Men, what do you love to see a woman wear?

for me its not basically about what she wear. its about the total package. the combination of personality, inner values and her appearance. you can replace clothes but you cannot replace the 3 factors i mentioned before...

@ Colibri:
The thread meant for sexy outfit on males is right there:
www.hey-ai.com/forum...ys?limitstart=0

Back to topic:
Nice underwears always win...

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Colibri5 wrote:

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I would like it to be the opposite in different aspects. Women, what do you love to see a men wear?
* Men in clothes that fit well and are comfortable.
*A man in a suit. Navy and charcoal are safe picks, howeve rthe shades of brown and tobacco can be few attractive.
* A man with jeans, depending on the color, once again, it's all about fit. Apply various styles of presentable and elegant combination Relaxed fit is synomynous with "baggy."
* A man wearing a woven dress shirt or sport shirt-"button up shirt"-wear it with jeans, trousers, shorts, etc. and roll up the sleeves to dress it down and tuck it in with a belt for a polished look.
* A man wearing a woven dress shirt or sport shirt-"button up shirt"-wear it with jeans, trousers, shorts, etc. and roll up the sleeves to dress it down and tuck it in with a belt for a polished look.
* A man in a nice pair of shoes. very attractive! Pick a shade of dark, brown and go for quality.
* A man wearing a stylish jacket, go for a blazer, field jacket, leather, tweed, etc.). Make sure it's the right size (avoid slouchy shoulders and baggy waists-no pj's please).
* A man with a genuine smile and a absolute aplomb. Honestly, nothing makes you look more attractive and approachable, like a kind and self-assured composure.

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This site is obessessed with white women...

Turgenev wrote: This site is obessessed with white women...

Totally fair observation nut the conclusion, well


It's either that and/or the fashion/model industry is virtually monopolized by White people. It's still hard to find pictures of models with other ethnicity looks.

Take @ Colibri as an example, JunJun.fr posted this link for her:

www.hey-ai.com/forum...n-guys?start=70

I know for a fact that she's more obsessed with Asian guys than other ethnicity but judging from the link he provided, you might reach the conclusion that this site is obsessed with just English words as opposed to Asian guys. Lol

I noticed your response as well as Turgenev's. I must agree with your statement about the fashion industry.

But not all women on this site are white. And all have different reasons for being attracted to Asian males. I cant speak for them as to their reasons but I can say it took me a while to figure out why I am attracted to Asian men. First, its the fact that they most care about their appearance since that's ones first impression. Second, I fell in love with some of the ideals that they still hold, where as mine was destroyed by invading Europeaners. Third, I find I'm attracted to a man with intense eyes. It took me a while and some thought as to why. Eyes hold so much emotion from passion to hatred that it reminds me a lot of my native brothers. Each is a reason for me. But above this, it's what I've seen, heard and watched, not in dramas, that have me seeing things differently.

I have been treated differently with each race. Black men see white and natives as a prize. My native brothers have lost their way. White men are the worse by far. They proven to me that we are no more than property. However, my father warned me that Asiam men are the same in the respect but I have yet to see or experience that from one. I guess in truth it's how a man in general treats a woman not so much looks or obsessions that make a person. And I'm sure there is always a bad apple in the barrel somewhere.

Reeses wrote: I noticed your response as well as Turgenev's. I must agree with your statement about the fashion industry.

But not all women on this site are white. And all have different reasons for being attracted to Asian males. I cant speak for them as to their reasons but I can say it took me a while to figure out why I am attracted to Asian men. First, its the fact that they most care about their appearance since that's ones first impression. Second, I fell in love with some of the ideals that they still hold, where as mine was destroyed by invading Europeaners. Third, I find I'm attracted to a man with intense eyes. It took me a while and some thought as to why. Eyes hold so much emotion from passion to hatred that it reminds me a lot of my native brothers. Each is a reason for me. But above this, it's what I've seen, heard and watched, not in dramas, that have me seeing things differently.

I have been treated differently with each race. Black men see white and natives as a prize. My native brothers have lost their way. White men are the worse by far. They proven to me that we are no more than property. However, my father warned me that Asiam men are the same in the respect but I have yet to see or experience that from one. I guess in truth it's how a man in general treats a woman not so much looks or obsessions that make a person. And I'm sure there is always a bad apple in the barrel somewhere.

Asian men are similar to some degree, but at least you know they are descendants of Imperialists and rapist that destroyed the Natives in America.

It is true most Asian men prefer whiter skin, finer features and thin body shape, that is a preference, not necessarily due to white culture.

