potential partner's living quarters

When observing and entering by invitation to the department / house of friends and professional colleagues either from nationals or foreigners, what I see first is the location of the apartment or house if it has a good Feng shui, second step is the entrance and their frequency energy , I analyze in seconds the environment of the house. If people have fish or plants I will observe their CHI if it is in continuous movement.

It is vital to live and be in harmony with these energies that transmute negative thoughts and energies into energy frequency and high level positive awareness, they also drive us, they transform us into a better person and maintain our inner calm, our mental and physical balance; However, due to the lifestyle, work and everyday stress that is carried now,it's very easy to fall into an imbalance, like dispiritedness in any activity, weakness throughout the body, fear of changes,stagnation regarding life, unoptimistic ideas, and finally Thought without reflection, through bad decisions, options and situations which is caused by a rebel Chi.

The third step is to observe if there is a good order and cleanliness in the Dprt / House, however, it is not too extreme or exaggerated. I have visited houses of some national friends, French friends are very humble, modest but very clean, although other nationals leave a lot to say, wanting to run away like finding bottles of beer everywhere, dishes from previous days or even past weeks accumulated in the sink, garbage or liquids of unknown origin in the main room, on top of musical instruments, dirty socks and briefs thrown in the main room, furniture, on occasion in the bathroom, your bathroom and shower without cleaning with shavers and toilet paper, thrown around them.
I have visited the small apartment of few Asian Friends and it's a thousand respects in order, fragrance and cleanliness and its atmosphere always felt a relaxing, serene and welcoming place in all aspects.

There are guys over 18, and adults especially over 35 years, who does not have good habits, good order and cleanliness in your workplace / home, do not have cleaning supplies, They says macho excuses that they are not good enough to clean, I prefer not to live with men like that, Regardless of sexual orientation, gender or age.
I had a experience when I was 18, with a music conservatory partner, We both had to deliver a musical composition project, however, a week before the project was delivered, he did not come. The next day I had to go find his apartment, when I rang the bell twice, he didn't leave the apartment; Then I had to talk to his neighbor and the owner of the building and explain that him did not attend classes and that something serious could happen if they did nothing about it, the responsibility fall on them and then the owner of the building derived the door.

To my surprise it was not an internal department, but rather a mountain of garbage, food, sweets and liquids spread everywhere, fluttering flies, bad smells, dishes and pots with food from previous weeks above his clothes and desk, weird mushrooms in his socks, cigarette butts, toys, books, ornaments and knickknacks that he treasures watered all over the floor and He was sick in bed full of cluttered clothes, it was a desperate feeling.


So I went to buy cleaning implements and clean all that internal mess all afternoon, I sort everything in their respective place and told to him the clothes that are clean and dirty.
When I finished I borrowed his shower, I shook my clothes well in the bathroom and took a shower, then cooked light food for him and he kindly asked me not to comment on what happened to anyone, after that I went home with the Project.

When I got home I washed my clothes and took another shower, then I drank a cup of Jamaican tea, I focused on correcting and completing what was missing from the project.
On the day of delivery I delivered the project and elapse a whole week, at the beginning of the following week him came and had recovered, however, seeing me he was very ashamed, under his gaze. I told him that nobody is perfect, we all have problems and that he should look as it did before. I advised him to change those bad habits and be more orderly in the place where he lives.

With friends of high esteem, I tend to be considered and understandable in a delicate situation, whether of health or excessive work; I usually help them with cleaning, although in advance they apologize for the house clutter, they tell me where the cleaning supplies are and they thank me.

Feral wrote: I lived alone for almost all of my adult years - save maybe a total of 6 months...Now, for the last 6 months, i am in a house shared by 4 roommates. This situation not only hammers home why I cannot date American men (white and black roommates), but it also makes me question being married AT ALL. The men, even the gay one, think I am their mom and servant.... .
If an adult, especially over 30, doesn't own any cleaning supplies or not enough to clean well enough, I don't think you should live with them - regardless of sex/gender or age.
I HAVE to have clean and even fairly sparse living quarters.My last BF was white and while his house was very clean, he had many knickknacks that he treasured and i knew right away I could never marry him. I'd refuse to clean knickknacks or to clean around them.
My 2 Asian BFs had very sparse, very clean apartments, and their place always felt a bit like an oasis - serene and welcoming. Granted, neither cooked or did their own laundry or cleaning (they had a maid service for that).
I HAVE to have things clean - but, I am bit afraid of having to clean up after someone else. I may not be marriage material. I'd never marry a slob, FOR SURE. A man who piddles on the toilet seat or around the toilet is not for me. My roommate did that (he occasionally gets drunk) and I raised hell with the landlord and now he is in a bedroom and bathroom on the other side of the house.

You sound like my type. I like to keep my living quarters clean just like you. I own a house unlike most Asian guys here who still live with their parents, not taking shit if you live with your parents..,,do what you have to do.


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