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finding new interviews online so i can mind-read my kpop dude. yay!!! he's actually very honest a lot of times in describing how his real personality is different from his kpop persona.

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off topic, but i don't like the fact that men have to act tough around other guys and show no emotions. that's asking too much of a person and it's extremely cruel towards them, i think.

patches wrote: off topic, but i don't like the fact that men have to act tough around other guys and show no emotions. that's asking too much of a person and it's extremely cruel towards them, i think.

That just means they see each other as competition of sorts. Alpha males tend to do that a lot. I'm a beta male so I don't try to pick fights with anyone.

joestarbill wrote: That just means they see each other as competition of sorts. Alpha males tend to do that a lot. I'm a beta male so I don't try to pick fights with anyone.

i see.
the only type of women that try to pick fights with other women are the weak ones. they want to prove they don't feel threatened by other women. it's so dumb.

patches wrote:

joestarbill wrote: That just means they see each other as competition of sorts. Alpha males tend to do that a lot. I'm a beta male so I don't try to pick fights with anyone.

i see.
the only type of women that try to pick fights with other women are the weak ones. they want to prove they don't feel threatened by other women. it's so dumb.

Sometimes beta males pick fights with each other. Males like to follow some kind of hierarchy that is loosely determined on strength, popularity and how rich they are.

joestarbill wrote: Sometimes beta males pick fights with each other. Males like to follow some kind of hierarchy that is loosely determined on strength, popularity and how rich they are.

that right there is immediately off-putting. it makes them seem clueless as to what makes a person stand out. if a guy is mentally strong/stable/confident, talented, a good person, and doesn't act like an airhead, that's attractive, not all the "oh i'm so popular" crap.

patches wrote:

joestarbill wrote: Sometimes beta males pick fights with each other. Males like to follow some kind of hierarchy that is loosely determined on strength, popularity and how rich they are.

that right there is immediately off-putting. it makes them seem clueless as to what makes a person stand out. if a guy is mentally strong/stable/confident, talented, a good person, and doesn't act like an airhead, that's attractive, not all the "oh i'm so popular" crap.

I thought I was over the popular BS after high school, but it looks like its still continuing in university. Fingers crossed that I don't have to deal with it in the workplace, but there I feel there will be a different kind of hierarchy that's determined by your job ranking.

joestarbill wrote: I thought I was over the popular BS after high school, but it looks like its still continuing in university. Fingers crossed that I don't have to deal with it in the workplace, but there I feel there will be a different kind of hierarchy that's determined by your job ranking.

you may run into all kinds of nut jobs at a workplace. women are petty with other women, trying to feel secure by making other women feel insecure. men will try to brown-nose bosses to get ahead. one guy tried to get me fired by spreading lies. he ended up getting himself fired. he was a complete idiot about everything. lots of people can be conniving and try to do less work. it just depends on what kind of character those people have. they bring all of their problems to work with them. not all places will be that bad.

i've heard of lawyers who have parties after work to cheat on their wives. doctors think they're superior to everybody else. it just depends on the person.