Guys if you are serious about a girl would you delete your hey ai account?

Hmmmm...

If someone feel insecure about me finding another girl here, I will in fact delete her.

at their request i would. but i dont think any girl needs to worry. the chance of scoring a bird online is about the same as winning the lottery.

I made some pretty good friends from here too. I don’t fully using this site to get dates or fooling around with girls. Mostly just sharing thought and a good laugh plus learning a little bit of other different cultures

Prime_c wrote: Tbh, chances of finding a successful relationship on here is going to be difficult. I would say MAYBE 10-20% chance.

that is what i call an optimist. and that is why hes won on here and i havent .

^if you show your innocent pretty face you’ll get taken away pretty fast. But I’m talking about 3-4 years ago when there was more members more active. Some girls trust strangers very fast very easily without discover what’s under their “mask”. And then you’ll be expected to take it from there lol

^oh benny, i know i can always rely on you for a compliment.

on a serious note, i have been lucky enough to be contacted by a couple of members who i really like. but being taken, the timing wasnt right. this probably wont help the OPs insecurity lol.

It could depend on the motives of the hey-ai member or the person they are dating. If the person on the site is using it primarily for dating, it would make sense for them to become inactive once they find someone. However, if they come on to socialize, interact with friends, and be a part of a community, there’s no reason to remove that part of your life because of a new relationship.

If you are the one asking them to leave, you should know that trying to control someone will only push them away in the long run. That might not remove your fears, but you can guide them into something more proactive and trusting who you are with. And maybe even come on for advice from others that are on here and committed