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- thadeusz
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I just realized my latest thread about who would you like to see in a forum is deleted.
I can see trolls running around for days and weeks insulting innocent members, providing nothing but cynism while my thread about which members I appreciate most is deleted within hours.
May I ask what rule I violated and what mod policy you follow?
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- JMichael
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What happened in the last couple of hours?


edit: sorry i cant respond to your wall posts.
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Whatusername wrote: You really don't see what your thread was leading to, and how listing the people you want in your fantasy forum implies exclusion and dislike for the people that were not on your list?
No.
Explain to me why calling other names, putting others down for apparent no reason, insulting them, giving snappish answers to valid questions and thus directly express your dislike is acceptable while mentioning those who you like is unacceptable - especially when I added that it's "a personal list based on what I've experienced so far".
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thadeusz wrote: No.
Explain to me why calling other names, putting others down for apparent no reason, insulting them, giving snappish answers to valid questions and thus directly express your dislike is acceptable while mentioning those who you like is unacceptable - especially when I added that it's "a personal list based on what I've experienced so far".
Oh you're free to do that on a random post, but when it's the theme of a thread, it starts flame. You have much to learn about forums young one. Mods can't put out every spark, but they're going to stomp out any potential forest fire.
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I hope mods don't follow this explanation of yours that I deem to be incoherent.Whatusername wrote:
thadeusz wrote: No.
Explain to me why calling other names, putting others down for apparent no reason, insulting them, giving snappish answers to valid questions and thus directly express your dislike is acceptable while mentioning those who you like is unacceptable - especially when I added that it's "a personal list based on what I've experienced so far".
Oh you're free to do that on a random post, but when it's the theme of a thread, it starts flame. You have much to learn about forums young one. Mods can't put out every spark, but they're going to stomp out any potential forest fire.
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nicki wrote: I don't think he meant to create this thread in order to exclude others but rather to encourage those who are mentioned to keep up the good work..
Poor choice of method and wordings then.
In short "if I can make my own Hey Ai forum and only bring over members who are polite, constructive etc etc. here's my list... my own experience etc etc.."
*8-9 people*
thadeusz wrote: I hope mods don't follow this explanation of yours that I deem to be incoherent.
Well, you'll get similar response from mods.
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Korean_Romeo wrote: Obviously I missed something very dramatic in last 10 hours. If I'm not mistaken, I think it's against the rule of the forum to target particular Hey-Ai! member(s) as a theme of threads. Personally I was very itching to do that myself about certain members here but I thought it will be very counterproductive.
Yeah, my (polite) open letter to tingtong got killed within a minute of its posting.
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I know I deserved to be banned but for some reason I'm still here.
What the hell, moderators?
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