The TRUTH about liking asian guys. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

I find these unharmed minds wonderful ; -D

edj1000 wrote: On behalf of all Asian guys, we are sorry that our societal value has increased in the recent years. What you may have experienced with us to be endearing in the past is becoming harder to find, we understand. While this may be a bittersweet moment for people who feel this way, just know that there's still a long way to go for all groups of minorities or oppressed groups, and that selfless support is much appreciated.

While I personally did not laugh while reading your post, I'm sure others appreciated its humour. I was educated in a very liberal environment and was discouraged to support jokes that perpetuated harmful stereotypes, especially directed at groups of people, and involved individuals you personally may not know. Although it was quite clear that you were only joking, at a much needed time when the world is literally falling apart, please be considerate of the repercussions of misdirected humour.

was this meant to be directed towards someone?

I started liking non Asian girls around high school after realizing some of them liked me back and treated me well. I felt like the apple in their eye. But to be fair, like 90 percent of the population were non asian anyways so you're bound to find all kind of people and not just one uniform type. Tho there are quite a lot of girls out there that will reject you on the basis of being Asian in the west. But maybe that is character training. Are you just going to cry and whine about it or just learn to take rejection gracefully. If you are able to feel good about yourself counter of what other people think of you or reject you - that is actual solid confidence right there that is inherent.

Why so dependent on girls' approval; especially when they all have different tastes. I've seen Asian guys rejected by cute girls but also quite a few have also dated cute girls. That discrepancy showed that there are a diversity out there. Azn guy's confidence needn't be at the mercy of such diversity. If anything, that just only intimidate you from trying and you would have lost much opportunities you didn't realize you had. It's too easy to blame it all on race especially when you don't give it a fair chance. If you're a well dressed, decent looking Asian guy with a good job. There are sufficient numbers out there would would be into you.

Having said that. Some girls who admit they want to be with Asians - not because they are drawn to them as they are alluring and different in a good way. But because they are "losers" and hence have little options. And such female losers feel better appreciated by a genuine loser. That is probably the worst and saddest motive to want to be with someone. You have to have zero dignity to be accepting of girls who think of you like that.

Krystal777 wrote:

edj1000 wrote: On behalf of all Asian guys, we are sorry that our societal value has increased in the recent years. What you may have experienced with us to be endearing in the past is becoming harder to find, we understand. While this may be a bittersweet moment for people who feel this way, just know that there's still a long way to go for all groups of minorities or oppressed groups, and that selfless support is much appreciated.

While I personally did not laugh while reading your post, I'm sure others appreciated its humour. I was educated in a very liberal environment and was discouraged to support jokes that perpetuated harmful stereotypes, especially directed at groups of people, and involved individuals you personally may not know. Although it was quite clear that you were only joking, at a much needed time when the world is literally falling apart, please be considerate of the repercussions of misdirected humour.

was this meant to be directed towards someone?

If I were to begin forming a blanket statement about my views towards an ethnic group of people, is that not directed towards a group of people? Some of which I have never met before?

@ Krystall:
Really? I'm speechless !

@ Cihx:
Signs ? No need for that. They will shout it...

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Cihx wrote:
If the females in those clubs, had signs around their neck saying 'I like asian boys', I'm sure the guys would have more confidence in hitting them up.

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Krystal777 wrote:
] lol I never knew an Asian guy who could actually do one of these two things oddly.. XD I usually repaired my own computers..Cellphones?I have No idea..lol..

dogface9 wrote: I started liking non Asian girls around high school after realizing some of them liked me back and treated me well. I felt like the apple in their eye. But to be fair, like 90 percent of the population were non asian anyways so you're bound to find all kind of people and not just one uniform type. Tho there are quite a lot of girls out there that will reject you on the basis of being Asian in the west. But maybe that is character training. Are you just going to cry and whine about it or just learn to take rejection gracefully. If you are able to feel good about yourself counter of what other people think of you or reject you - that is actual solid confidence right there that is inherent.

Why so dependent on girls' approval; especially when they all have different tastes. I've seen Asian guys rejected by cute girls but also quite a few have also dated cute girls. That discrepancy showed that there are a diversity out there. Azn guy's confidence needn't be at the mercy of such diversity. If anything, that just only intimidate you from trying and you would have lost much opportunities you didn't realize you had. It's too easy to blame it all on race especially when you don't give it a fair chance. If you're a well dressed, decent looking Asian guy with a good job. There are sufficient numbers out there would would be into you.

Having said that. Some girls who admit they want to be with Asians - not because they are drawn to them as they are alluring and different in a good way. But because they are "losers" and hence have little options. And such female losers feel better appreciated by a genuine loser. That is probably the worst and saddest motive to want to be with someone. You have to have zero dignity to be accepting of girls who think of you like that.

I should be ashamed of myself right? ; -( SHAME ON U NAVI, SHAME ON U!

I have students who are Asian and complain about the same thing, that with the fashion of kpop and dramas (Chinese, Korean and Japanese) now everyone loves them, but years ago nobody paid as much attention to them as now.

dogface9 wrote: Having said that. Some girls who admit they want to be with Asians - not because they are drawn to them as they are alluring and different in a good way. But because they are "losers" and hence have little options. And such female losers feel better appreciated by a genuine loser. That is probably the worst and saddest motive to want to be with someone. You have to have zero dignity to be accepting of girls who think of you like that.

I knew right away there will be some trolling in this thread the moment I saw ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°).

I just don't know how to respond when someone have realy bad sense of humour, but they think they are genius in making jokes.