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Zaphnath wrote:
Whatusername wrote:
KeiChrono wrote: She adds me on FB,
She likes all of my posts,
She says, maybe we can grab coffee sometime,
I say, ok, but I dont drink coffee,
Three days later:
No likes from her,
No messages,
People are so predictable.
I hate it.
:sick:
If that's predictable then you knew that will be the result after your response. So you made your response expecting that reaction. So what's the big deal?
This is part of your own fault. Sorry to be so blunt. You are socially ignorant to understand that you don't have to order coffee at a café. I don't think she is interested in the coffee or whether you like coffee or not. She just wanna talk to you. You could have thought about ordering ice water or your choice of beverages. You are the one who blew it, not her, because she thinks now what kind of person you are: A person who only likes to gratisfy your own selfish desire without thinking the larger picture of what she really wants. That could be true in the sense of your choice of words.
I said it is part of her faults well, because you did say OK which she failed to grasp. Maybe she thinks you are just saying it. You seemed to be an honest man who knows what you want and are willing to put up with what you don't want. The reason is that you actually wrote down your thoughts of disappointment. I think she should give you a chance to redeem because it is a little misunderstanding and immaturity on both of your parts.
I hope this is a lesson learned.
I think you guys might be underestimating how much westerners love their coffee. Coffee is a magical gift from the earth, so for someone to openly admit they don't like it to someone who does is like saying you're an atheist to a devout believer. Deal breaker.
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Zaphnath wrote:
Whatusername wrote:
KeiChrono wrote: She adds me on FB,
She likes all of my posts,
She says, maybe we can grab coffee sometime,
I say, ok, but I dont drink coffee,
Three days later:
No likes from her,
No messages,
People are so predictable.
I hate it.
:sick:
If that's predictable then you knew that will be the result after your response. So you made your response expecting that reaction. So what's the big deal?
This is part of your own fault. Sorry to be so blunt. You are socially ignorant to understand that you don't have to order coffee at a café. I don't think she is interested in the coffee or whether you like coffee or not. She just wanna talk to you. You could have thought about ordering ice water or your choice of beverages. You are the one who blew it, not her, because she thinks now what kind of person you are: A person who only likes to gratisfy your own selfish desire without thinking the larger picture of what she really wants. That could be true in the sense of your choice of words.
I said it is part of her faults well, because you did say OK which she failed to grasp. Maybe she thinks you are just saying it. You seemed to be an honest man who knows what you want and are willing to put up with what you don't want. The reason is that you actually wrote down your thoughts of disappointment. I think she should give you a chance to redeem because it is a little misunderstanding and immaturity on both of your parts.
I hope this is a lesson learned.
But obviously its more likely to be the other way around.
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JunJun.fr wrote: OK, so as for now, we have a GOOD MORNING & a HELLO in your language threads...
IS there going to be a GOODBYE in your language thread soon ?
Should I make one?

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