What turns you on?

A nice gesture made at the right time, a smile, simplicity. Errr I dunno

When a girl wearing short jeans, then getting caught iching her own sexy thighs. Friking hot right there.

nathan drake.

Non-violent communication. Vulnerability. Honesty. Flirtatious confidence. Courage. Puns, quips, and sharp wit.

quipun wrote: Non-violent communication. Vulnerability. Honesty. Flirtatious confidence. Courage. Puns, quips, and sharp wit.

No carrying and loyalty ?

Benny wrote:

quipun wrote: Non-violent communication. Vulnerability. Honesty. Flirtatious confidence. Courage. Puns, quips, and sharp wit.

No carrying and loyalty ?

Look up and read about Non-Violent Communication and Vulnerability. Watch Ted Talks and other seminars about the subject.

Loyalty and caring are way too simple and lacks depth. What good is loyalty if you fear to be courageous and communicate your wants, needs, and desires? I had a lover who was very loyal to her ex (when she was with him). She didn't communicate with him what she wanted or needed, and was loyal to him and his needs and wants. She never picked up the courage to communicate with him and to make sure he understand what she wants and needs in the relationship until it was too late and she found out the hard way (he manipulated her to quit school, work, and to be a stay and home mother-- she wanted to keep working, finish school, and travel). Her life was turned upside down because the simple notion of loyalty. Her ex even cheated on her on her step-sister; then he got her drunk to get her horny and got her pregnant two other times because he didn't want her to leave after she started to rebel. She's still loyal to him as he is the father to three of her kids. But they are not together and he is still trying to manipulate her into hooking back up (it's not going to happen).

So no. I wouldn't say loyalty or caring on it's own. It's too simple and what it lacks is vulnerability. When one is able to communicate effectively what one's desires, and the other person practices active listening, then, and only then loyalty and caring, and love will blossom.

One of my favorite quotes is: "You could only love as much as you are willing to be broken hearted" - Dr. Brown.

quipun wrote:

Benny wrote:

quipun wrote: Non-violent communication. Vulnerability. Honesty. Flirtatious confidence. Courage. Puns, quips, and sharp wit.

No carrying and loyalty ?

Look up and read about Non-Violent Communication and Vulnerability. Watch Ted Talks and other seminars about the subject.

Loyalty and caring are way too simple and lacks depth. What good is loyalty if you fear to be courageous and communicate your wants, needs, and desires? I had a lover who was very loyal to her ex (when she was with him). She didn't communicate with him what she wanted or needed, and was loyal to him and his needs and wants. She never picked up the courage to communicate with him and to make sure he understand what she wants and needs in the relationship until it was too late and she found out the hard way (he manipulated her to quit school, work, and to be a stay and home mother-- she wanted to keep working, finish school, and travel). Her life was turned upside down because the simple notion of loyalty. Her ex even cheated on her on her step-sister; then he got her drunk to get her horny and got her pregnant two other times because he didn't want her to leave after she started to rebel. She's still loyal to him as he is the father to three of her kids. But they are not together and he is still trying to manipulate her into hooking back up (it's not going to happen).

So no. I wouldn't say loyalty or caring on it's own. It's too simple and what it lacks is vulnerability. When one is able to communicate effectively what one's desires, and the other person practices active listening, then, and only then loyalty and caring, and love will blossom.

One of my favorite quotes is: "You could only love as much as you are willing to be broken hearted" - Dr. Brown.

I'm heart broken from reading your story,why you do that to me? I only was trying to point out the simple thing,not trying to make it that complicated.

Benny wrote:

quipun wrote:

Benny wrote:

quipun wrote: Non-violent communication. Vulnerability. Honesty. Flirtatious confidence. Courage. Puns, quips, and sharp wit.

No carrying and loyalty ?

Look up and read about Non-Violent Communication and Vulnerability. Watch Ted Talks and other seminars about the subject.

Loyalty and caring are way too simple and lacks depth. What good is loyalty if you fear to be courageous and communicate your wants, needs, and desires? I had a lover who was very loyal to her ex (when she was with him). She didn't communicate with him what she wanted or needed, and was loyal to him and his needs and wants. She never picked up the courage to communicate with him and to make sure he understand what she wants and needs in the relationship until it was too late and she found out the hard way (he manipulated her to quit school, work, and to be a stay and home mother-- she wanted to keep working, finish school, and travel). Her life was turned upside down because the simple notion of loyalty. Her ex even cheated on her on her step-sister; then he got her drunk to get her horny and got her pregnant two other times because he didn't want her to leave after she started to rebel. She's still loyal to him as he is the father to three of her kids. But they are not together and he is still trying to manipulate her into hooking back up (it's not going to happen).

So no. I wouldn't say loyalty or caring on it's own. It's too simple and what it lacks is vulnerability. When one is able to communicate effectively what one's desires, and the other person practices active listening, then, and only then loyalty and caring, and love will blossom.

One of my favorite quotes is: "You could only love as much as you are willing to be broken hearted" - Dr. Brown.

I'm heart broken from reading your story,why you do that to me? I only was trying to point out the simple thing,not trying to make it that complicated.

Buttercup: You mock my pain.
Man in Black: Life is pain, Highness. Anyone who says differently is selling something.

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Grandpa: “Who says life is fair, where is that written?”

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William Goldman: "Life isn't fair. It's just fairer than death, that's all."

Black powder was to use for fire work,celebrating happiness. You westerner used to creat weapons for killing,now it comes right back at you.
Life isn't fair ?

^are you using flirtatious confidence to turn him on?