2. Some general points about socialising on Hey-AI

Ansuca wrote: Life is not a kdrama or a movie or a Disney story
Perfect people doesn't exist, everybody lied, hurted , or made feel bad to any person once at least.

So true. ..the socialising.is not easy. Stay calm and find the right good people

Huangfemu wrote: Dude
I have always filtered people in the real life..for those who are closed to me are not superficial....are my daily friends

The rest arent...

Easy solution.

yeah its the only thing you can do..I do not need fake friends or relationships.

Dating site is for those who are unable to interact with others in real life.

I never used dating site..... I just come here to tease ye 😂

Huangfemu wrote: Dating site is for those who are unable to interact with others in real life.

I never used dating site..... I just come here to tease ye 😂

lol i never really used those sights either..I used to have "searching for friends,relationship and etc" checked on my profile but i feel making friends is the only true way to get to know people from the internet..To look for a romantic relationship from online is hard because people hide a lot..Some men could be married with a family and have a dog and you would never know unless they told you..Especially if its long distance..There is a lot people can hide because your not there with them..Unless you absolutly know the person..You can never be too sure..

I don't understand why people keep on talking about love all the time...
What is love???
For me it is nothing... Just an emotional drama...
What people get from love???
Breakup, tears and sad life !
Why we can't think to love poor and needy people???
I feel true love when I try to help a poor person by giving him/her some money or food or a dress... Life is not only about love it's more ...
We are human not animals... Animals also do love and make family too...
We must learn about helping poor people

yovi wrote: I don't understand why people keep on talking about love all the time...
What is love???
For me it is nothing... Just an emotional drama...
What people get from love???
Breakup, tears and sad life !
Why we can't think to love poor and needy people???
I feel true love when I try to help a poor person by giving him/her some money or food or a dress... Life is not only about love it's more ...
We are human not animals... Animals also do love and make family too...
We must learn about helping poor people

You sound like a kind bloke.

But it kinda sounds like you've been hurt. Yeh, there are bad people out there. They prob don't deserve your kindness but there are still some that do deserve it. Don't give up man. Certain that a kind soul like you will find someone that makes you feel less idiotic for wanting to love someone. Nothing bad about altruistic and platonic love but maybe you're just hanging out with the wrong people or met the wrong girl. Or blind to see the good in your ex. And so want love that is safe from risks and hurt?

Life is suffering. But what hurts more in the end? Giving up on love because you're too afraid to go after it despite you want it? And then looking back in old age and regretting that ego-pride deluding decision that you never took a shot. Or taking risks and tackling painful dramas and maybe eventually pays off as you actually find someone that makes a relationship worthwhile? Something tells me that being ambitious and bold can realistically pay off more than being a self-pitying fear-filled whinger.

yovi wrote: I don't understand why people keep on talking about love all the time...
What is love???
For me it is nothing... Just an emotional drama...
What people get from love???
Breakup, tears and sad life !
Why we can't think to love poor and needy people???
I feel true love when I try to help a poor person by giving him/her some money or food or a dress... Life is not only about love it's more ...
We are human not animals... Animals also do love and make family too...
We must learn about helping poor people

We have Caritas Institution in Europe..they help the disadvantageous people. You can support it too
Helping the poor is a good kharma

dogface9 wrote:

yovi wrote: I don't understand why people keep on talking about love all the time...
What is love???
For me it is nothing... Just an emotional drama...
What people get from love???
Breakup, tears and sad life !
Why we can't think to love poor and needy people???
I feel true love when I try to help a poor person by giving him/her some money or food or a dress... Life is not only about love it's more ...
We are human not animals... Animals also do love and make family too...
We must learn about helping poor people

You sound like a kind bloke.

But it kinda sounds like you've been hurt. Yeh, there are bad people out there. They prob don't deserve your kindness but there are still some that do deserve it. Don't give up man. Certain that a kind soul like you will find someone that makes you feel less idiotic for wanting to love someone. Nothing bad about altruistic and platonic love but maybe you're just hanging out with the wrong people or met the wrong girl. Or blind to see the good in your ex. And so want love that is safe from risks and hurt?

Life is suffering. But what hurts more in the end? Giving up on love because you're too afraid to go after it despite you want it? And then looking back in old age and regretting that ego-pride deluding decision that you never took a shot. Or taking risks and tackling painful dramas and maybe eventually pays off as you actually find someone that makes a relationship worthwhile? Something tells me that being ambitious and bold can realistically pay off more than being a self-pitying fear-filled whinger.

I'm not hurt and we are human not God, We do mistakes, Time and things make us bad.. I'm very sure if we help bad people they will change too...

Huangfemu wrote:

yovi wrote: I don't understand why people keep on talking about love all the time...
What is love???
For me it is nothing... Just an emotional drama...
What people get from love???
Breakup, tears and sad life !
Why we can't think to love poor and needy people???
I feel true love when I try to help a poor person by giving him/her some money or food or a dress... Life is not only about love it's more ...
We are human not animals... Animals also do love and make family too...
We must learn about helping poor people

We have Caritas Institution in Europe..they help the disadvantageous people. You can support it too
Helping the poor is a good kharma

I donate money on care.org best way to help poor people....