white-washed asian girls that reject asian men in the states

BurghersRevolt wrote:

kensup wrote: When you're talking about your interracial dating experiences with women, your appearances are an extremely relevant factor -- probably more so than your race. Hate to burst your bubble.

In hiding your picture, you hide most of the context behind your insecurities, particularly about being Asian.

Appearances are important, for both men and women, for both inter and intra-racial dating.

Who are you to judge the reasons why people hide their pictures? Perhaps they're not here to find a partner. Perhaps they value their privacy and only send pics to known friends after some time. Perhaps they're horribly disfigured from a childhood accident. Perhaps they're into the challenge of picking up someone without a shred of info listed on the profile. I'll leave it to you to guess which reason is mine.

Not everyone is insecure. We also don't try to mask insecurity using false bravado (e.g. claiming to be the sexiest man alive).

revolt, you really have to admire kensup's logic and not take him too seriously and laugh it off. he comes up with the craziest notions. its just like facebook.

why do you think batman puts on a mask? this is kensup's logic, he must be mad ugly underneath.



haven't i been saying i got game from europeans in states. other american white men told me of the same problems with american chicks.

i combine everything to form my opinions, my personal experiences, other's experiences, and research data from book/etc, to form a multi-perspective perception on things.

this examplifies why people say there are two sides to every story and a fair person should seek both sides.

Variability wrote:

BurghersRevolt wrote:

kensup wrote: When you're talking about your interracial dating experiences with women, your appearances are an extremely relevant factor -- probably more so than your race. Hate to burst your bubble.

In hiding your picture, you hide most of the context behind your insecurities, particularly about being Asian.

Appearances are important, for both men and women, for both inter and intra-racial dating.

Who are you to judge the reasons why people hide their pictures? Perhaps they're not here to find a partner. Perhaps they value their privacy and only send pics to known friends after some time. Perhaps they're horribly disfigured from a childhood accident. Perhaps they're into the challenge of picking up someone without a shred of info listed on the profile. I'll leave it to you to guess which reason is mine.

Not everyone is insecure. We also don't try to mask insecurity using false bravado (e.g. claiming to be the sexiest man alive).

Though it's admirable for you to stand up for whoever, it really isn't necessary to defend him with your points.

Since the topic itself is quite a negative stance, and through his posts thetraveler has made it obvious he's quite biased, and not a big leap quite bitter and negative overall in this topic. The point of bringing up that he does not have a picture is just to disprove his stance on the topic at hand.

and you are better because you are not baised yourself?

thetraveler wrote:

Variability wrote:

BurghersRevolt wrote:

kensup wrote: When you're talking about your interracial dating experiences with women, your appearances are an extremely relevant factor -- probably more so than your race. Hate to burst your bubble.

In hiding your picture, you hide most of the context behind your insecurities, particularly about being Asian.

Appearances are important, for both men and women, for both inter and intra-racial dating.

Who are you to judge the reasons why people hide their pictures? Perhaps they're not here to find a partner. Perhaps they value their privacy and only send pics to known friends after some time. Perhaps they're horribly disfigured from a childhood accident. Perhaps they're into the challenge of picking up someone without a shred of info listed on the profile. I'll leave it to you to guess which reason is mine.

Not everyone is insecure. We also don't try to mask insecurity using false bravado (e.g. claiming to be the sexiest man alive).

Though it's admirable for you to stand up for whoever, it really isn't necessary to defend him with your points.

Since the topic itself is quite a negative stance, and through his posts thetraveler has made it obvious he's quite biased, and not a big leap quite bitter and negative overall in this topic. The point of bringing up that he does not have a picture is just to disprove his stance on the topic at hand.

and you are better because you are not baised yourself?

No, he's saying you need a picture. What's with the profile picture obsession?

Because if you're ugly, that's the main reason you're being rejected. Not because your race.

Hochseeflotte_Kaiserliche Marine wrote: Real life situation I have been in:

(At a party with lots people including non-Asians)

Asian American girl: "I don't date Asian guys"

Non-Asian people: "Huh, why the hell not?!" [clearly thinking this is strange]

Asian American girl: "Because Asian guys are all short and nerdy"

Non-Asian people: [Some slight laughs ]

Asian American girl: "And they all have really small penises!"

