goodbye

J-Ho wrote: make yourself scares, cut contact, cut connection. disappear.
During this time, work on yourself and break the pattern.
No whining, no begging, no crying, have conviction in yourself.
Then try it again.

let it go, if it loves you, it will come back, if it don't, let it be free if you really love it.
it takes 2 to tango.

not "it". she. she @ vanessa aint an animal.

nuqif wrote:

J-Ho wrote: make yourself scares, cut contact, cut connection. disappear.
During this time, work on yourself and break the pattern.
No whining, no begging, no crying, have conviction in yourself.
Then try it again.

let it go, if it loves you, it will come back, if it don't, let it be free if you really love it.
it takes 2 to tango.

not "it". she. she @ vanessa aint an animal.

oh it was just a quote that everybody knows

I didnt mean to call whoever this person is, an it ^^

It's a big mistake to post the private message here. If she ever happens to see it, she will never come back for sure. Posting a private message also makes me wonder if you are a trustworthy person. Besides, it's a bit too much for us. Too much information (TMI), as they say.
Like most people here, I'd say you'd have to let her go. It seems that she treated you very well, considering that it was an online relationship.
Harsh? Yes, but let us not talk about what 'harsh' really means...

zxynn wrote: It's a big mistake to post the private message here. If she ever happens to see it, she will never come back for sure. Posting a private message also makes me wonder if you are a trustworthy person. Besides, it's a bit too much for us. Too much information (TMI), as they say.
Like most people here, I'd say you'd have to let her go. It seems that she treated you very well, considering that it was an online relationship.
Harsh? Yes, but let us not talk about what 'harsh' really means...

very wise post.

You guys need to stop beating him up for it. Yes I agree that it's not good to post private letters and stuff on here, but he's obviously desperate and in pain. People make mistakes, especially when they panic. Lets try to stay on topic and offer the guy some worthwhile solution? Instead of beating him up on it.

xarthurx wrote: You guys need to stop beating him up for it. Yes I agree that it's not good to post private letters and stuff on here, but he's obviously desperate and in pain. People make mistakes, especially when they panic. Lets try to stay on topic and offer the guy some worthwhile solution? Instead of beating him up on it.

I'd love to be sympathetic, and I usually am. However, I wrote a tough response in this case, because I do understand that it is painful. I voiced what is best for him. And I'm sure many of us have gone through similar pain.
Personally, I'm willing to talk with the OP more sympathetically, if he wants to talk to me privately.

zxynn wrote:

xarthurx wrote: You guys need to stop beating him up for it. Yes I agree that it's not good to post private letters and stuff on here, but he's obviously desperate and in pain. People make mistakes, especially when they panic. Lets try to stay on topic and offer the guy some worthwhile solution? Instead of beating him up on it.

I'd love to be sympathetic, and I usually am. However, I wrote a tough response in this case, because I do understand that it is painful. I voiced what is best for him. And I'm sure many of us have gone through similar pain.
Personally, I'm willing to talk with the OP more sympathetically, if he wants to talk to me privately.

Thats good, good to know you're willing to help him out.

You hear that OP? If you need people to talk to we're available.

You can also talk to me privately, just let me know and we can take this to skype or msn and we can talk about what you can do to patch things up.

Sounds like this little love of yours isn't meant to be. Have faith that life will go on without her, and so it shall.

xarthurx wrote:

zxynn wrote:

xarthurx wrote: You guys need to stop beating him up for it. Yes I agree that it's not good to post private letters and stuff on here, but he's obviously desperate and in pain. People make mistakes, especially when they panic. Lets try to stay on topic and offer the guy some worthwhile solution? Instead of beating him up on it.

I'd love to be sympathetic, and I usually am. However, I wrote a tough response in this case, because I do understand that it is painful. I voiced what is best for him. And I'm sure many of us have gone through similar pain.
Personally, I'm willing to talk with the OP more sympathetically, if he wants to talk to me privately.

Thats good, good to know you're willing to help him out.

You hear that OP? If you need people to talk to we're available.

You can also talk to me privately, just let me know and we can take this to skype or msn and we can talk about what you can do to patch things up.

Good man Xarthurx, I got respect for your post.

Arthur pretty much has it spot on in pg2.
Too many people give up too easily, and I notice that people will almost always say something like "move on, there are plenty of fish in the sea"
Fight for your girl, follow your heart.