Do you like your present self?

space_disco wrote: i'm disappointed in how i turned out, i really wish i stuck to my goals better and now i'm regretting them. I find it hard to love myself because i know there was a better version of myself possible that i can never be. the older i get the less drastic these version can be, but i still reminiscence on what i could've achieved.

Be more positive and optimistic. It is never too late to try and give the best of yourself. This world requires commitment effort and sacrifice constantly, especially Change some aspects, overcome the obstacles and take risk,  Thus, the best version of itself is acquired evolutionarily.. You limit and overestimate yourself, as you can express you ''i know there was a better version of myself possible that i can never be'' if you do not try it every day and you are not perseverant .. Nothing is impossible!  We need to reflect on our day to day and above all if what we are doing today positions us in the place where we want to be tomorrow.
What if You Start From Now!!

Nightmare_Chica wrote: I seriously don't like myself at all. I only like the fact that I'm halfway through my dream. I feel ugly, I have a weird voice, I feel overweight, I just hate it all. My hair is too thick and annoying. Too frizzy and poofy. I feel like everyone only hates me because of the way I look and how my voice sounds.

You are a God's angel always be happy as you are.... People don't go for look or voice... they only care about your heart

In general, yes! I have a rewarding job, I am healthy, I don't starve, I have a house to live in, a car to drive, and family that loves and cares about me.

jeffreysan wrote: In general, yes! I have a rewarding job, I am healthy, I don't starve, I have a house to live in, a car to drive, and family that loves and cares about me.

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It’s a working progress

Could be even better, so NO, not yet.
Like a portion of myself. Just not sure which portion exactly tho

Most (I said most, NOT ALL, for many Asians keep themselves safe by mingling in their own circles while keeping traditions strong) Asian growing up, is born, or is a hybrid in a Anglo Saxon country like America, Canada, Australia, New Zealand will harbour self hate, depression and other confidence issues, which are mostly due to racism and cultural differences.

So if you are keen to get an Asian lover, make sure you don't go into it blindly and don't ask questions, lest you will be hurt many years down the line, especially if you bear the Asian man's child. Make sure you DO your HOMEWORK about all aspects of Asian culture and racist culture in western countries so you can understand the potential risks better before you fall for someone.

Das Schloss wrote: Most (I said most, NOT ALL, for many Asians keep themselves safe by mingling in their own circles while keeping traditions strong) Asian growing up, is born, or is a hybrid in a Anglo Saxon country like America, Canada, Australia, New Zealand will harbour self hate, depression and other confidence issues, which are mostly due to racism and cultural differences.

So if you are keen to get an Asian lover, make sure you don't go into it blindly and don't ask questions, lest you will be hurt many years down the line, especially if you bear the Asian man's child. Make sure you DO your HOMEWORK about all aspects of Asian culture and racist culture in western countries so you can understand the potential risks better before you fall for someone.

Or you can instead lose your sense of comfort? It's safe to not take risks, to be in a defensive position and to just blame & distance yourself from taking responsibility. But this world was not meant for pussies. :nomsayin Das:

I'm born and bred in Australia but spent a long part of my childhood in Malaysia. Came back after middle school and English was virtually foreign to me. Nowadays i speak English well enough after many esl sessions and sure, there were racist elements in oz I came across. But not so strong enough that it rules over you. I''m not trying to downplay the racism but as the topic write.

Maybe loving yourself first before you expect others to love you - I heard it's actually one of those lifelong romances if you can pull it off haha. So go and try to bravely get a win for yourself to feel better but don't stay here and spit self-pity and expect others to feel sorry for u. Maybe they do but it would likely enable you to be passive player who has no fault for his state and that makes me sad , but all guys need to tackle adversity eventually anyways - race and many other factors. All men have their cross to carry.

It's easy for you homes, cause you had your schooling in Malaysia. So yeah, drink the cool aid

You're not the only one!!! I'm sure everyone feels like this.