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So what is it that attracts you to the opposite sex?

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12 years 10 months ago #196896 by aye-man
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yeah great reason. bt we asian , so shy to talk with them and think they will nver care about us (asian).

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12 years 10 months ago #196909 by CaitieCakes
Honesty is needed. A good sense of humor, somebody who knows how to cuddle.. and a good sense of adventure is great too. :3

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12 years 10 months ago #196911 by darkblackguy
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I think Birdsfly pretty much sums it up with her two post.

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12 years 10 months ago #196913 by Solntze77
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I think that some people like people based upon how they look like, not what's inside.I work with Asian men and women, and I would not say that I prefer Asian over white..I see nice Asian and white men..and jerks from both cultures who are married or have girlfriends and flirt or ask other people out.
I would not generalize about people by "famous" stereotypes.
I have Asian co-worker that was asking me out..but later I found that that he has girlfriend in China...so go figure..

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12 years 10 months ago #196917 by Solntze77
decent
intelligent
honest
kind
great sense of humor.

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12 years 10 months ago #196918 by ouaisoki

Lowkey wrote: Popularity could be a good answer too. :)

I think the whole "preference" thing is pure rubbish.
it's just about sounding politically correct. white girls think they are handsome.
is that more than enough? due to the popularity and rise of asian media..I don't think it's hard to figure out.

just because it's a hardline answer doesn't make it bad but it sounds harsh to people's ears when they hear it.

sorry I just can't stand this upright political correctness when a lot of users on here are guilty of it. Not saying it's a bad thing but I don't see why people cover up the truth, to look good? I don't know but the truth is the truth. it's a lot of reasons really...if not asking why? then ask why not?..

if it's shallow then let's just admit that here and now because beating around the bush isn't going to get us anywhere. let's just admit the things we like and stop feeling so hurt because more people might have preferences over other things/stuff/people. tl;dr white girls just like asians more nowadays, that hard?


Dat girl is the best

I also don't think that in general white girls like asian people for many reason.
1st - Stereotypes of ugly, short, nerdy guy
2nd - Not enough manly compared to the others (I can't grow a beard :'(, no hair on chest)

But that a matter of taste.

I am not into asian girls but my longest relationship was a Korean girl.
It is everywhere the same, you have preferences but sometimes thing out of your track catch you.

Other cool example : I prefer way more Coca Cola but I have a good relationship with pepsi. yay !
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12 years 10 months ago #196920 by darkblackguy
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Why do people think its alright to stereotype just because they are of the said race? I think stereotypes are lazy and often wrong, and I think its inexcusable when a person of that own race uses it. You should know better!

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12 years 10 months ago #196921 by ouaisoki

darkblackguy wrote: Why do people think its alright to stereotype just because they are of the said race? I think stereotypes are lazy and often wrong, and I think its inexcusable when a person of that own race uses it. You should know better!


Wow calm down.
I have never said that I admit that those stereotypes are true.

But that non-asian people in General has this image of asian people because of culture aspect.

When you look at French ads for universal exposition in the 1900, asian people were drawn as shit with very slanted eyes & big teeths.
That is very set in the global mind now.

I am upset when people tell me that I am not like the other asians simply because of the stereotypes

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12 years 10 months ago #196922 by ilate89
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It's easy - most of white girls using this site just aren't attracted to white guys. You can test me if you want to. No matter how many photos of white guys will you show me, I'm 100% sure I won't choose even one of them.
You can say that it's all based on look, what about personality. Well, it comes after that. First I want to find a guy with whom I won't be ashamed to go out. We live in a look - based world, deal with it.
And when it comes to personality, I've met many Asians in my life, all of them were very nice, intelligent and well-behaved. I guess it's what all girls are looking for.

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12 years 10 months ago #196923 by aye-man
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wtv, asian guys found asian girls more interesting^^.

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