speed dating event in australia

louis xiao wrote:

charuran wrote: tbh be yourself and bring humour and you should be good to go, not everything is everyones cup of tea, Be confident in yourself and maybe you will see some wonders! good luck! ♥

is there anyway to learn to be humour, i am thinking if there any lesson

Why take lessons? I never took lessons yet I had people laughing. I suck at public speaking though.

louis xiao wrote:

Cihx wrote:

louis xiao wrote: just want to ask if it is suitable for me to join in the local speed dating event in australia.

i have been a few, i found i am the only few asian men in the speed dating event. most of them are white. they might think i am so strange.or laugh at me

have any of your guys have join in this kind of event and had success?

i had talked to some ladies there. they are usually quite friendly and nice to me, but i feel hard to move forward.

I have a chinese friend in Australia who keeps saying this to me: SHOW CONFIDENCE. if he can make white females change their looks on asian men and date them, I am sure you can too... I think it all comes down to confidence and humor tbh. If I was SPEED dating, these would be the top two qualities to go for.

do you find a bit weird to see a chinese man suddenly join in a speed dating event where most of people are white?

i tried a few times, never been successful getting a number from the girls there, i always feel people are not interested in me.

should i ask girls for numbers always and see if they will reject to give to me?

Give them your number if she is interest she will call you.

Huangfemu wrote: Aussie is not really a violent country in contrast to the US. The living cost is higher.. And it has a better living quality..

Iam not.sure about the dating events there...there are always good and bad people everywhere.
But in related to the pandemic.covid today ...the anti asian sentiment rises up extremely in Aussie as well as in the USA. POLITICALLY AUSSIE HAS A BAD RELATION WITH CHINA NOW..

how should i introduce myself to avoid such thing happen, tell them i am not chinese?

have you join in any speed dating event in usa?

U can do the same.to the asian girls
Some.do but many just .wont call you.




Give them your number if she is interest she will call you.[/quote]

louis xiao wrote:

Rainman wrote:

i am wondering if he really end up having a girl friend in that or just ask for number and never get in touch

This is why you fail with women.

Rainman wrote:

louis xiao wrote:

Rainman wrote:

i am wondering if he really end up having a girl friend in that or just ask for number and never get in touch

This is why you fail with women.

what do you mean? those guys end up sleeping with those girls?

louis xiao wrote:

charuran wrote: tbh be yourself and bring humour and you should be good to go, not everything is everyones cup of tea, Be confident in yourself and maybe you will see some wonders! good luck! ♥

is there anyway to learn to be humour, i am thinking if there any lesson

if you have no humor, just SMIIIIIILE...... and be yourself! But definitely smile. it's important!

btw, I've never done speed dating. xD

Cihx wrote:

louis xiao wrote:

charuran wrote: tbh be yourself and bring humour and you should be good to go, not everything is everyones cup of tea, Be confident in yourself and maybe you will see some wonders! good luck! ♥

is there anyway to learn to be humour, i am thinking if there any lesson

if you have no humor, just SMIIIIIILE...... and be yourself! But definitely smile. it's important!

btw, I've never done speed dating. xD

I am very jealous and proud, I see girls playing with other men and hate it. I am so confusing

louis xiao wrote:

Rainman wrote:

louis xiao wrote:

Rainman wrote:

i am wondering if he really end up having a girl friend in that or just ask for number and never get in touch

This is why you fail with women.

what do you mean? those guys end up sleeping with those girls?

Dude women are human being. You need to get to know them, unless you are a player . I can not stand pickup artist.

louis xiao wrote: you are scared the hell out of me mate

you dont need lessons. thats humour right there.