Seeking a lady

justvisiting wrote:

zen wrote: It’s good to have some difficulty, otherwise guys will get bored from girls who comes easily.

you talked like its hunting or something...

rock stars must be bored with hotties attention then....

Easy come easy go, and your example is more business like. Is different to sharing life with someone Sir. And here is the thing about fast dating, everyone can get on the internet With the hopes of finding someone they fancy, but without actually gone through hardship together. Their connection can break easily. Why? Because people will not hesitate to get with someone better.

Good luck with finding your ideal woman don't give up on it.

zen wrote:

justvisiting wrote:

zen wrote: It’s good to have some difficulty, otherwise guys will get bored from girls who comes easily.

you talked like its hunting or something...

rock stars must be bored with hotties attention then....

Easy come easy go, and your example is more business like. Is different to sharing life with someone Sir. And here is the thing about fast dating, everyone can get on the internet With the hopes of finding someone they fancy, but without actually gone through hardship together. Their connection can break easily. Why? Because people will not hesitate to get with someone better.

let me try simplify t his up.... you t hink relationship hardship make it stronger and glue things together thus a good thing?

but what about natural chemistry and compatibility? do you think somme are just natural compatibility and natural incompatibility?

if she like you a lot , she shouldnt jump ship so easily.... if she like that, dont take her in the first place for relationship..... whores jump ship easily...gold digger jump ship easily, if she only with you for your money i mean what you expect....


i personally feel better to share life with someone that worship/like you a lot verse likes you teeny bit/you being her doormat....



i know this asian guy that was in up and downs with a woman with a kid, t here was relationship hardship alright, he worshiped her in a way from what i heard.... eventually wedded later divorced ....she t urned real nasty.... they had a kid together too....

she like high living ,send kid t o elite school, make him pay high tuition, he just make normal money though...

she kept him from seeing the kid....

we dont know w hat happened with the first marriage whether she was so manipulative...but guy's parents are afraid of her and try not to offend her.....

the guy play into her , act like he cant live without the kid....

she broke him mind and money....

he failed to identify personality flaw soon enough and now its too late....





do you think relationship diligence can overcome bad personality?

Guys can be like that too.I know a lot of guys trade in their wife for someone better, usually younger and more attractive. And women can always dump their bf for someone more stable. That’s why I said people will not hesitate to get with someone better if given better options. But sometimes people eventually learns to accept and appreciate someone as they became more mature and look beyond material and physical.your example is one of those negative and there are some that’s quite positive, if anyone keep bring up those negative example it’ll only hold them back from performing better.

All the boys say that there are no girls with a good heart in social networks and they say the same thing about the boys haha ​​if nobody dares to speak you can't know anyone or know if both have a good heart or not, is true is difficult to find people with pure heart but is not imposible

Cele wrote: All the boys say that there are no girls with a good heart in social networks and they say the same thing about the boys haha ​​if nobody dares to speak you can't know anyone or know if both have a good heart or not, is true is difficult to find people with pure heart but is not imposible

ok i give this a go...lol...

i been watching this place and i been feeling t his negative vibe here.... recent saw some guy been member for 1 year and finally got some girl, 1 whole years what it took and i feeling this guy got lucky in a way....i doubt this happen much to guys in general here lol...

noticed quite a few girls complaining about perv hating here more so than other places like they puritans/prudes or something, not sure if thats good trait....

one can be easily offended if ones sensitive though...

hmmmm...mr. visitor you been "watching this place" and in a year you seen a guy get a pretty girlfriend. Well....in the year since how come YOU dont have a girlfriend....???

everyone huuuur wondering....