So what is it that attracts you to the opposite sex?

This:

You're quite idealistic. Good luck with that.

I'm still searching for my ancient Lithuanian bee goddess.

Edit: Just saw your age. Hm... yeah. Talk to me again in 10 years, assuming you're not jaded, and pregnant x3.

BurningRain wrote: This may be easy for some and harder for others. Life and love are about creating who you are, not necessarily finding who you are. That being said, it's easy to think of what qualities you'd want in a person. For me, my ideal guy would first and foremost be someone who knows all of my sides, and still loves me. Ironically this is why I don't date yet. I think for him to do that he would have to see me as only a friend first. Secondly, I'd want to know all of his sides, and be able to talk about anything. I would want to grow into a better person with him. Fix my flaws, and learn from mistakes. Build memories and bonds by talking and going places. It would be nice to also be attracted to him in a way, but it isn't the cover that makes a book worth reading. The most important thing in any relationship is honesty. It's like the trunk of the tree. Everything else, like friendship, trust, and love will branch out eventually. I think that's what makes relationships last. You should make sure to make reasons for being together stronger than whatever could tear you apart. Mistakes will happen, but if you talk it out, you'll understand each other even better. If you talk but realise you aren't right for eachother, then you still have to find that person. It depends on what is most important to you, and how much you're willing to put up with.

You must first find who you are before you can create who you are, my young kimosabe.

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lol~~!

excellent.

Someone I feel attracted to who appreciates me, shares my morals/faith and my life ambitions, and who won't run away from me----someone who actually looks forward to talking to me.
Someone who actually enjoys putting effort.

someone who realizes I never am my whole self only after 2-5 dates.

Someone who won't look down on me because of my anxiety.

faithfulness and loyalty, honesty and patience are important. There is no only one thing that is most important...they are all equally important.

Might as well.

well isn't it obvious...

Im attracted to both so i really dont know ahha

Well I look a lot younger so I do like a guy who looks that way too...but have been jokingly called a pedo for dating a 23yr old who had couple year old pics that make him look 16!

But I do think you generally will get more attention from girls (at least around here) if you do have a baby face... just look at the most popular guys here...most aren't so "manly", yeah some are buff or tall but there are many with a "girly" or "boyish" look that get hits too. And just look at many members of Kpop groups who look 14... wait they're not, right? Heh.

Oh and if young looking guys can get away with crimes, they probably can get away with lots of other things too.... so innocent, NOT! Lol

Edit: And it's true...I can't tell the difference between a "baby face" and like a 16 yr old on here... jebus christ... I swear I just wanted to hug him and ...pretend to be an awkward teen again ><