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Do You Think The United States Is Open To Asian Men?

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7 months 3 weeks ago #541589 by YingandYang
I would like to hear about the experiences of other Asian men who have lived in America, the Anglo World, or "The West" in general.

Having lived in America all my life, I find this country to be racially segregated and Asian males to be the least integrated minority. While it's easy to get an education and a good career. I think when it comes to social acceptance, Asian men generally aren't accepted in this country. Most people I've come across whether it's in College, Work, Church, ect just are not open to having any sort of social relationship with an Asian man.

Sure I've made some White friends and friends from different racial backgrounds but I found that to be the exception not the rule. I've come to accept as an Asian male I should just move to an Asian enclave or place where there's a large Asian community because that's the only place I'll find social acceptance.

Honestly I've come to the belief that it's just part of American culture not to accept people who aren't your Race because that's been my experience all my life in this country.

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7 months 3 weeks ago #541591 by Prime
After spending 31 years in this country....sounds like what you're experiencing is a personal problem.

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7 months 3 weeks ago - 7 months 3 weeks ago #541593 by greensheep
you guys are in how many generations now? 4-5? the asian population in the us are probably the most integrated asian population into a western world on earth. at this point, prime is right. this is a personal problem. further reinforced by the fact that you have focused only on asian men. are asian women socially accepted more in the us? (i ask this sarcastically).

i don't live in the us, and even i can see what you have stated is rubbish. if your avatar is you, id say your problem is more ageism/sexism than racism. i apologise if that sounded rude. i'm not trying to be. just giving you a honest opinion.
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7 months 3 weeks ago - 7 months 3 weeks ago #541596 by Starvewolf
Of course not, we are the last wanted men on earth. The most wanted today is 🐻 of course.

Seriously I really don’t find it respectable when a certain “particular” people experiences things ,then try to bring it to the rest of us. It’s like some women here before ,(or some women in general) .they had a couple bad experiences , and then they tried to make it like the rest of US should be responsible for their misfortune.

If you are a lovable person then you are , don’t try to make it look like a skin colour problem.

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7 months 3 weeks ago #541597 by Mari
I hate all men equally.


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7 months 3 weeks ago - 7 months 3 weeks ago #541598 by Starvewolf
^ that’s very disappointing ma’ma , you don’t hate us according to colour .

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7 months 3 weeks ago #541599 by Mari
Why limit yourself, if you can hate everyone?


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7 months 3 weeks ago #541601 by YingandYang
Where you getting the 4-5 generations statistic? Most Asian men in America are fops or 1st generation immigrants.

But that's besides the point, the point is all Anglo-societies are closed to Asian men. Doesn't mean you can't get an education, job, date, ect. Just means in general most people in these societies will be closed to seeing you as a social partner other than other Asians or a few open minded people.

All women are more accepted in America than men. America is a man's World, specifically a White man's world. And most white men in America and throughout the West regard Asian men as inferior.

It's not a just my problem, I see social rejection effect Asian men from all walks of life, level of attractiveness, age, education, wealth all that really doesn't matter, I've never seen a Asian man accepted by White Western society. No Asian man has achieved Social acceptance in the Western World ever.

I would say it's almost part of Western Culture to view all non-Whites as inferior but especially Asian men because really what have we done in the World in the last 1,000 years? We let White men get ahead of us.

The last time An Asian man was truly respected and looked up to by the World was probably the time of Genghis Khan.

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7 months 3 weeks ago #541602 by Mari
Is it part of your culture to be bitter and tar all white people with the same brush? 🤡

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7 months 3 weeks ago #541603 by YingandYang
I don't think it should be a controversial to say "The West" is based on White Supremacy and subordination of non-White people. It's just facts and history.

I don't care what White people think. Because growing up in Western society. I know most White people are the natural enemies of Asian men.

Excluding the 1% of White females who are weeaboo /koreaboos.

Honestly I think the West is very hypocritical they proclaim racial equality but practice a racial caste system. It's true many Asian countries are racist but we are upfront about it we never make the claim our societies are based on racial equality.

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