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How You See Yourself vs Who You Really Are/Want to Be

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9 years 7 months ago #408240 by patches
(i just want to see people's self-concept in pictures.)
post pics with an explanation so we can understand, thanks.

if anyone has seen the movie Romancing the Stone, they will recognize Kathleen Turner's character (a dorky, tomboyish mess who writes novels). that's me, for sure, which i sometimes like.

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but, the more vibrant, in control side of her is who i really am and would like to work on being almost all the time:

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(no i don't look like this pic, but i identify with her energy. notice how she's still able to have a tomboyish outfit on, a down-to-earth feel and hairdo but still seem very girly.)

make this your mantra today: "look inside my soul and you can find gold and maybe get rich." // "in the cold Kentucky rayyayayaayn." - Elvis

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9 years 7 months ago #408304 by rads1
I am an infinite soul, then a blessed sacred vessel. :saint:

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9 years 7 months ago - 9 years 7 months ago #408411 by rival
i like the topic. though i believe everybody has a deluded sense of self. so you're probably not going to get any significant responses or meaningful discussion here.
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9 years 7 months ago #408901 by darkgrey

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9 years 7 months ago #409002 by patches
that's me on a good day. :unsure:


make this your mantra today: "look inside my soul and you can find gold and maybe get rich." // "in the cold Kentucky rayyayayaayn." - Elvis

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9 years 6 months ago - 9 years 6 months ago #411310 by PreciousAngie191
I see myself as average person but in other people's eyes, I'm someone who is unique. I don't want to change my features for no one. I'm proud of the genes my parents gave me.

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9 years 6 months ago #411316 by PinkPearls
I don't totally understand the question but I have a fever so I'll just try to make it work.

I see myself as the girl in the pictures I have. I feel that is really me. Ever since I was little I've always been very disinhibited. And in the outfits I wear, I like to be comfortable while kind of new age. I think my room also shows my personality. I like nature and cute animals, so I have a lot of plants/art and stuffed animals.

I think when people first meet me, in person especially, they see me as very innocent and naive. And people (Especially who don't like me) on the internet see me as a scandalous tranny know-it-all with commitment issues.

I wish people could see I just have to be strong in my life to get anywhere. I always wanted to make lots of friends, but people strain to understand me and I strain to be a good friend because of my past experiences with people who betrayed me.

I don't think there's anything about me I don't embrace. It's just goals. If you want people to see you are a feminine tomboy, just let that shine through. It's already in you. You just have to manifest it for the global audience.

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9 years 6 months ago - 9 years 6 months ago #411329 by AttackOnChinaman
Replied by AttackOnChinaman on topic How You See Yourself vs Who You Really Are/Want to Be
I have no real understanding of how others perceive me. For the few I choose to show who I am, they see a loyal, silly, quiet, diplomatic and helpful person. People see as me as emotionally intelligent, empathetic and occasionally intense.

Honestly, I see myself as somewhat of a confident but confused person. I see many of my flaws and I'm constantly thinking of who I really am, how to become a wiser and worldly person. How can I better understand people and their differences. I want to learn more, be more methodical, The more I ponder, the more I realize how far I am from who I want to be. The real me inside has intense emotions. Extreme happiness as well as extreme anger and disappointment. Through certain critical life experiences, I've learned to internalize intense emotions. Maybe that's who I am but very few get to see that.

I'm actually impulsive at times. Easily agitated at certain things. Angry at people who are quick to judge and dismiss. Although I don't show it on the outside, I'm breaking every inanimate object on the inside. The good thing is that I never stay mad or angry for long unless it's an ongoing stress.

I want to be someone who is more patient and mindful of the things I say. I am guilty of saying things that are not truly representative of my opinions and views on life. As a result, I can ruin something good unintentionally. This has been something I've tried to improve on for a while. Somehow, stupid things slip out and those who don't know me well misjudge me. Perhaps I should say, my vocabulary needs to improve immensely.

I have a theory that for some, the real "YOU" can only be released by a lover or a truly complementary companion. Until then, most of their true selves are almost hidden like an iceberg. Sound crazy?
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