Random Thoughts 2

Starvewolf wrote: who needs a baby when you have a line of kitty army to look after ?👀

Are you at Navi's cat farm?

bongocat wrote:

Starvewolf wrote: who needs a baby when you have a line of kitty army to look after ?👀

Are you at Navi's cat farm?

Oh come on now ,boy👉🧑🏻👈 got his own cat farm . There’s 12 here if not counting the ashes 😎🤳🏻

Foreverblue wrote: man... time is really ticking for me then...

. are you still trying? or have pretty much given the idea up?

as for being a cat man, i'm a dog person T_T. i've also vowed to never own a dog again after my first and only one passed away several years ago.

^ saw an estimate number online , 1 baby cost about the same amount for 10 cats yearly . Then sometimes a vet bill for a cat or dog ,can easily run you down 10k+.

Having a baby also completely destroy your freedom and free time . So boys, are we at that age ,to toss out the fancy look and finally ready to embrace the daddy element?🫡

I have two dogs and these are my last. Dogs are a lot of work and tie you down from traveling and the dog hair! My first do that is ten years old sheds twice a year but I got a second rescue last summer and she shed every 4 hrs!

I have two cats from the local rescue and they are easy! And I live more of a country style life /yard so the cats use a doggy door. I don't worry about kitty litter.

Kids are work... Stress... Money... And a lot of fear! Fear for their future and their safety A partner to make the kids. Some kids are born with disabilities or special needs...
I have two boys. I love being a mom. It is the best part of my life. If I wasn't a mom I would definitely work in an orphanage.

About Chinese Wechat App

Anyone here have experienced messages moderated by wechat without notifications from wechat ? like the app is deliberately stopping you from contacing someone in different social class ?

Ajam.. hmmkay.

i have given this a lot of thought, and im ready for whatever shit will be thrown at me (figuratively and literally) with kids .

up until my mid 30s, i had no interest in having kids. unfortunately i am where i am now with my (poor?) life choices. i fucked around long enough. its time to face real life issues of responsibility, hardship, and rapid aging. but in all seriousness, i dont think i would lose that much freedom. i am surrounded by family who can help.

^ In that case mate , I hope you see that moment soon and able to bring out An amazing hey ai baby 🫡.

For me tho , my missy already have some thought of her own . Like want to score this at a younger age than older 😬.

it really should be a decision made early in adult hood. hell, even mother nature gives us signs about this on our bodies.

if i do end up being a father in the foreseeable future, im going to be wheeling in a wheelchair with a plaid blanky covering my legs at my kids primary school graduation T_T.