So what is it that attracts you to the opposite sex?

So simple. It does sum it up. Thank you.

goshem wrote: Ok if a girl isn't hot she must have a GREAT personality (nice, kind, etc...but not boring.), if she is HOT then she doesn't have that good a personality. I hope that sums it up for you.

Finding the perfect combination of personality and looks is like the holy grail...

Ronaldo wrote: Finding the perfect combination of personality and looks is like the holy grail...

As the saying goes, "beauty is in the eye of the beholder."

While I'm not considered the standard beauty in today's world, my personality really shines through and many ENJOY reading what I have to say. On the looks department? Not so much, and that really does hurt (it's been going on like this for years and years, so that be one reason why I have body dysmorphic disorder).

THE guy I knew I had a chance with is considered good looking, handsome, cute, in today's world, and there was a spark between he and I. We both knew it but we both live in the Land of Oblivion. We had a connection, we enjoyed each other's company. He saw me for me. To him, I was that Holy Grail.

I think it's fairly important. More or less depending on the guy. Different guys have different taste in women. But most guys like a girl who takes care of herself and also has a sense of style aswell.

lol mate it the first thing we see even before personality~

I'm really curious.. because personally I don't like having one lol.

It all depends on what girl it is .
Usually the tall womanly ones , mind them.
But the cute girly ones don't mind them .

All a matter of preference .

i like babyfaces...
and u should feel lucky because when u get older .. as in you 40's u will still look young and handsome ;D

I totally agree with Jossie!
Personaly, I've grown very fast especially in the chest area, and people thought I was 18 when I was 12, so that made me very self conscious. I think that made me feel weird and impossible to pass as pretty/cute. As a result, I wouldn't like to date a guy with a babyface.

I have such a young face too, but I don't mind it. I always turn this from negative to positive, if you know what I mean.

Just imgaine, you looking like a 20 year old even tho when you are in your 40s, and you can still go clubbing and meet young girls.