Is it just me, or are Vietnamese guys the least sought after out of all the asian cultures?

Thats 100% not true. it all depends on luck and where the girl end up meeting whom (Where the guy is from)

My friend was Vietnamese and he got a nice polish girlfriend. well half

There's always going to be somebody somewhere who thinks they are at the back of the line for something. That's just playing victim. Even if it might be somewhat true, but the majority of the time it's not. If you're sitting here reading these forums, you are quite privilege enough in life with at least some small advantages in life. If you think you deserve to be in the front of the line for something, go get what you're worth. If you don't think you deserve it, then you definitely need to invest a lot of resources, energy, and time on yourself. How can you expect another human being to be happy with you unless you are happy with yourself first? Often times people don't take accountability for themselves and look for something to blame. Same idea has getting a good paying job. If I don't have the skills for that salary level, then I just don't deserve it yet. So I will work on improving on myself to be capable of being successful at the job of that salary level.

I'm Vietnamese, and growing up I thought the same. But that was probably due to lack of confidence and experience. The truth is, as men. If you take care of your business and find balance in your life. People are generally attracted to positive vibes and successful people. You don't have to be a pop star or a mega rich person. Just be at a place in your life you're very happy with yourself. Someone capable of finding balance in their work life, social life, family life, and personal life. When you're in a good place, relationship eventually follows. Same idea goes with pursuing a passion or work. The universe just somehow magically finds a way to bring things to you when you get your shit together.

It took me a while, but now I'm at a place in my life where work is amazing. I get to travel whenever I want. I work my own schedule. I have time for family, friends, and myself. I'm never worried about being alone nor being single. I feel the right things come to us at the right time when they come. I'm as they say "On the Moon." Life has never been more amazing.

Never going back to that mindset again where I feel like I'm a victim and have all the worst luck in the world. Sometimes you just have to man up and make your own luck in life. This is speaking from the experience of 25+ years of depression. Just imagine your life playing out like one of those 'choose your own path' books where you make choices in life and each choice leads to different story endings. How will you define yourself and how will your story end? You are after all, the captain of your own ship and the master of your destiny. There's a good idea circulating around called The Law of Attraction. Never too late to improve on yourself one day at a time until you become the best version of you, you've ever dreamed of becoming. This goes out to every single guy out there, not just Vietnamese guys. So stop playing victim. Sure, society throws shit at you but without a good fight, the victory does not taste as sweet. Go out and fight with that "Come at me!" mentality. Be a f**king warrior in your life.

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Viet guys are the worst

lol no! its the indian guys! ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Am Vietnamese here, we tend to be more traditional and family orentated. If a Vietnamese guy brings you to meet his family and his mom really likes you, chances are you are a keeper. If she hates you, the relationship probably won't last long, cause she will be bad mouthing you all day long. So first impression counts.

Ronin wrote: Am Vietnamese here, we tend to be more traditional and family orentated. If a Vietnamese guy brings you to meet his family and his mom really likes you, chances are you are a keeper. If she hates you, the relationship probably won't last long, cause she will be bad mouthing you all day long. So first impression counts.

My mother is very traditional also. But she does not bad mouth others. She may have her own preferences, but she has learned to live with mine when it comes to my dating preferences. She supports me fully in whatever relationship I am in. She trusts and supports fully in my taste for friends. My siblings and I often bring friends back to hang at the house growing up, she always cooks extra in case we have a guest over and they are always welcome to mom's home cooked food. All of my friends say she is the best cook. She is easily impressed if you offered her Starbucks coffee. That's how you win her over. I taught this tip to all of my sister's boyfriends.

It really depends on each individual's parents. Not all parents are like that. My mom's good nature help raise me to become the person I am today. I would say I am one of the luckiest person in the world to have such a good mother. I never really had a father growing up, but I rather have one amazing parent than go through with having an extra parent who doesn't care.

I Love Vietnamese guys. They are adorable.

hey im vietnamese,..how come u didnt reply back to my message tho? thats ok, im going to hit u up right now

jungle asian da best asian haz very BIG double eyelids. whatchu talking abouts?