I think the thing is that if you rely on an Asian man to fulfill what you are missing with the whites and blacks then you will be hurt again later on.

Many girls are broken heart here because they didn't bother to learn about Asian culture before they got involved too deep, also Asians is not all the same!!!! It's the same as saying da American natives as the same as the Mexicans! So why would you think Asians are the same in general.

So you should learn about Chinese culture and know what are some of the difficulties can be faced, don't expect them to live according to your own expectations, that is cultural imperalialism!!!!

So learn before you take the risk of delving on.

This is true yes. I'm still learning and willing to learn the difference. I know that they cant all be lumped together this why I ask questions and read. But I also keep in mind that most recorded and written history is by those who win. I like to do my homework per say and gain knowledge and understanding rather then assuming anything. For example, I currently studying Korean folklore and myths. It's just one of my many interesting into a culture. I'm done with Egpytian and Greek lore/myths as well as some European ones. And I plan on looking in to history next. So, I dont assume anything. I prefer to learn and the best way is to watch and of course ask if I don't understand something.

Also, I dont just jump into a fire from the frying pan without knowing what I'm getting into first. And this goes for relationships of any kind. Call me old fashion, but I prefer a man to be a man doesnt matter the race. I do have my own standards of what a man should be as opposed to how one is. And I understand that those standards differ per culture as well as how a woman should be from dress to behavior. However, attraction isn't just an outward appearance. Its personality that wins one over. I've meet some really attractive individuals but in the end they were rather ugly because they had no substance or depth to them.

Reeses wrote: This is true yes. I'm still learning and willing to learn the difference. I know that they cant all be lumped together this why I ask questions and read. But I also keep in mind that most recorded and written history is by those who win. I like to do my homework per say and gain knowledge and understanding rather then assuming anything. For example, I currently studying Korean folklore and myths. It's just one of my many interesting into a culture. I'm done with Egpytian and Greek lore/myths as well as some European ones. And I plan on looking in to history next. So, I dont assume anything. I prefer to learn and the best way is to watch and of course ask if I don't understand something.

Also, I dont just jump into a fire from the frying pan without knowing what I'm getting into first. And this goes for relationships of any kind. Call me old fashion, but I prefer a man to be a man doesnt matter the race. I do have my own standards of what a man should be as opposed to how one is. And I understand that those standards differ per culture as well as how a woman should be from dress to behavior. However, attraction isn't just an outward appearance. Its personality that wins one over. I've meet some really attractive individuals but in the end they were rather ugly because they had no substance or depth to them.

It's better to learn Chinese culture, philosphy and history than Korean, as Korean culture sprang out from China. It the same as saying one should learn about Western culture through Greek philosophy, French, and (even Russian) literatures, rather than American texts.

Also Eygpitan cultural and Greek lore/myth doesn't help so much with real life practical matters, as they are "myth". It is better to learn about what wise Greeks actually thought about practical matters of life. In many ways imperialism is the using of myth and fantasies.

There is no way to break out of cultural and idealological enslavery when you continue to learn from sanctioned texts from imperailistic powers to keep you under control. Korea is already a colony of America, so whatever thing you can learn from them is still within that context.

Also "traditional ideals" are Eurocentric ideals that doesn't really apply to reality.

If you want to learn about something different, learn about Buddhism, ancient philsophies of China, and communism. Otherwise you will be dissappointed again as you will simply go for "white men" again, but simply in Asian skin.

Sigh. Never said I read "white man" books. And I have studied some Asian religions. I am Pagan by the way not your run of the mill Christian. And yes China did control Korea but the Japanese did as well before the US stepped in. And all this boils down to is power with the simplest idea that one's beliefs, culture and form of government is the right one. And at some point, most all major Nations are guilty of this.

And believe it or not, all cultures affect and interact with one another in some way, shape, form or fashion. And myths/lore, maybe fictional but within the base is some truth. And I choose to start there because it affects the history and is affected by it.

As far as, what I've read and studied are to numerous to mention. But, I have read Journey into the West and some of Confucius writings. And I have some other things on my list. I thinking differently then most and dont swallow government proaganda. And have tried to understand communism at its finest. No form of government is perfect or justice.

As for Buddahism, I more than understand the belief of enlightenment. And many of the concepts one may believe. I dont judge one on their beliefs but by their character and if they hold true to them. History in all cases is written by the "winners." And we all impact each other regardless of where we are from. Im just of the belief that we each in turn have a role to play whether directly or indirectly. That role is not clearly defined by our nations but by the actions of that nation wheter it was through imperialist actions or not.

Sigh, we are so way off topic. I was only here to read the post. Lol.