So what is it that attracts you to the opposite sex?

Aw lawd not you, too

Face in general, eyes, ass, tits, pussy and intelligence.

leeloulee wrote: Face in general, eyes, ass, tits, pussy and intelligence.

What happens if the girl is flat chested?

Well, big boobs suck. The gravitational force will take care of them soon enough.

leeloulee wrote: Well, big boobs suck. The gravitational force will take care of them soon enough.

Exactly ahahahah

A honest, heart-warming, cute smile radiating positivity.

Northwing wrote: Someone I feel attracted to who appreciates me, shares my morals/faith and my life ambitions, and who won't run away from me----someone who actually looks forward to talking to me.
Someone who actually enjoys putting effort.

someone who realizes I never am my whole self only after 2-5 dates.

Someone who won't look down on me because of my anxiety.

faithfulness and loyalty, honesty and patience are important. There is no only one thing that is most important...they are all equally important.

I've met you before. You will be in for a lifetime of misery and pain romantically unless you find someone equally self-deprecating and avoidant.

Honest advice is to work on improving your confidence level. But at least you are discriminating and slow to trust, which works in your favour.

MagicMarker wrote:

Northwing wrote: Someone I feel attracted to who appreciates me, shares my morals/faith and my life ambitions, and who won't run away from me----someone who actually looks forward to talking to me.
Someone who actually enjoys putting effort.

someone who realizes I never am my whole self only after 2-5 dates.

Someone who won't look down on me because of my anxiety.

faithfulness and loyalty, honesty and patience are important. There is no only one thing that is most important...they are all equally important.

I've met you before. You will be in for a lifetime of misery and pain romantically unless you find someone equally self-deprecating and avoidant.

Honest advice is to work on improving your confidence level. But at least you are discriminating and slow to trust, which works in your favour.

Well, that is what a psychologist is for, I plan to get one...after my benefits kick in. there is only so much I can do on my own, as our environments shape us, not just our own minds...if that was so, well, it would be much easier to become confident. I do work on it though, it's just that, the more I work on it, the more frustrated I get trying to get somewhere.

And I thought health care in Canada was free...

Enlightenment is the ultimate realization that life is a journey. It's not the end stage that matters. There are no beginnings and ends. The truest you is who you are now, not who you were or who you are to be. Knowing that it becomes easy to accept oneself, and by sheer force of will mold oneself in the direction of the ideal.

Brahman, Vishnu, Shiva. The creator, the sustainer, the destroyer. And thus it comes full circle. Truth and beauty swirling together entwined amidst chaos. Accepting this yields true contentment.

Only by surrendering to saidar can you hope to master it.

In cruder terms: "I know I'm not perfect, but I don't give a damn. I still love myself the way I am. I'm on my own way, my own path towards improving myself and if you don't like it, then GTFO of my life."

Someone I can look forward to sharing time with, to watch the sunset as we walk together along a sandy deserted beach on a warm summers evening, drinking cocktails by the moonlight, listening to sweet music and dreaming of a beautiful future together as we slowly, hopelessly and helplessly fall in love. That we can dance the night away until the dawn approaches feeling carefree as if nothing else in the world matters.