Why everything has to be a competition between Asian guys?

i dont think that you can refer this topic on asian guys only because you will find this type of behaviour also on other cultures. but to answer your question i give you my personal opinion:

i guess most people here mentioned it already. just focuse on yourself. dont compare yourself with others. be the best version of yourself. you should be your own competition. ive been here for a long time and i noticed some interesting things between asian guys in general. most guys here have that competitive mindset and start a so called "competition". who collect the most "women" on his so called friendship list, who will date the most or who has been in contact with the most attractive women bla bla bla. come on man obviously that became a stupid sport with no sense.

if you want to improve in life just do it for yourself (mentally and physically). stop making comparisons because if you do you will fail and not gonna be succeed.

I'm not the one doing it so I don't know why you assume that I'm making comparisons. It's just a thing I noticed in every place related to AMWFs if you have some kind of quality they start to put you down and hate on you. I think is good to expose those kind of behaviors within this community brah.

Navi wrote: why ur only asking asking questions which apply for all humanity instead of just asians?

Lmao facts. I don't even know there are competitions between Asian men haha.

^you need to start a collection of girls on your friendship list to realise.

Did some playa steal yo gurl OP?!

A simple solution for those who can't handle a competition is to go to another website and start complaining, then ask others to "denounce" their competitors. This is what makes a real winner.

Oh wait, nevermind. Sorry for the late advice.

high population densities and few resources.


markedly different mentality between Asian Americans and FOBs, just interacting over the holiday weekend with this douchebag from Singapore. >.<

Confucious was a smart man. But he was also lonely as he had no friends. He egotisticallly regarded them as morally inept. So it's no surprise he was lonely. Society wasn't made for someone who takes every challenge and petty insult personally nor a stoner who can't take anything in life seriously except weed.

If you can't handle any competition or make friends and only complain about it. You're not doing yourself any favors. This ain't preschool when you cry to your teacher because the other kid was not being accomodating enough.

You shouldn't let people push you down but you shouldn't think that everyone is out to get you. And  why you can't see something so black and white to the extreme if it touches your ego. Learn to maturely cope if u lose, face bitter dissapointment and also win and handle competition plus still learn to make friendly. Lessons every adult has to learn to be a true grown up. The sad but hopeful reality is that the world is indeed a competative place but it is also a co-operative one everywhere.

It does not have to be a general competition. It is in persons of different cultures, each person to surpass himself in each constant version. Overcome your ego, internally find your evolution and development of your soul.
Look for your goal in finding your inner satisfaction, reflect and enjoy your introspection. Challenge the order of things as necessary. Express your ingenuity and creativity each day.
Do not waste energy and time on superficial, materialistic and ephemeral people of thought. Avoid focusing on stereotypes, the hatred, envy, greed and negativity that other people feel for you due to innate talent and social potential.
The universe does not understand if something is good or bad, is governed by the law of attraction, just observe that you are focusing on that.
There is a place assigned for each person in objectives, similarities and missions. Do not try to harm or collateral damage to others because of your inability, lack of creativity and ingenuity to earn a girl from their inner. Find ways, perspectives to cultivate and express your best version at all times.
Find pleasure on the path, not the goal. Well, start from now!

it's called character assination. it usually happens when a man with a mundane personality encounters a man with out going fun personality. it's the only card . the said mundane man . has