Why everything has to be a competition between Asian guys?

Not only in relationships if you are in one but in general. If you are successful in your career. In human relations if you are popular. If you are an extrovert. If you speak your mind. There's always someone behind your back hating on you. No matter what you do or don't do. Sometimes you think is better to disappear but those haters won't so in the end stick to your values and be the best version of yourself. You are better.

why ur only asking asking questions which apply for all humanity instead of just asians?

I'm at competition with no one but just myself. There's always going to be a better version of myself inside. I just have to find ways to summon my inner better selves, everyday. Become 1% better each day.

I try not to waste time worrying or stressing over things I cannot control, and focus more on the things I can control.

There is no more competition. I win.

tenzin wrote: Not only in relationships if you are in one but in general. If you are successful in your career. In human relations if you are popular. If you are an extrovert. If you speak your mind. There's always someone behind your back hating on you. No matter what you do or don't do. Sometimes you think is better to disappear but those haters won't so in the end stick to your values and be the best version of yourself. You are better.

what made you said only asian guys were that way? have you had experiences with asian guys across cultures or just your own?

me only compete wit other successful asian youtubers... because of my self righteous standards.. beside them i dont generalize & hate any one else.... i promise

supken wrote: There is no more competition. I win.

You prove my point by trying to be a smart ass.

visitor2012 wrote:

tenzin wrote: Not only in relationships if you are in one but in general. If you are successful in your career. In human relations if you are popular. If you are an extrovert. If you speak your mind. There's always someone behind your back hating on you. No matter what you do or don't do. Sometimes you think is better to disappear but those haters won't so in the end stick to your values and be the best version of yourself. You are better.

what made you said only asian guys were that way? have you had experiences with asian guys across cultures or just your own?

It is something that I noticed within the AMWF community as a whole which is very small. Between the few sites and groups in social media guys always trying to put others down because of jealousy. Because of looks, talents and social skills. There's a place for everyone and don't try to put your brothers down for your inability of getting girls.

tenzin wrote:

visitor2012 wrote:

tenzin wrote: Not only in relationships if you are in one but in general. If you are successful in your career. In human relations if you are popular. If you are an extrovert. If you speak your mind. There's always someone behind your back hating on you. No matter what you do or don't do. Sometimes you think is better to disappear but those haters won't so in the end stick to your values and be the best version of yourself. You are better.

what made you said only asian guys were that way? have you had experiences with asian guys across cultures or just your own?

It is something that I noticed within the AMWF community as a whole which is very small. Between the few sites and groups in social media guys always trying to put others down because of jealousy. Because of looks, talents and social skills. There's a place for everyone and don't try to put your brothers down for your inability of getting girls.

oh i havent been paying much attention to heyai lol... i noticed some odd ball asian guys here, not all...


frankly to me things feel dry here, girls come but feels to me not much interesting connections happens,guys dont meet their standards here maybe, dunno, and/or vice versa, haha...


quite a few girl here seem to be onne t rack mind seek love type and not open to much else.....

dont feel like much of interests happens regularly...


site feel casual and low key...

and about internet forums , i seen more werid personalities in general than i rarely encounter in real life... you cant control what personalities a forum draws in...like in real life you can only ignore people that bother you...

im not saying only heyai but general internet forums can draw in social rejects in real worlds cuz they have there to turn to ....


i feel you may get more better peronalities in real life instead....but if internet works for ya, thats okk too...

Well I don't really care too much about competition, as I usually keep to myself. So add one more to the not all Asian guys are about competition.