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RANDOM THOUGHTS

San_Ichiban
Double rainbow Boarder

9 years 1 week ago - 9 years 1 week ago #430319 by San_Ichiban

Replied by San_Ichiban on topic RANDOM THOUGHTS

Your words will disappear.

Your house will disappear.

Your name will disappear.

All memory of you will disappear.

mornings are for coffee and contemplation.

Last edit: 9 years 1 week ago by San_Ichiban.

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Whatusername
Visitor

9 years 1 week ago #430320 by Whatusername

Replied by Whatusername on topic RANDOM THOUGHTS

Damn, my first message to Petey is lost forever.

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San_Ichiban
Double rainbow Boarder

9 years 1 week ago #430322 by San_Ichiban

Replied by San_Ichiban on topic RANDOM THOUGHTS

Whatusername wrote: Damn, my first message to Petey is lost forever.

one minute of silence....

mornings are for coffee and contemplation.

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Youdontknow
Visitor

9 years 1 week ago #430323 by Youdontknow

Replied by Youdontknow on topic RANDOM THOUGHTS

I am Happy since...days lol

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San_Ichiban
Double rainbow Boarder

9 years 1 week ago #430337 by San_Ichiban

Replied by San_Ichiban on topic RANDOM THOUGHTS

creep award of the month goes to the owner of this pm:

"i think you have beautiful hair...when you get on the street, i ll definately catch you.."

mornings are for coffee and contemplation.

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KeiChrono
Visitor

9 years 1 week ago #430342 by KeiChrono

Replied by KeiChrono on topic RANDOM THOUGHTS

San_Ichiban wrote: creep award of the month goes to the owner of this pm:

"i think you have beautiful hair...when you get on the street, i ll definately catch you.."

Definately instead of definitely...

Sounds like a stalker :sick:

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Whatusername
Visitor

9 years 1 week ago #430344 by Whatusername

Replied by Whatusername on topic RANDOM THOUGHTS

San_Ichiban wrote: creep award of the month goes to the owner of this pm:

"i think you have beautiful hair...when you get on the street, i ll definately catch you.."

Google translator pickup line of the week.

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thadeusz
Administrator

9 years 1 week ago - 9 years 1 week ago #430357 by thadeusz

Replied by thadeusz on topic RANDOM THOUGHTS

Hmm....I'm not sure whether you're now serious or just trolling. But I'll be polite enough and try to answer the best I can....

San_Ichiban wrote: But don't you personally think it'd be worth it for users like Bethel?

The very nature of the case that you described is rare, because that doesn't happen to everyone on a regular basis here. And for cases like this, there is - as I said before already - the archive button.

We can now discuss whether the archive button should be more prominent. And it's function more clear to the user. Or whether 50 PMs are sufficient. But then please discuss this directly with tenshi or kari.

San_Ichiban wrote: can I not really block a person?

You can block a person and that person cannot contact you. But (s)he can still send you connection requests.

If someone is harassing you or make you feel uncomfortable, please don't handle these situation by publicly shaming him/her as this is considered rule violation:
5. All members should respect other members on their views and backgrounds when expressing their own views or sharing their experience on forums, and refrain from attacking or insulting others personally or making unnecessary provocative statements. Members should not disclose private details of others, especially in the public forums. Everyone is asked to consult his/her own common sense as to what might be inappropriate.
www.hey-ai.com/searc...s/36-guidelines

Please use the report button or send your case to a mod you trust. The HA team will then take care. Thanks in advance.

As you may know, rule violation(s) can lead to a permanent ban from this site. So, there is no coming back once a member is rightfully banned.

San_Ichiban wrote: Are tenshi and kari even around these days?

You could have check it yourself by visiting their profile. Yes, they are.

Last edit: 9 years 1 week ago by thadeusz.

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San_Ichiban
Double rainbow Boarder

9 years 1 week ago - 9 years 1 week ago #430364 by San_Ichiban

Replied by San_Ichiban on topic RANDOM THOUGHTS

thadeusz wrote: Hmm....I'm not sure whether you're now serious or just trolling. But I'll be polite enough and try to answer the best I can....

San_Ichiban wrote: But don't you personally think it'd be worth it for users like Bethel?

The very nature of the case that you described is rare, because that doesn't happen to everyone on a regular basis here. And for cases like this, there is - as I said before already - the archive button.

We can now discuss whether the archive button should be more prominent. And it's function more clear to the user. Or whether 50 PMs are sufficient. But then please discuss this directly with tenshi or kari.

San_Ichiban wrote: can I not really block a person?
You can block a person and that person cannot contact you. But (s)he can still send you connection requests.

If someone is harassing you or make you feel uncomfortable, please don't handle these situation by publicly shaming him/her as this is considered rule violation:
5. All members should respect other members on their views and backgrounds when expressing their own views or sharing their experience on forums, and refrain from attacking or insulting others personally or making unnecessary provocative statements. Members should not disclose private details of others, especially in the public forums. Everyone is asked to consult his/her own common sense as to what might be inappropriate.
www.hey-ai.com/searc...s/36-guidelines

Please use the report button or send your case to a mod you trust. The HA team will then take care. Thanks in advance.

