Age Gap

Andreea_V wrote: Do you think an age gap matters between two people that love each other sincerely? When your feelings are so strong, a couple of numbers will be nothing, you won't be able to see them.
Can anyone set a rule and say that you're not allowed to have feelings for someone younger than 16 ot 18?

No it's creepy as *bleep*! >_<

Even tho I think age matters less as people grow, I still certainly thinks it's wrong for a 25 year old to be with a 16 y o. With that age gap, I think it's ok if the woman is around in her 30s and the guy late 30s or early 40s.

Age is just a number, maturity that really counts... I don't mind going out with younger guys, in fact I like more...

in my opinion its inappropiate as a guy who is 25+ to contact girls under 16.... thats creepy
im 20 and i feel like a pedo when i talk to girls who are 16-17...

onecallaway wrote: in my opinion its inappropiate as a guy who is 25+ to contact girls under 16.... thats creepy
im 20 and i feel like a pedo when i talk to girls who are 16-17...

Winner.

He speaks the truth. I feel the same way.

all the girls on here are pedos. they all contact me even when they're at least 3-4 years older

but i'm not complaining

Aerathon wrote:

HanDok wrote: first of all you, master yoda, are 900 years old, so imaybe u should re-think your position

kidding aside: i think it´s not per se a bad thing. it´s just a matter of character. not everyguy is a douchebag like the ex of your friend. i myself had my heart broken by younger girlfriends exclusively and it took me far more than one year to get over it
take a look around, cheating or abusing bfs aren´t always 10 or more years older.
face it: you are an ageist!

=P Nah I'm not an ageist, I just think that young girls are vulnerable to manipulation by older guys (law makers agree with me). I'm not saying everyone is a bad guy. There's only a handful of bad guys out there but still we want to protect the young ones from them.

I don't know why you act like younger girls are more naive or innocent or whatever...
I mean teenagers these days grows up faster than back in my days before all the social media and youtube and stuff. They're not any more "incapable" of making decisions as of say someone who is 22 or older. People of any age group can be hurt and taken advantage of, it's irrelevant. Now obviously if the person is 14 then it's another story.. But by the time most people are 16, they're old enough to be able to comprehend and make decisions in life. In the past I've always avoided girls younger than 18, but I ended up offending and hurting the girls who are under 18 simply because of age. Then I remember how it was like when I was at that age and some of the "adults" wouldn't take me seriously or whatever. Well I learned to be more open minded since then in getting to know someone who may not yet be considered an adult legally. I don't think there's a problem with that, unless all you care about is sex, then maybe it'd be a problem with you since having sex with an under age girl is always dangerous and stupid. But I don't see anything wrong with trying to get to know someone who happens to be younger and form real friendship / relationship, the physical stuff can wait until shes ready and legal? If you love and care about her and isn't just after her body, then it shouldn't be much of an issue. But if you're some old pervert lusting after some younger girls, then yes it's a huge problem.

bentobeatbox wrote:
Why can't they contact the older girls?
Plenty of us want some lovin' too, ya know.

how U doin

Nekky wrote: No it's creepy as *bleep*! >_<

bite me