Which one do you prefer? Hey-ai or Facebook groups?

I only use FB as a way to stay in touch with my family and old friends who now live far away and also to read some interesting articles or watch funny videos that some of my friends share..

Other than that, I have created accounts on different AMXF sites over the years but Hey-Ai is the only community that intrigued me enough to stay for longer than 1month.. That is because it literally had a huge impact on my life..
I have met people here who I ended up sharing an apartment with for several years and other people who ended up in the same university course with me and I've also met my hubby on here... so yeah, forever Hey-Ai lol

Even I joined some fb groups ..I do nt feel comfortable to post anything or comment in the group coz my family,relatives and friends can see and I do nt like sharing anything there ....xd.....just a member in those groups and see wht is sharing in the groups....I think I met some nice girls in facebook group than here ....sometime hey-ai is boring coz I only see obsessed memebers in something

I've actually been debating whether or not to quit them both.
I've never even visited the fb groups even though I'm in them, and I mostly just go on hey ai to waste time so I am wondering if I am distracting myself too much. I already have facebook to post random stuff so, I am not sure what hey ai is for anymore =w=

Thesaurusrex wrote: I can't join the FB groups because I'm paranoid that my interests will be revealed my FB friends.

Can't have that.

With all due seriousness, this is exactly the reason why I can't participate on Facebook groups. Some of friends here who are also Facebook friends have invited me to some AMWF groups, but I just don't participate it because I too am paranoid that my interests will be revealed my Facebook friends(who most of them are scholars, journalists and political activists). It's bad enough that certain Facebook friends that I originally met here, are referring the name "Hey-Ai!" or even referring to me as "Korean_Romeo" on my Facebook wall.

Tbh, I dont do FB gropus cause I just dont see the point also I dont take care of Fb that much either. I do like more Hey-Ai cause I spend more hours here and also I meet new stories EVERYDAY.

So Yeah, Maybe I still dont find a bf and stuff but Ive made a huge frienship with a few people and to me that's more important, everything else comes naturally.

I used facebook to get in touch with my family and friends I knew since elementary, middle school, high school and university, and many other social media. But in Hey-Ai I only make friends who only wanted to socialize and make myself known to people. I like being around people and socializing either in person or online. I did had a Japanese online boyfriend who is a traveler (he's Aquarius just like me but we're 7 years apart, he's a water pig and I'm a metal horse). I'm his English teacher teaching him new subjects whenever he had break from work, we socialize.

Korean_Romeo wrote:

Thesaurusrex wrote: I can't join the FB groups because I'm paranoid that my interests will be revealed my FB friends.

Can't have that.

With all due seriousness, this is exactly the reason why I can't participate on Facebook groups. Some of friends here who are also Facebook friends have invited me to some AMWF groups, but I just don't participate it because I too am paranoid that my interests will be revealed my Facebook friends(who most of them are scholars, journalists and political activists). It's bad enough that certain Facebook friends that I originally met here, are referring the name "Hey-Ai!" or even referring to me as "Korean_Romeo" on my Facebook wall.

Same! I use a different account for the Facebook groups, though, and with a different name. I only add people to my main when I've spoken to any for a long while.

I definitely prefer hey ai because there is just more variety.

I would like Facebook more if it suggested, "People you may know" and "People you may want to creep on again."

Hey ai for life, it's where I met the love of my life. bae

Neither.