[Crowd erupts in laughter, with the Asian American girl leading the way]

Asian American girl: [Uses her thumb and index finger to measure 1 inch] "Yes so tiny!"

[Everyone laughs even louder, all the white women look at me mockingly assuming I have a 1 inch penis, cause hey, who better to know the truth about Asian guys than Asian women right?]

I stand there absolutely humiliated, shocked and feeling like I want to cry from embarrassment. All the white girls there look at me laughing, clearly with absolute derision. I know what they are thinking. Some white guys pat me on the back and say sarcastically "It's ok buddy, size isn't everything"

The Asian girl joins all the white people and I sink into the background with my confidence and self esteem in ruins. The white girl I had just met before and was having a good conversation with quietly moves away from me and starts talking to other people. All the other girls, White and Asian, subtly ignore me for the rest of the night, and I am implicitly excluded from the group.

I came to the night in my best clothes, spent hundreds of dollars on the latest fashion, styled my hair well, and was hyped up and ready to meet all the pretty girls (even the Asian ones). I was full of confidence, my game plan was primed and ready. And then what happens?
The Asian girls pull out the small dick jokes, all the white girls laugh and think I'm not worth shit, my game plan is destroyed and I get completely exterminated from the nights dating scene.

After getting sick of being ignored and not having the face to approach any of the girls who laughed at me, I slip away to the bar, no-one cares or even notices. I down shot after shot of vodka to compensate myself for an appallingly disastrous night. Instead of leaving with some beautiful girls ready to party into the morning as I had hoped for, I head home in misery and despair.
Then in a cruel ironic twist of fate, I spend the rest of the night mindlessly playing computer games to pass the depressing time, the very nerd stereotype I had tried so hard to get away from and convince everyone wasn't true.

As I down some more whisky and slump onto the couch ready to fall into a deep sleep and forget the pain, I picture the most likely scenario, all the Asian girls probably left the party with white guys. And here I am, sitting by myself at home pussyless, knowing I will never see any of those girls at the party ever again.
But then I realise, the night and my game plan which I had prepared for battle with so much strength, determination, confidence and motivation had not been annihilated by a cataclysmic event, or by a series of major defeats my many powerful adversaries, but by one sentence and one woman: THE ASIAN WOMAN.

Alright, that crazy Asian girl is obviously a nutcase for trying to publicly humiliate you. What's really unfortunate is that she's exploiting the fact that men can't hit women and using it to attack you and what she knows is the male ego's most sensitive area (no pun intended). I mean, everyone guy here knows that if he went up to a random guy of any race and said "Hey Tiny Dick!" he'd be asking for a punch to the face.

So how do you respond to something like this? Well, the Dale Carnegie, "socially-enlightened" way would be not to react at all--walk away, say nothing, and go about your business like a nice little boy.

But on the rare occasion when someone starts making unsolicited attacks on you and tries to humiliate you with no just cause, fair is fair.

In this instance you can't get angry. You can't fight insult with insult (i.e. "You have the tits of a 12 year old boy." ) In these situations you have to be the unfazed, all-knowing wise one. You attack her reasoning and mindset, not her words. You have to respond in a way that leaves her in her own verbal Catch-22: something she cannot argue for or against. You give a half-smile and you say something like:

"Eh, you're just upset because you can't find an Asian guy who'll go out with you."

Think about it. If anything, it'll make her more upset, which will validate your own assessment to the peanut gallery even more. Ever see someone say "I'm not upset!" in ever-increasing anger and volume?

Yeah.. I don't get rejected

i nvr met any white wash asian women in my country

VIP wrote:

leftyTokio wrote:

Hochseeflotte_Kaiserliche Marine wrote: Real life situation I have been in:

(At a party with lots people including non-Asians)

Asian American girl: "I don't date Asian guys"

Non-Asian people: "Huh, why the hell not?!" [clearly thinking this is strange]

Asian American girl: "Because Asian guys are all short and nerdy"

Non-Asian people: [Some slight laughs ]

Asian American girl: "And they all have really small penises!"

