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Jossie wrote:

TChan wrote:

Jossie wrote: I think this is an inner conflict topic, so it seems very personal to post it here. I don't think they're trying to hate on her, but maybe they just think she's posting such personal feelings to get sympathy. Yes, some people were rude here. But I think it's just an instinct to judge her like this. But it does not make it okay.

No hate.

I don't mean to get all twisted on this, but those trolls never met a girl who tried to kill herself.

My best friend killed herself. Dead on, I know.

I think it's something that only she, herself, can fix. Our words are nothing but empty flattery.
Maybe a good support system would work.

She might not have a good support system. A lot of people actually might but do not see it as enough to get them through. If this forum is needed to help her through some hard times, than so be it. I'm not saying to sugarcoat anything because I know in the end it is bs. But don't say stuff to bring a person down, not with issues like this.

TChan wrote:

Jossie wrote:

TChan wrote:

Jossie wrote: I think this is an inner conflict topic, so it seems very personal to post it here. I don't think they're trying to hate on her, but maybe they just think she's posting such personal feelings to get sympathy. Yes, some people were rude here. But I think it's just an instinct to judge her like this. But it does not make it okay.

No hate.

I don't mean to get all twisted on this, but those trolls never met a girl who tried to kill herself.

My best friend killed herself. Dead on, I know.

I think it's something that only she, herself, can fix. Our words are nothing but empty flattery.
Maybe a good support system would work.

She might not have a good support system. A lot of people actually might but do not see it as enough to get them through. If this forum is needed to help her through some hard times, than so be it. I'm not saying to sugarcoat anything because I know in the end it is bs. But don't say stuff to bring a person down, not with issues like this.

Right. But most people here are quite self centered, even myself. And as much as we all want to support here there's always going to be trolls like these. Maybe it's time to shut our ears.

Jossie wrote:

TChan wrote:

Jossie wrote:

TChan wrote:

Jossie wrote: I think this is an inner conflict topic, so it seems very personal to post it here. I don't think they're trying to hate on her, but maybe they just think she's posting such personal feelings to get sympathy. Yes, some people were rude here. But I think it's just an instinct to judge her like this. But it does not make it okay.

No hate.

I don't mean to get all twisted on this, but those trolls never met a girl who tried to kill herself.

My best friend killed herself. Dead on, I know.

I think it's something that only she, herself, can fix. Our words are nothing but empty flattery.
Maybe a good support system would work.

She might not have a good support system. A lot of people actually might but do not see it as enough to get them through. If this forum is needed to help her through some hard times, than so be it. I'm not saying to sugarcoat anything because I know in the end it is bs. But don't say stuff to bring a person down, not with issues like this.

Right. But most people here are quite self centered, even myself. And as much as we all want to support here there's always going to be trolls like these. Maybe it's time to shut our ears.

I can see that people are self centered, but I wouldn't ever let that affect me. They want to attack, I am not ashamed of defending a person. Cyber bullies are the weakest individuals I have ever heard of. I wonder what happened to them to make their minds so ignorant.

TChan wrote:

Jossie wrote:

TChan wrote:

Jossie wrote:

TChan wrote:

Jossie wrote: I think this is an inner conflict topic, so it seems very personal to post it here. I don't think they're trying to hate on her, but maybe they just think she's posting such personal feelings to get sympathy. Yes, some people were rude here. But I think it's just an instinct to judge her like this. But it does not make it okay.

No hate.

I don't mean to get all twisted on this, but those trolls never met a girl who tried to kill herself.

My best friend killed herself. Dead on, I know.

I think it's something that only she, herself, can fix. Our words are nothing but empty flattery.
Maybe a good support system would work.

She might not have a good support system. A lot of people actually might but do not see it as enough to get them through. If this forum is needed to help her through some hard times, than so be it. I'm not saying to sugarcoat anything because I know in the end it is bs. But don't say stuff to bring a person down, not with issues like this.

Right. But most people here are quite self centered, even myself. And as much as we all want to support here there's always going to be trolls like these. Maybe it's time to shut our ears.

I can see that people are self centered, but I wouldn't ever let that affect me. They want to attack, I am not ashamed of defending a person. Cyber bullies are the weakest individuals I have ever heard of. I wonder what happened to them to make their minds so ignorant.

You're right. Good words. Good words.

Maybe the same thing happened to them. It's a cycle.

tornadomushroom wrote: I can tell that shes obviously not fishing for compliments. Unlike how some girls on here do * COUGH * the girl who posted that midnight is fishing. * COUGH *.

Something this personal, whoever replies with the honest truth will always sound mean. But at least some are mature about it. Some people though, are such attention whores, they're willing to degrade another person just to gain some kind of attention.

Disappointing.

Wow really? Hating on me? You don't even know me.
Listen buddy, I know how she feels because I have my own major self esteem issues. Everyone has them but some people have different ways of dealing with it.

We were all born unique for a reason. Better to embrace it than try to change something God gave you for a reason.

And for the record, what Jossie states here was my thoughts exactly. I just don't believe a public forum is the appropriate place to share these feelings. Confide in people close to you.

Jossie wrote: I think this is an inner conflict topic, so it seems very personal to post it here. I don't think they're trying to hate on her, but maybe they just think she's posting such personal feelings to get sympathy. Yes, some people were rude here.

bentobeatbox wrote:

tornadomushroom wrote: I can tell that shes obviously not fishing for compliments. Unlike how some girls on here do * COUGH * the girl who posted that midnight is fishing. * COUGH *.

Something this personal, whoever replies with the honest truth will always sound mean. But at least some are mature about it. Some people though, are such attention whores, they're willing to degrade another person just to gain some kind of attention.

Disappointing.

Wow really? Hating on me? You don't even know me.
Listen buddy, I know how she feels because I have my own major self esteem issues. Everyone has them but some people have different ways of dealing with it.

We were all born unique for a reason. Better to embrace it than try to change something God gave you for a reason.

Hating on you? I'm just throwing the fire you threw on Midnight back at you. Do you know her?

Honestly Bento, you don't think i already know that we're all unique? Why else would i state that " Everyone is insecure in their own ways ".

Everyone has different ways of dealing with it like you said, and yet you say that its better to embrace it than change something god gave you? How does that even make sense? What if you're naturally physically big and you want to be smaller?

I'm just passing the flame right back to you Bento. If you don't want fire, don't start it.

You know, everyone's beautiful in their own way except for fake people. We all have some things we don't like about ourselves.

Lets not throw the flame at one another here, posting something like this to the public you bound to get mix results. Hell, I sometimes fish for compliments but I do it more discreetly with people I know at least because they know me a bit better. Posting here, I would assume you either very insecure or fishing. Anyways the main poster revoked her post so let this post fade away before more people get upset.

I just noticed she also made a post titled "IM BACK" today. And I was like "Who is she? Why is she announcing she's back?" and then this thread.

Fine. I'll take the flame.
Leaving now. :/