intellectual conversation with the. Most weren't independent and I don't want to get married, like most people, for financial security. That's a recipe for disaster. I'd rather be homeless and eat cardboard under a bridge before that happens. Personally, for me, I felt like I was always carrying the weight of the relationship. Although I'm a little more dominant in the relationship, I believe the relationship needs to be balanced to work out. I'm also single because I choose to be single. On top of that, I got priorities that are not similar to any women I've met so far. Most of the women I dated in the past are now disgustingly overweight with like 3 kids now. I count my blessings every day for dodging the biggest mistakes I never made. Let's just say I own plenty of toys and have a crap ton hobbies and can go anywhere I want because I'm a single bachelor and have an up and coming successful career! (fingers crossed).

SIMP

bfkSleeper wrote:

Phattycakes wrote: I’ll disagree. I have goals and ambition. Most of the women I meet seem to have no goals, no ambitions, or no sense of adventure. They just want to be stay at home moms or just want to be taken care of. I mean if that’s your goal go for it. More power to you if you pull it off. I prefer the strong independent women, who can think for themselves, and take care of themselves. It’s just a completely different feeling for me. I look at like what does both sides have to offer each other and how will that affect our quality of life. If I just wanted to lower my standards, knock up some chick, and take care of her I could do that anywhere. I’m single, because I want to be. If I’m not single, it’s because I actually want to date this lady. Imagine a female finding out that you lowered your standards or they didn’t meet your expectations while you were dating.

I always felt the same way! We know our self-worth and are conscious of it. I'm highly ambitious and value women who are strong, independent, and intelligent as well... I escaped 2 marriages. Even though the women I was semi-engaged to were beautiful, they didn't have a brain. I couldn't even hold a solid intellectual conversation with the. Most weren't independent and I don't want to get married, like most people, for financial security. That's a recipe for disaster. I'd rather be homeless and eat cardboard under a bridge before that happens. Personally, for me, I felt like I was always carrying the weight of the relationship. Although I'm a little more dominant in the relationship, I believe the relationship needs to be balanced to work out. I'm also single because I choose to be single. On top of that, I got priorities that are not similar to any women I've met so far. Most of the women I dated in the past are now disgustingly overweight with like 3 kids now. I count my blessings every day for dodging the biggest mistakes I never made. Let's just say I own plenty of toys and have a crap ton hobbies and can go anywhere I want because I'm a single bachelor and have an up and coming successful career! (fingers crossed).

In theory it might sound good however in practice it is not.