Why do people say looks don't matter?

haha, well, am i awful if i want good looks and good brains in a guy? No, it's only human. men are even more visually focused...

the other day this amazing looking tan guy smiled at me...i was on cloud 9 for hours!

vivi wrote: @TigerInside & @Jossie



the difference is when i joined the site i never complained :"oh people don't talk to me because i am ugly." i wouldn't care. that's why i think they are hypocrites.
i used to not even have a pic.and then i wouldn't get mad if people with pics don't answer.duh of course why would they answer.i would prefer to talk to someone like me.

and i explained when i say i care about looks . it doesn't mean i care who is the prettiest/hottest guy. i care about some characterists that i personally like.


(also even if i don't have the looks jossie that doesn't mean i shouldn't care about looks. i just shouldn't complain why the hottest guy won't answer like other people complained.that was my point)

Touche girl, defend yourself!!!!

Looks matter. Anyone who doesn't believe it are lying to themselves. It's just an excuse to try and make them look innocent. That goes for anyone and everyone.

FLAME ON!

Looks does matter, more or less depends on the individual, anyone saying it doesn't is either lying or blind

TChan wrote: I am just wondering what makes people join a dating site like this, but choose not to post a picture and why people say looks don't matter?

If you say a picture is not needed because people shouldn't base attraction on how a person looks, that is false. If some homosexual guy didn't put up a picture and put female as his sex, one of these guys on hey-ai could fall in love with him without even knowing it. If you say that if she has a *Vag* and that is all you need. There are hermaphadites and trannies that are post-op. They both have a vag, one even got rid of the d***. What stops you from going out with them? As long as the tranny doesn't tell you, you might think you are going out with a manly girl. It's all personality to you anyways right??? People have got to understand that it is not only what attracts a person, but what turns them on. That is the key statement. If you can get a girl wet, than your set. The more attractive the guy, the easier your job is. The hotter the chick, the faster a guy will reach his climax. Think about how porn is, would you choose someone that has a good personality over being hot to help get you off?!?

Speechless -_________-

because we are living in the world which you have to tell lies .

bentobeatbox wrote: Technically, this isn't a dating site... but o__O at that post.

This lady here is right, but if it were to be a dating site...Looks matter, and you have to be physically attractive. Then again looks matter no matter what other people say cause then, there just lying or else we wouldn't be so superficial about race and there wouldn't be such a site like Asian/whites..also Asian males wouldn't have such a harsh time in the dating scene, and site like these are downgrading, please bash me. LOL TROLOLOLOL

And Asian's wouldn't be so racist against blacks..and you all better start admitting it.

Scooby wrote:

bentobeatbox wrote: Technically, this isn't a dating site... but o__O at that post.

This lady here is right, but if it were to be a dating site...Looks matter, and you have to be physically attractive. Then again looks matter no matter what other people say cause then, there just lying or else we wouldn't be so superficial about race and there wouldn't be such a site like Asian/whites..also Asian males wouldn't have such a harsh time in the dating scene, and site like these are downgrading, please bash me. LOL TROLOLOLOL

I've been reading your posts like a creep, Scoob.

I think it's about time I break you.

No worries here! Thankfully I have the looks and the personality

I know truth hurts so badly..

It's like what kinda white man would date Halle Berry's daughter...shes half white and black..more black I think, I'm tellin you now..DOUBLE STANDARDS, we all got it to some degree