Dealing with being Ghosted?

Cihx wrote:

Rainman wrote:

koja wrote:

Rainman wrote:

theelmachine wrote: I guess you're right then. Have been at this for the longest time. IRL dating is possible but very hard for me because I have social anxiety. So I get choked up that's the thing

I had social anxiety. You need to face your demons. If you are that weak most women will not want to deal with you, unless she wants to control you. How are you going to protect a woman if you are scared of her?

You think women require protection?

He demanded her to get into the car and when she refuse he got out of the car. Men do not ask a woman he does not know to demand her get into the car.
Yup last year I had a woman ask me if she could walk with me to the store. Some guy wanted to rape her. She pointed to this in the school parking lot. He saw me and drove off.

How did she know? Had he told her?
This would be the moment one would consider carrying a sword, pepperspray or a mini bazooka in your purse. Heck, Even some self defence classes or some shit

if u r a ghost u cant be ghosted

Even Gengar, a ghost pokemon, got ghosted.
Nobody is safe out here.

theelmachine wrote: Ok, to cut the long story short. I meet a girl here. She and I clicked for about a few weeks. She then becomes very distant without any indication of disinterest. Also, the ghosting wasn't sudden. It was a gradual process through a lack of texts etc. Should I move on? And am I wrong to feel that it hurts?

Would love you guys' input on this, thanks

So you made a mistake as u trusted the wrong person. And want to get if off your chest that it hurts?

Well you're human. Just give it enough time and you'll eventually forget her. Why waste your attention and efforts on someone who doesn't want to talk to you.

Obviously ghost her back, I say.

I feel that people ghost,when they do not know what to say,avoiding confrontation of a situation they feel they cannot handle, or are immature and just avoiding communication and running from whatever issues they have with that person,instead of communicating clearly..Not everyone knows how to clearly communicate,and not everyone is comfortable with confrontation..Some people get scared even and just ghost you,because its too much for them.Maybe there are differences in view points or opinions and so, maybe they also change their mind and figure,it wont work out and so they avoid you entirely instead of accepting differences and learning what a person is like or not like..For me,people are allowed to be different.For me though, ghosting is not a mature move,especially if the person is running from whatever communication there could be..But thats on them.Thats on that person if they stop talking to you or ghost you and leave your life..I would never ever ghost someone because I feel personally for me,its not respecting that person who is trying to communicate with me..It happens quite a bit,but i let those people move on with their lives..If they have to ghost me, they do not value me or my time, or my efforts on me staying in communication..I would just move on if I were you..That is a sign that person is not going to communicate with you, how you need them to..For some,communication is overwhelming, some may not even know how to communicate in any other way,than to avoid you..But no communication is still communication..And its painful for the one on the receiving end, regardless the reason.Ghosting can also be passive aggressive behavior,meant to hurt you because that person is pissed off with you,giving you the cold shoulder and silent treatment..Either way, I feel ghosting is not healthy or effective at solving issues, and it does have consequences, also burns bridges with people..Whether intentionally or not..It is a good way to lose a partner,friends,or even family..Again thats on them..That is something that person may never change.So, to move on,is the kindest thing you can do for yourself,where people will respect you and your time and your efforts..Where they value you..Where the person also reciprocates communication back..Or at least says why they dont want to talk to you..Giving you closure..

Who doesn’t wear a mask and get online to toy around with other people’s feeling now ? Especially when they just want to test you out and move onto someone they think is better for them.

zen wrote: Who doesn’t wear a mask and get online to toy around with other people’s feeling now ? Especially when they just want to test you out and move onto someone they think is better for them.

Those people are just immature..Most do wear masks and toy with others..It is sad..That is just how things go nowadays..People do not value people anymore..Communication has become last to working or whichever other distractions..Not all can be mature.

zen wrote: Who doesn’t wear a mask and get online to toy around with other people’s feeling now ? Especially when they just want to test you out and move onto someone they think is better for them.

rona times. only idiots aint wearing masks when going online. 😐

San_Ichiban wrote:

zen wrote: Who doesn’t wear a mask and get online to toy around with other people’s feeling now ? Especially when they just want to test you out and move onto someone they think is better for them.

rona times. only idiots aint wearing masks when going online. 😐

I saw a guy wearing bra to get online, maybe it’s someone else. But what if the real person wear his underwear on his head ?

zen wrote:

San_Ichiban wrote:

zen wrote: Who doesn’t wear a mask and get online to toy around with other people’s feeling now ? Especially when they just want to test you out and move onto someone they think is better for them.

rona times. only idiots aint wearing masks when going online. 😐

I saw a guy wearing bra to get online, maybe it’s someone else. But what if the real person wear his underwear on his head ?