As you may know, rule violation(s) can lead to a permanent ban from this site. So, there is no coming back once a member is rightfully banned.

San_Ichiban wrote: Are tenshi and kari even around these days?

You could have check it yourself by visiting their profile. Yes, they are.

Thadeusz, believe it or not, for once I was not trolling. Just because I don't use conventional figures of speech or I am not as formal as you are in your posts, doesn't mean I am not serious about something. But you have never made the effort to get to know me, as well as I haven't to get to know you. Let me know in case you're ready because you still didn't seem to have understood what I am standing up for and what I am not.
Anyways, we can discuss this more in PMs if you like.

And there is no need to threaten me with a permanent ban at all. I think you're still having a personal problem with me and like I said, we don't need to discuss this here. It is nice of you to remind me of the rules, but imho I am a very valuable and level-headed member of this page. I don't appreciate being warned like that because of someone who doesn't seem to only have been molesting me. I understand your point of view though, but please don't take sides for someone who is disrespectful and doesn't know when it is enough. This page should care for their female members if they are being molested. And not point fingers at the ones who are molested. If it was the other way around, you would see my point of view, too. I didn't mean to call him out, but I did. You are welcome to edit my message anytime.

And I was on the phone when I wrote the last message. Since, unfortunately, we don't have an app for this wonderful site and it is a hassle to use it on the phone, I was just asking you for a favour. You probably don't even need to check if they're still active, because you probably know. So excuse me if you feel offended by me asking you for an answer you could easily give. If this is a hassel for you though, I will refrain from doing so in the future.

Regarding the blocking: What is the use of blocking someone if they still can send you requests with a personal message? That doesn't make sense and I think this is more important than the storage question. But I read your bottom line, I will contact Tenshi or Kari for this.

So thank you very much for your information.

mornings are for coffee and contemplation.

Last edit: 9 years 1 week ago by San_Ichiban. Reason: typo

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thadeusz
Administrator

9 years 1 week ago - 9 years 1 week ago #430366 by thadeusz

Replied by thadeusz on topic RANDOM THOUGHTS

San_Ichiban wrote: Thadeusz, believe it or not, for once I was not trolling. Just because I don't use conventional figures of speech or I am not as formal as you are in your posts, doesn't mean I am not serious about something. But you have never made the effort to get to know me, as well as I haven't to get to know you. Let me know in case you're ready because you still didn't seem to have understood what I am standing up for and what I am not.
Anyways, we can discuss this more in PMs if you like.

And there is no need to threaten me with a permanent ban at all. I think you're still having a personal problem with me and like I said, we don't need to discuss this here. It is nice of you to remind me of the rules, but imho I am a very valuable and level-headed member of this page. I don't appreciate being warned like that because of someone who doesn't seem to only have been molesting me. I understand your point of view though, but please don't take sides for someone who is disrespectful and doesn't know when it is enough. This page should care for their female members if they are being molested. And not point fingers at the ones who are molested. If it was the other way around, you would see my point of view, too. I didn't mean to call him out, but I did. You are welcome to edit my message anytime.

And I was on the phone when I wrote the last message. Since, unfortunately, we don't have an app for this wonderful site and it is a hassle to use it on the phone, I was just asking you for a favour. You probably don't even need to check if they're still active, because you probably know. So excuse me if you feel offended by me asking you for an answer you could easily give. If this is a hassel for you though, I will refrain from doing so in the future.

Regarding the blocking: What is the use of blocking someone if they still can send you requests with a personal message? That doesn't make sense and I think this is more important than the storage question. But I read your bottom line, I will contact Tenshi or Kari for this.

So thank you very much for your information.

Jesus....

- I didn't warn you. I wasn't even thinking of banning you or whatever. I wasn't even thinking of 'him'.... In fact, I had to think twice before knowing who you could be referring with 'him'.
- If you think I'm out to ban you or anyone here, then you are mistaken. Firstly, my mind is occupied with other stuff. Secondly, banning is a team process. Other mods would veto if they think I want to ban someone out of 'spite'. Thirdly, I always remove myself in cases where I think I could be biased (I voice my opinion though, but let the others decide).
- People who get banned, get banned for a reason. Not because a mod/admin has something against that person. If a biased decision is made, I would be one of the first to stand up against that decision. Trust me, the mod/admin team is very fair.
- .... also I don't have a personal problem with you. Even if I had, it wouldn't cloud my judgement.
- The reason why I mentioned the rules publicly is because others may face the same issue. In the past people made the same mistake. I don't want to contact every single one of them. So I thought it would be convenient to talk about that where others would see as well.
- No need to apologize or explain. Everything is fine.
- Yeah, that plugin doesn't really make sense. But since we are working on a new system, no one is really motivated to look into something that we won't use anyway. But I'll see whether it's possible to use another plugin. I'll probably do that in the next weekend or so. I get the point the point that it is important and I'm sorry for neglecting that in the past. But again, people can report users that harass them.

I hope everything is ok now?

Last edit: 9 years 1 week ago by thadeusz.

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