white-washed asian girls that reject asian men in the states

well not that it really matter but european girls seems to hold most interest for me right now cuz they have really good personality traits and its not just me as a asian guy saying this, i have talk to white american that also boast european as compared to american chick and black guys too. so unless we are all wrong, otherwise there must be something different thats positive with european girls personalty-wise anyways.

they proven themselves to me to be easy-going personality-wise.

anyways i heard asian girls that said that they only go for white guy and talk like they are the only good stuff out there, that why i was curious to collect other's opinion on this issue.

yea bad past experience could be cause for their rejection but the media could play a role, hasn't it already been stated that media can be a mind shaping tool on subliminal level.

yea, stubborn and baised people will always turn down common sense even when its staring straight at them.

and europeans i have met have a whole different take on things, their opinions like discriminations wrong and that we all come from africa, and people should judge on you on character and not race.

i seldomly hear americans talk so openly and freely on such topics. from what i experienced, these topics are taboo to talk about in america. yea, maybe the cultures not so open.

Karyuu wrote: iwonder10 wrote:

i don't remember exactly where, but i heard that one of the media propganda goals was to drive a wedge between asian american men and women so they wouldn't be attracted to one another, and of course girls who grown up in asia won't be affected as much by yankee media.

Who is saying things like that? Effect, maybe, to some extent, but conscious goal?

... *sigh* ...

Some day I'll open a subforum called "rants about "Why are X guy/girls not attracted to Ygirls/guys"".
For all the rants about Asian guys not being attracted to Black girls, Asian girls not being attracted to Asian guys, American girls not being attracted to Asian guys, Asian guys only looking for the blonde/blue eyed type, White girls only looking for Koreans and Japanese, etc etc yada yada ... @_@

Well, even though it's an Asian men non Asian forum you might take with you, black guys bashing about black women, not liking black men, or white men......WAIT! No girl started something like that, because they think it might not be appropriate to write such things, when this forum it is explicit addresses to Asian men.

The other thing is, GOSH Asian guys can be such annoying dddddcks.....grow some balls! Stop being so offensive. We all get rejected on some point in our lives. Not just Asian dudes, white dudes as well. Stop crying about, how that Asian girl rejected you, because she prefers to jump onto white dingdongs. Just to remember your low self-esteem. YOU ARE HERE FOR NON ASIAN, so stop crying about Asian girls.....
btw.....I think stuff like this is pretty disrespectful to us, I mean you are here for NON Asian girls, or probably prefer, black, white, brown, green, violet girls, and not yellow, am I wrong?

PS I've been dating Asian guys from Asia, and to be honest? I don't blame Asian girls going not for 'em....

One thing is for sure though. If you can't even be friends white washed asian girls in the US, then chances are, it's going to be hard for you to be friends with white girls too because they look at you the same way. A dork is a dork, to everyone.

Excluding my post, 18 of 34 of the posts in this thread are from people without pictures of their face, or Jake Lin, who not a real person, aka a troll.

That's over 52%.

portriat can be fake. lol. your logic is so flawed. ken , i don't suppose you ever tried online dating, do you have any idea how many fake profile there are out there?

there are quite a few profiles here with no real people pictures, maybe people are more focused on the social life in the real world than on-line world. theres nothing wrong with that.

kensup wrote: Excluding my post, 18 of 34 of the posts in this thread are from people without pictures of their face, or Jake Lin, who not a real person, aka a troll.

That's over 52%.

And your insinuation is what exactly? If you're implying that profileless individuals are somehow inferior, you have succeeded in demonstrating your arrogance yet again, which is exactly what many find so offputting. And frankly, I don't understand why you care so much about this issue.

To the OP,

I think you have a point.

(Disclaimer: I am not trying to make all encompassing broadsweeing statements here just general trends. When I say "asians" for example, I mean many asians not all okay? so get off my nuts if that's your only argument.)

It's pretty straight forward if you can all just get past the political correctness:

- Asians like white people for whatever reason.
- Asian girls like white guys
- Asian guys like white girls
- More asian girls are with white guys because 1) guys are desperate, 2) white guys are attracted to asian girls. 3) Snowball effect, and you see more AFWM getting together.
- Less asian guys are with white girls because 1) girls are not desperate, 2) white girls are not attracted to asian guys, 3) No snowball effect, and therefore you see less AMWF couples. Even though asian guys like white girls they don't try because odds are stacked against them and we all know asians like math

So yes, we hope the trend is changing because of the nature of these sites we are on. We have AMWF goggles on. But have you noticed it's always the same people across the sites? AMWF is a niche market.

The end.

thetraveler wrote: i want to hear your experiences with this? i have heard of this type. they have been referred to as sellout and so on. i heard of koreans and chinese who were americanized who were this way. this is different from girls from asia. i have had chemistry with international student girls from asia and they didn't seem to have a complex of rejecting asian men. but i suspect at least certain americanized asian american girls are this way. i only encountered a small number who seemed this way, they didn't want anything to do with asian men, they only wanted to know and date white men. sound crazy eh? well...

haven't had too many encounters with this type. perhaps the media had sometimes to do with this. i don't remember exactly where, but i heard that one of the media propganda goals was to drive a wedge between asian american men and women so they wouldn't be attracted to one another, and of course girls who grown up in asia won't be affected as much by yankee media.

anyone had any experiences with this?

hahahaha! Dude why are you on this site? You know this is an asian male for other than asian chick site right?

captainsoap wrote: To the OP,

I think you have a point.

(Disclaimer: I am not trying to make all encompassing broadsweeing statements here just general trends. When I say "asians" for example, I mean many asians not all okay? so get off my nuts if that's your only argument.)

It's pretty straight forward if you can all just get past the political correctness:

- Asians like white people for whatever reason.
- Asian girls like white guys
- Asian guys like white girls
- More asian girls are with white guys because 1) guys are desperate, 2) white guys are attracted to asian girls. 3) Snowball effect, and you see more AFWM getting together.
- Less asian guys are with white girls because 1) girls are not desperate, 2) white girls are not attracted to asian guys, 3) No snowball effect, and therefore you see less AMWF couples. Even though asian guys like white girls they don't try because odds are stacked against them and we all know asians like math

So yes, we hope the trend is changing because of the nature of these sites we are on. We have AMWF goggles on. But have you noticed it's always the same people across the sites? AMWF is a niche market.

The end.

agree 100%


I guess many asian male people also think for themselves that white girls are generally more attracted to other races than asian, which shrinks their confidence even b4 getting to know the person...