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Nice guys finish last, here is why

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Poll: Do you think girls who have problem with 'nice guys' are just shallow and stupid?

Yes. They don't value the right virtues any more.
87 42.9%
Yes. Because they don't have a life but drama
36 17.7%
No
80 39.4%
Total number of voters: 203
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12 years 5 months ago - 12 years 5 months ago #100631 by gtjohn
Because of women like the one on this video.. you know, I've been a nice guy for so long and I'm kind of getting tired.. if the majority of women are like this, I might as well throw away my respect for them and be (or play the role) of that mean person, play stupid mind games, dramatise things to argue with her because she has nothing better to do with her life.

But I'm just sad when I see that these women go for bad guys and 'settle' for the nice guy. I don't want to be the person she settles with because she finds me safe instead of truly loving me. What happened to good women? Why has their expectations not match reality? Who do they think they are just because they're young and pretty (for now)? Nice guys spend so much work on their inner self, compassion and value strength (when they achieve it) only to be dismissed by shallow biatches like these who thinks they're boring.

I'm actually quickly losing respect for women over the years and I don't know why. These seem to be the sort of women I see so often. I never put them up the pedestal.. they just never measured up and show kindness to be honest. That is why I've been so careful with picking the right partner. I really want to find a reason to love them again.. but the more I see, the more I get disappointed. Any guys here been through the same phases?

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12 years 5 months ago #100635 by Missywonder
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I am not very good at lip reading or am I the only one that doesn't here any voices?
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12 years 5 months ago - 12 years 5 months ago #100636 by Illusivehorizon
I hear the audio

and bhahahahaha @ the vid

IMO not true. but its funny. Girls are funny. :laugh:
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12 years 5 months ago #100639 by MELL
its better than not finishing at all!
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12 years 5 months ago #100642 by lasciel
Replied by lasciel on topic Re: Nice guys finish last, here is why
I like nice guys :)
Trouble is, I find they often have ex issues because they're too nice and she's still trying to walk all over them, that's my only problem.
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12 years 5 months ago #100644 by Tina
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Nice guys finish last, here is why:
BEcause they have terrible taste in women? :laugh:
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12 years 5 months ago #100645 by gtjohn
So.. why oh why.. when girls claim that they mature faster than guys and call guys immature.. which I think is the biggest fallacy ever. And then you see most of them have stupid reasoning about nice guys like in the video?

Really I never see myself as a nice/bad guy. But I'm probably grouped as 'nice guy' because I treat her right when these women seem to be asking for trouble and drama. That has been my problem, I will not comply to stupidity and so I never played their game. But if that is what it takes to do well in relationship, I'm tempted to just play the stupid game. Because being myself is not enough.. it implies that most women are not shallow/stupid and would see my good qualities.. Sure they will, if they're desperate enough to settle according to the video. Wow, how nice it is to be pigeon-ed hole into that settling category.

@MELL: Wrong, I'd rather not finish with desperate women.
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12 years 5 months ago #100646 by gtjohn

Tina wrote: Nice guys finish last, here is why:
BEcause they have terrible taste in women? :laugh:


Prove it.
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12 years 5 months ago #100648 by Tina
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gtjohn wrote:

Tina wrote: Nice guys finish last, here is why:
BEcause they have terrible taste in women? :laugh:


Prove it.

watch the video
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12 years 5 months ago #100649 by gtjohn

Tina wrote:

gtjohn wrote:

Tina wrote: Nice guys finish last, here is why:
BEcause they have terrible taste in women? :laugh:


Prove it.

watch the video


The video represents most women.. You may want to deny it but there are plenty of nice guys who would prove you wrong. Your point is?
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