Do you believe Men and Women can be just friends???

My closest friends have been guys. For me, being friends with women brought me a lot of drama and a sense of insecurity because it always felt like i was needing to compete for something superficial which is not me at all. Three of my best friends are guys and they are incredible wise and supportive. I wouldn't trade hem for the world. On the flip side, I have had to break off some friendships with guys because they wouldn't keep things at a friend level even after we discussed our boundaries/stances on the relationship. It seems to me that the people we want to be with romantically just want to be friends and the ones wanting to be romantic with us we just want to be friends with. lol atleast this has been the observed experience for me XD

yes I do...there are several guys in my life where I know there have never been any romantic feelings and will never be...*stop reading if you are not into spiritual stuff*

if two souls connect why does gender even matter? In my opinion thats true in both cases...friendship and relationship

Once upon a time, when I was still a little tiger living in space, I was looking for male role models and father figures, trying to figure out what it means to be a man and who I want to be, yearning for the masculine energy. Then one day I came upon a nice lady who after a while looked me in the eyes and told me: Remember that your ancestors also include a strong lineage of women that has led to your existence. It might sound completely rubbish to you, but somehow it struck me.

Women, men. We are all just people. Of course we can be friends.

Sure!... why not?

Absolutely. Being friends or not depends on the people and their personalities, like any other relationship.

Sure. Single people are proof of that.

Yes, why not?

Be aware that in the pickup/alpha male community, the advice that often get thrown around is to avoid women with lots of male friends. The reason being that guys will stick around waiting for opportunity to get inside the woman pant.

skysoblue987 wrote: Yes, why not?

Be aware that in the pickup/alpha male community, the advice that often get thrown around is to avoid women with lots of male friends. The reason being that guys will stick around waiting for opportunity to get inside the woman pant.

okay...if this is true my whole life is a lie...hahah
please...men of hey-ai tell me he is not right...I need to hear he is not right...hahah

^ he’s not fully wrong,let me count the girls that wanted to be my sister.....

No because once they meet me they want to be with me. Hard life no friends T.T