[Crowd erupts in laughter, with the Asian American girl leading the way]

Asian American girl: [Uses her thumb and index finger to measure 1 inch] "Yes so tiny!"

[Everyone laughs even louder, all the white women look at me mockingly assuming I have a 1 inch penis, cause hey, who better to know the truth about Asian guys than Asian women right?]

I stand there absolutely humiliated, shocked and feeling like I want to cry from embarrassment. All the white girls there look at me laughing, clearly with absolute derision. I know what they are thinking. Some white guys pat me on the back and say sarcastically "It's ok buddy, size isn't everything"

The Asian girl joins all the white people and I sink into the background with my confidence and self esteem in ruins. The white girl I had just met before and was having a good conversation with quietly moves away from me and starts talking to other people. All the other girls, White and Asian, subtly ignore me for the rest of the night, and I am implicitly excluded from the group.

I came to the night in my best clothes, spent hundreds of dollars on the latest fashion, styled my hair well, and was hyped up and ready to meet all the pretty girls (even the Asian ones). I was full of confidence, my game plan was primed and ready. And then what happens?
The Asian girls pull out the small dick jokes, all the white girls laugh and think I'm not worth shit, my game plan is destroyed and I get completely exterminated from the nights dating scene.

After getting sick of being ignored and not having the face to approach any of the girls who laughed at me, I slip away to the bar, no-one cares or even notices. I down shot after shot of vodka to compensate myself for an appallingly disastrous night. Instead of leaving with some beautiful girls ready to party into the morning as I had hoped for, I head home in misery and despair.
Then in a cruel ironic twist of fate, I spend the rest of the night mindlessly playing computer games to pass the depressing time, the very nerd stereotype I had tried so hard to get away from and convince everyone wasn't true.

As I down some more whisky and slump onto the couch ready to fall into a deep sleep and forget the pain, I picture the most likely scenario, all the Asian girls probably left the party with white guys. And here I am, sitting by myself at home pussyless, knowing I will never see any of those girls at the party ever again.
But then I realise, the night and my game plan which I had prepared for battle with so much strength, determination, confidence and motivation had not been annihilated by a cataclysmic event, or by a series of major defeats my many powerful adversaries, but by one sentence and one woman: THE ASIAN WOMAN.

You should have pulled it out and showed it off!

or reply to that asian girl saying "Are you sure it's not just because you have a huge and loose vagina?" (from an episode of curb your enthusiasm)

and then annouce to the other girls "You'll just have to find out if what she said is true yourselves.. "

HAHAHA I tought the same,so much loosen to blame asian guys size.

Tbh, it doesn't bother me if asian girls or guys said they prefer someone from other race. What bother me is they insult asian girls/guys. I know this one asian guy who prefer white girls and said bad things about asian girls. Ex. asian girls are ugly, gold digger or slut. I mean really? Try to say that to your mom. Even if you have bad experiences with asian girls in the past, doesn't mean you have the right to say that. But that probably happened because he's in the states. In Indonesia(where i lived), there are some indonesian girls who would only date white guy because it's like a trophy for them but only some girls are like this. Chinese people in indonesia is more conservative, we are expected to marry someone within our race. Even though things are started to change and some chinese parents don't mind if we date or marry someone from another race. But i have to say, attraction between chinese people here is strong. I feel that too as i find girls from my own race attractive. But then again, i also find some girls from another race attractive.

haha good thread to revive.

if i am a white girl who only dates asian (or native) men, then i can't have any problem with asian-american girls who only date white guys. if anything they are doing me a favor freeing up the asian guys for dating.

i would disagree and say race is important in a relationship if it's something that matters to you. i've dated white guys before and whenever i'd pass by a good-looking asian guy while with the white guy, i felt a sense of regret and longing. i know that if i chose a non-asian life partner, i would not feel physically satisfied. so i'd rather be single than date a non-asian guy to fill in the space. but to those who really don't care at all about race, kudos and more power to you. i have a very specific and rare type however, which is a double edged sword - there aren't many guys i like, but it makes the right guys for me easier to find because there are less to sort through.