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10 years 9 months ago #346639 by realsouthern
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Attempting to figure out how to be sexy.

TV make this shite look easy.

Fuck no, it's not easy. >:/

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10 years 9 months ago - 10 years 9 months ago #346641 by Korean_Romeo
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Watching news.

realsouthern wrote: Attempting to figure out how to be sexy.


You ARE already sexy. :)
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10 years 9 months ago #346643 by TimmyJimmyTV
Playing with money but i rather play with a woman.
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10 years 9 months ago #346658 by aPrettiiSoul
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Nothing-ness!!!!! B) :woohoo:

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10 years 9 months ago - 10 years 9 months ago #346690 by limitz
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I just finished reading this long and interesting article in psychologytoday.com and figured, why not? I'll share it.
Provided below is only one segment of the entire article. If you do read it; I wish you the best. LOL

What's In a Face? [Click here]

I. BEYOND THE HALO EFFECT: Attractiveness and Personality

Our assessment of attractiveness is automatic, and strongly influences how we judge the person on a range of other traits, including personality. In a surprising experiment at the University of Pennsylvania, neuroscientists Ingrid Olson and Christy Marshuetz asked volunteers to judge pre-rated faces, some beautiful and others homely. The judges claimed that they didn't see anything; the faces flashed by too quickly. Yet when coaxed to rate the attractiveness of the faces that they thought they hadn't seen, they were astonishingly accurate. Each face was exposed for 13 milliseconds, well below the threshold of conscious awareness. That's how quickly we judge looks.

Beauty and health are tightly linked. The closer a face is to the symmetrical proportions of Gwyneth Paltrow or Zac Efron, and to the average face in a population, the more it advertises developmental stability, meaning that pathogens or genetic mutations have not adversely affected its owner.

Good looks also confer a well-documented "halo effect": a beautiful man or woman is consistently evaluated in a positive light. Good-looking people are assumed to be smarter than their homelier peers, although there is no correlation between intelligence and appearance above a median level of attractiveness.

Appearance interacts with personality in complicated ways—good-looking people are consistently rated higher on positive traits. When volunteers were asked to evaluate faces in a UK study, the most attractive individuals received the highest ratings for extraversion and agreeableness. Yet more than the halo effect is at work, because the owners of those good-looking faces also rated themselves to be higher on these traits. More impressively, when judges looked at digital composites (averages of faces) made from people who scored at the extremes for extraversion and agreeableness (and, for women, openness), they gave those faces the highest attractiveness ratings. The judges didn't know that the composites were made from the faces of exceptionally outgoing and easygoing people. They just thought those faces were better-looking than average. (For men only, facial composites generated from the most conscientious and emotionally stable subjects were also rated as more attractive than those made from subjects with the lowest scores for these attributes.) Clearly, the stereotype "what is beautiful is good" contains at least a kernel of truth.

Here, then, is the big chicken-or-egg puzzle that runs throughout face perception research. Do the biological blessings behind good looks give rise to a sparkling personality; or do attractive people exhibit the socially desirable traits of extraversion and agreeableness because society treats swans better than ugly ducklings? Or do individuals with attractive personalities develop more attractive faces over time? Whether nature or nurture, the relationship between beauty and "positive" personality traits is real—and readily discernible.

Sex hormones are one clear link between appearance and personality. Testosterone and estrogen influence facial development as well as behavior. High testosterone shows itself in strong jawbones, darker coloring, and hollower cheekbones. High estrogen reveals itself in smooth skin, a small chin, sparse facial hair, arched eyebrows, and plump lips.

We make numerous assumptions about people with high-hormone profiles that conform to gender norms: First, that they're hot. In a lineup, the high-estrogen Jessica Alba and Beyoncé types receive the highest attractiveness ratings by both genders. Their pretty faces predictably get top ratings for social dominance (high status). As for men, high-testosterone faces are especially desired by women who are ovulating, although women may have a default preference for men with a mix of masculine and feminine features; dominant and cooperative. Think Brad Pitt's manly jawline and sensuous lips.

At the University of St. Andrews, volunteers of both genders could tell, with above-chance accuracy, whether people were promiscuous (open to one-night stands and sex without love) just by looking at photos of their faces. Among women, high-estrogen feminine faces were accurately rated as the most promiscuous—and the most beautiful. Among men, the Lothario face (a composite of the most promiscuous males) had high-testosterone features: slightly smaller eyes, larger noses, and broader cheekbones. Women accurately judged this face as belonging to a playboy and downgraded it in favor of men who looked—and actually were—more committed and monogamous.

Do highly feminine-looking women and masculine-looking men have hormone profiles that give rise to stronger sex drives, or do their looks simply lead to more sexual opportunities? The likely answer is both: nature and nurture are inseparable. And yet, there's a clear message. The next time you're perusing photos on an online dating site and get a suspicious feeling about a person's romantic trustworthiness, you might listen to that instinct.

-Jeff Riedel

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10 years 9 months ago - 10 years 9 months ago #346713 by Thesaurusrex
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Was that article written by nofriendsloser?
Last edit: 10 years 9 months ago by Thesaurusrex. Reason: THIS WAS MY 1000th post. Dammit. I wasted it.

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10 years 9 months ago #346714 by nanox
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Not sleeping and wondering why Brad Pitt is now ruining psychology like he has ruined so many of my favorite books with his craptastic movies (except Fight Club, that movie was awesome). Smug pretty boy.

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10 years 9 months ago #346716 by Thesaurusrex
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Psychology books should be written about people's attraction to that man's jawline.

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10 years 9 months ago #346718 by nanox
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Thesaurusrex wrote: Psychology books should be written about people's attraction to that man's jawline.


Gross, Rexy. GROSS!

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10 years 9 months ago #346721 by Farhan Ismahin
Reading up on dementia with Lewy bodies

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