What is your ideal first date?

Rainman wrote:

I have see this one. Very disturbing...but then, I always thought Jerry Springer is fake and people can't be like that.....but then I moved to Jax and bought food at Walmart

My ideal first date would be a picnic by Lake Bruin in the summer. Rowing a boat across the lake during twilight as fireflies dance along the water lilies seems like the perfect ending

Anything that involves food I'm good with.
He can take me out to Wendy's, bubble tea and a movie and I'll be satisfied 😊👌🏾

Meeting each other completely naked for the first time.

When she pays the activity (dinner etc.) then I know its worth

when we both just sit there awkwardly, in silence, poking at our food because we just get one another. #foodislife

I honestly don't have picky preferences. I enjoy a smooth walk through an archeological~botanic park, a nice site, a quiet restaurant/cafe, and on subsequent appointments go to an animal sanctuary, camp under the stars, tourist lookout over looking mountains with river, sea. It depends on the type of person you are going to date, I focus my time and energy well to fully know the person. If I have chemistry, connection or similarities with that person, whether spiritual, personal or professional, and we like each other, then it seems incredible to me, organizing together, creating and doing some things, memorable moments. Keep things fun, light, serious when the moment calls for it.
Well, if you ask me, I recommend that any place with a view of nature, a body of water (river, lake or sea) will be pleasurable. An environment with good energy frequency in which the conversation is favoured, flows and then a moderate hike can be done, it would be wonderful. If things go well, suggest your companion to continue the interaction and go for a walk, play an instrument, try gastronomic creations, desserts between the two, or go to a singing room. Keep it all simple and see if you're compatible enough to warrant a second date request.
Please! No movies, avoid desolate places, lonely parks, night clubs, dark bars/dive bars, noisy concerts or elegant and extremely expensive restaurants.
Please! Pay attention, be perspicacious towards your companion. (Absolute discourtesy arriving very late for an appointment or not showing up, show up with poor bodily hygiene, checking the cell phone every 5 minutes, interrupting the conversation, irresolvable complaints, feel uncomfortable and create uncomfortable situations regardless from place, intolerant towards different thoughts, perspectives of vision of how each being experiences their reality, forcing topics of conversation in an interrogation, being disrespectful to physical space, speaking negative things about previous relationships with women from different cultures, recent sexual conquests, being rude to servers or anyone who serves you as part of their job, having a closed mind, ignorance, sarcasm off limits…!).
To a good understanding, few words are enough.
Do not exaggerately prioritize yourself, do not appear or pretend to be the best prospect in a way that you are not, sooner or later by intuition I will know what you are and I will discard you, do not waste my time, for me my time is very important and it is not fair that I waste it listening to your lies or elaborate excuses. If you don't have the confidence and security of not knowing what you want and you can't provide something concrete, or be able to express what you really want from a girl, please! do not make dates for her in vain, things do not happen by chance, they happen because you worked for it either selflessly or with hidden intentions.
It is essential to analyze and reach a definitive conclusion through the time of each interaction in a conscious, independent way, not to judge lightly or at first sight.

Dinner and walking in the moonlight or deep conversations under the stars

A perfect first date for me would be somewhere unexpected, like a hidden spot in a city we’ve both never been to. Picture us meeting at sunset, maybe by the sea or in a quiet, candlelit restaurant where time feels like it stops just for us. We’d share stories, glances, and those little smiles that say more than words. I love the idea of creating a memory that lingers long after, something only the two of us would truly understand

Watch a movie in the dark and hold hands.