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Member being harassed for being an Asian female

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5 years 5 months ago #510707 by Dezra
Hello friends...
I have a question for the community and the mods here: Is anyone welcome here regardless of race or ethnicity? I was under the impression they were. I ask this because a friend of mine (who is an Asian female), who I encouraged to join here because of the friendly community I've experienced, has been harassed from DAY ONE by a member, telling her to leave. That she doesn't belong on this site because she's Asian.

I'm embarrassed to be perfectly honest. I encouraged her to come here and now she's being mistreated. What kind of message is this sending? This person didn't just say this to her once, she keeps sending her screenshots of the site policy - WHICH doesn't say it excludes anyone - but she is definitely telling my friend it does. This sort of behavior is toxic and shouldn't be tolerated. I'm truly appalled.

As for the girl who is doing this - you should be utterly ashamed of yourself.

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5 years 5 months ago - 5 years 5 months ago #510709 by jeffreysan
Replied by jeffreysan on topic Member being harassed for being an Asian female
Though this website was created to cater for Asian men and non-Asian women, I still do not see a problem why an Asian female should be here. It's a social website in the first place. :) :laugh:
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5 years 5 months ago - 5 years 5 months ago #510711 by JunJun.fr
I also knew of an Asian female member here (though she was more watching over her non-Asian female friend here). I have also spotted a few non-Asian males around, not sure if they really know where they landed, though... Anyway, in my humble opinion, anyone ―regardless of ethnicity― who fully supports A.M.+ Western Female relationship is welcome here.
Tell your friend to report the messages she received to an Admin / Moderator here so that action can be taken.

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5 years 5 months ago #510712 by defunct_user
in theory you can larp as anyone / anything online...
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5 years 5 months ago #510722 by Feral
I think AMWF deserves to have a space of their own. In a few AMWF groups, including this one, I have contacted admin about white men being in the group.
Including everyone makes ZERO sense and has ruined other AMWF groups -mainly because of the emn, not the females. But, let's be equal here: does a woamn deserve as many choices as a man does? Are Asian men deserving of more choices than white women and, if so, explain this to me in FINE DETAIL. Either those men think they are BETTER than me or they think they are more pathetic so need as much help as they can get. i'd never date a man who thinks either of those things. The Asian men I dated weren 't pathetic at all.
Why is it okay for other races to have their own personal space, but not white women? I have defended Asian women repeatedly in various AMWF groups when AM tried to call them race traitors or worse - if no human being belongs to another, it only follows that women don't belong to their community or race. But, that doesn't mean Asian women, Indian or Turkish or Central Asian men need to be part of an AMWF group.
Explain to me why we don't deserve our own space when others do? Use LOGIC, please - no Politically-correct 'feelings' needed. "Toxic" is a vague word and is hurling insults - not using logic.
I can understand hapa men or women being in the group (to some extent), but I have certainly read A.M. comments against this idea.

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5 years 5 months ago #510725 by jazz22
I can see why they could be upset since the site is mainly for Asian men and non-Asian women, but there's no reason to harass someone because of their ethnicity. Generally, this is a friendly place so don't ruin it with pettiness and just mind your own business and your own relationships. I would suggest you and your friend report the person, hopefully getting them blocked or something

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5 years 5 months ago #510732 by vietninja
Replied by vietninja on topic Member being harassed for being an Asian female
I'm a strong believer that anyone should be welcome here regardless of race.

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5 years 5 months ago #510734 by zen
“If we’re kind and polite the world will be alright....”

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5 years 5 months ago #510735 by booster
Ya anybody should be able to come on here and chat. Theres nothing wrong with having diversity. Haters will always hate. Just be you and dont worry about what other people think about you. ;)
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5 years 5 months ago #510743 by greensheep
dont even need to look at the policy. the motto under the banner says it all...'and like-minded'. just tell your friend to block the user and continue on with her merry way. going by the responses, she is more than welcome.
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