Weird komments on people's looks

Guys and girls, have you ever received a weird comment on your looks, which left you in self-doubt?
A girl wrote to me this morning, "Sieht man dir an Deine oberlippe ist so groß. " after I sent her a selfie. It means "Look at you, your upper lip is so big!". And then I asked her if it's good or bad. She just replied, "It looks funny." It confused me a lot, so I asked, "Just funny? Ugly or pretty?" She dropped an answer that made me even more confused, "Just funny..." Well... if it's a compliment, then I should perhaps try it on some girls. OvO But I think she was being sarcastic.

Only positive comment, but I get told a lot out loud in public by certain people that “you’re too skinny”!

Those been taught well and has good manners would never say anything like this to strangers.
It’s ironic,people who make negative comments tend to have a lot of their own problems.

Nope never, just hearing I look on every picture different that’s all

Jasonkong wrote: Guys and girls, have you ever received a weird comment on your looks, which left you in self-doubt?
A girl wrote to me this morning, "Sieht man dir an Deine oberlippe ist so groß. " after I sent her a selfie. It means "Look at you, your upper lip is so big!". And then I asked her if it's good or bad. She just replied, "It looks funny." It confused me a lot, so I asked, "Just funny? Ugly or pretty?" She dropped an answer that made me even more confused, "Just funny..." Well... if it's a compliment, then I should perhaps try it on some girls. OvO But I think she was being sarcastic.

That is very akward that she commented about your upper lip looking funny,normally i would take that in a negative light,but who knows,its kind of like saying your upper lip looks weird..It is not very polite..I accept people as they are.

Jasonkong wrote: Guys and girls, have you ever received a weird comment on your looks, which left you in self-doubt?
A girl wrote to me this morning, "Sieht man dir an Deine oberlippe ist so groß. " after I sent her a selfie. It means "Look at you, your upper lip is so big!". And then I asked her if it's good or bad. She just replied, "It looks funny." It confused me a lot, so I asked, "Just funny? Ugly or pretty?" She dropped an answer that made me even more confused, "Just funny..." Well... if it's a compliment, then I should perhaps try it on some girls. OvO But I think she was being sarcastic.

Also i have received comments on my looks,mostly that i look very fat and overweight and some people think im mentally challenged?As much as i appreciate honesty and opinions? I feel there are some things better left unsaid.Especially if they are mean like that.

Krystal777 wrote:

Jasonkong wrote: Guys and girls, have you ever received a weird comment on your looks, which left you in self-doubt?
A girl wrote to me this morning, "Sieht man dir an Deine oberlippe ist so groß. " after I sent her a selfie. It means "Look at you, your upper lip is so big!". And then I asked her if it's good or bad. She just replied, "It looks funny." It confused me a lot, so I asked, "Just funny? Ugly or pretty?" She dropped an answer that made me even more confused, "Just funny..." Well... if it's a compliment, then I should perhaps try it on some girls. OvO But I think she was being sarcastic.

Also i have received comments on my looks,mostly that i look very fat and overweight and some people think im mentally challenged?As much as i appreciate honesty and opinions? I feel there are some things better left unsaid.Especially if they are mean like that.

Krystal dont let people like that get you down,anyone who can call you such names and be offensive and are not worth your time,regardless if you are not like the average woman or whichever.You seem like a good,caring and loving person and you deserve someone who will treat you with care and respect.One thing i learned in relationships and friendships,is never to let someone else define your worth or value,their opinion is not important at the end of the day.You have a lot of possitives about you from what i have seen,even if you struggle a bit.You are human.You will eventually find the right person for you,do not give up hope.If someone does not accept you as you are?Or not interested?They have done you a personal favor.We can chat more in private if youd like. See you in your inbox...

Wouldn't you make this situation even more awkward when the girl that made that comment reads this thread...?

doge wrote: Wouldn't you make this situation even more awkward when the girl that made that comment reads this thread...?

i think the guy is looking for some advice,nothing harmful or maliscious in asking.If the girl did read this?Well maybe she would be ashamed of her behavior in acting in such a way towards him.I personally find that when telling someone that something is weird?It is usually an insult.So.If she is meaning it as an insult,well its better the guy asks before he starts using it as his pickup lines.. I admire his courage at least to ask..

This girl isn't on this website, so there's nothing to worry about. Besides, we often play jokes on each other, so I'm kind of getting used to it. But since I used to have a crush on her in the past, I had a mixed feeling after receiving such a comment from her. It made me wonder if she friendzoned me because of my looks.

Jasonkong wrote: Guys and girls, have you ever received a weird comment on your looks, which left you in self-doubt?
A girl wrote to me this morning, "Sieht man dir an Deine oberlippe ist so groß. " after I sent her a selfie. It means "Look at you, your upper lip is so big!". And then I asked her if it's good or bad. She just replied, "It looks funny." It confused me a lot, so I asked, "Just funny? Ugly or pretty?" She dropped an answer that made me even more confused, "Just funny..." Well... if it's a compliment, then I should perhaps try it on some girls. OvO But I think she was being sarcastic.

Oh boy, I have come back for that will make her giggle or stop talking to you completely...