Girls: body type you think is the best on a guy.

Personality is everything really
If for example someone who looks really good doesn't love you for you then you are better off single

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But if someone who looks let's say average and is super sweet faithful and nice to you then they are worth it

SharpMind wrote: Personality is everything really
If for example someone who looks really good doesn't love you for you then you are better off single

.
But if someone who looks let's say average and is super sweet faithful and nice to you then they are worth it

I wish this was true but in reality looks is what gets you in and personality will keep you there.

Cihx wrote:

SharpMind wrote: As long as he eats as much as he wants it's all good.
Honestly I don't mind if someone is chubbier than average so.
Looks fade after all.

Except when you're asian of course. They look young until they hit 70, and by that time, we whities are already withering away. So yeah

Personally, I find this to be the hardest question to answer, considering there are TONS of different bodytypes out there, all in different shapes, fats and sizes. Although, personality comes FIRST for me, I would love me some OTTERMODE Only a few guys can pull off Athletic. I know one

I mean, it REALLY depends on the person. But ottermode is probably the sexiest bodytype I know of Thin, but visual markings.

Going by those pics, I probably like 'builtfat' the most. I guess it's kind of the most moderate and reasonable one to me. I like some muscle but also some softness. Too jacked and/or lean is kind of extreme. Not that I would turn a guy like that down (and not that a guy like that would be into me anyway lmao) but as far as my personal preference, I like fit but still 'normal'. Strong, but also fun to cuddle. lol

Yeah looks get you everywhere sadly ....
Almost nobody cares about personality anymore
Last night i kinda got rejected AGAIN


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SharpMind wrote: Yeah looks get you everywhere sadly ....
Almost nobody cares about personality anymore
Last night i kinda got rejected AGAIN

rejection is part of life,I would rather be rejected than to be with someone who is not sincere,honest or even a good match,than to waste years of my life being dedicated and devoted to someone who could care less,I just move on now with a smile on my face and thank that person for not wasting my time,it does not mean I am defective or unlovable,it just means the feelings are not mutual and you should move on..You cannot say on this whole entire planet,that there is not one person who will like you or understand you..There are probably at least a 1000 if not more,for each person..Just need to find someone who is invested as much as you are..If a guy can meet you and ghost you and do things only on his terms and does not care to compromise with you or even does not care what you want?Move on..It is not worth it..Friendship is not only one sided..If the guy claims he is just shy and whatever else but talking to a lot of other women,its an excuse..There are a lot of grown up boys on this sight,but to find a grown up man?Well,thats more difficult,being a man is not being an abusive control freak or being macho macho,which some guys on this sight think,thats what being a man is..It is not..Showing off their bodies in their pics,is like a mating call,they are looking for sex,nothing more..

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Sad reality how men only f*ck and go
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Id rather be alone for the rest of my life
Than fall for men who don't want me
Or are there men who want me long term?...

Male hey ai members convince me LOL jk

SharpMind wrote: ........
Sad reality how men only f*ck and go
.........
Id rather be alone for the rest of my life
Than fall for men who don't want me
Or are there men who want me long term?...

Male hey ai members convince me LOL jk

I have noticed there are a lot of emotionally broken men on this sight,some share their brokenness on you and cause instability..Like attracts like..If you are broken inside?You will attract an emotionally broken man..I attract broken men when I am broken...Because my standards are dropped and I feel like I do not deserve better..Well,im not that broken anymore and so i do not put up with men that play with my head or my heart,or men that are really confused about what they want in life..When a guy says he wants to be just friends but tries for more with you and wants no strings attached?For me?That is his loss if I offer something stable and he refuses,because he has trust issues or insecurities or whatever issues the guy has..Just work on yourself..Some guys bring out the absolute worst in me,some are pretty cool and dont play mind games and are legit good friends..Some guys want the thrill of catching you and when they have you,they abandon you and move on to the next person to play with..Because they are insecure and want to feel desired by someone,even if its someone they dont like..Makes them feel less lonely..Not your problem..I am taking this time to make myself stronger..Emotionally and physically.. Being with a guy,is the last thing on my mind,I start every relationship,whatever it is,with strictly friendship,and if it leads to anywhere?than fine,if not?than also fine..I invest into my friendships..Does not mean im desperate..Just means I value the person i am investing in..Some will invest back and some wont invest anything and give up,making excuses.Take it as a blessing when a guy does not want to invest and fight for you..You can move onto someone who is more mature and does not have as many inner conflicts..Any guy can constantly give excuses,but it takes a man to keep his word and be honest and not just say things that he thinks you want to hear and follows through..

Whatever i just want even online affection or something warm words and to feel happy again
Im quitting drinking alcohol and my birthday is in a few days so it:s difficult

SharpMind wrote: Whatever i just want even online affection or something warm words and to feel happy again
Im quitting drinking alcohol and my birthday is in a few days so it:s difficult

Well if all you want is nothing serious and just to have a guy in your arms?That should not be hard to find here..I have had plenty of offers..I am not into that though..I love cuddling and stuff,but if the guy is not invested in me,at all,except for fun,it really messes with me..Most guys here are only looking for no strings attached..I get attached to people I invest in..So I cannot just cuddle and do things with random guys..Some women are different though..

F*ck it
Love is more fake lookin than ...my friend's
fake as f*ck eyelashess lmao
Men of hey ai convince me otherwise