Ok...so....do girls like shy Asian guys?

I think almost every asian gets shy at sum point. The best solution would be getting to know him so he's in that comfortable zone with you and the shyness wont be there anymore. I noticed sum ppl get shy when they meet new ppl, some get shy when they see someone super hot. I used to be pretty shy back in the days. The way i think nowadays is like we all human beings. And first impression is the best one so being shy wont help. You just gotta find a way to be stop being shy thats all. The keyword here is 'Confidence'.

schwagbob wrote: I think almost every asian gets shy at sum point. The best solution would be getting to know him so he's in that comfortable zone with you and the shyness wont be there anymore. I noticed sum ppl get shy when they meet new ppl, some get shy when they see someone super hot. I used to be pretty shy back in the days. The way i think nowadays is like we all human beings. And first impression is the best one so being shy wont help. You just gotta find a way to be stop being shy thats all. The keyword here is 'Confidence'.

yeah u got some good points...i am wondering why asian guys seem to be shy at all? why is that so? i know why i am shy but that is another thing...and sometimes i am not it depends...and you shouldn't worry too much about first impression as you said we are all humans. if you worry too much then u will be very insecure and in high tension and that is what will make you acting like an idiot maybe xD but it is not a problem as long yo don't get dirty or give the girl a feeling of being not respected or anything like that. is yoe are shy it even can be sweet. but at the same time you should be able to protect a girl.

haha i have a non asian male friend who'd be interested in me. i like him but once i needed his help because of another person wanted to harm me. i asked him to help me and he said, yeah i can come but forward i have to tell you that if the person wants to slap you i will be frightend and roll on the floor like an anxious animal. and i was Ö_Ö wtF????????
this was SO disappointing!!!!! i did't feel save then and went to my parents...

Sakuranantoka wrote:

schwagbob wrote: I think almost every asian gets shy at sum point. The best solution would be getting to know him so he's in that comfortable zone with you and the shyness wont be there anymore. I noticed sum ppl get shy when they meet new ppl, some get shy when they see someone super hot. I used to be pretty shy back in the days. The way i think nowadays is like we all human beings. And first impression is the best one so being shy wont help. You just gotta find a way to be stop being shy thats all. The keyword here is 'Confidence'.

yeah u got some good points...i am wondering why asian guys seem to be shy at all? why is that so? i know why i am shy but that is another thing...and sometimes i am not it depends...and you shouldn't worry too much about first impression as you said we are all humans. if you worry too much then u will be very insecure and in high tension and that is what will make you acting like an idiot maybe xD but it is not a problem as long yo don't get dirty or give the girl a feeling of being not respected or anything like that. is yoe are shy it even can be sweet. but at the same time you should be able to protect a girl.

haha i have a non asian male friend who'd be interested in me. i like him but once i needed his help because of another person wanted to harm me. i asked him to help me and he said, yeah i can come but forward i have to tell you that if the person wants to slap you i will be frightend and roll on the floor like an anxious animal. and i was Ö_Ö wtF????????
this was SO disappointing!!!!! i did't feel save then and went to my parents...

Umm I think there's a difference between being shy and being a P*ssy. ROFL. you fren was being the puss right there. and your right about first impressions. when someone worries about it too much, they often mess up. The way i think bout overcoming shyness is to think its now or never. u meet someone first tyme. being shy wont have gd impressions. So just being yourself, saying n doing things you normally do wud help the person understand and approach you easily. And it's not always the shy asian guys. Shy people exist all around the world.

Also i noticed sum people are shy because of their past experiences. Like my ex was super shy n scared with guys wen i met her coz her ex BF didnt treat her right. Now she is confident as hell lol. I guess sum shy people need someone there to help them to boost their confidence.

schwagbob wrote:

Sakuranantoka wrote:

schwagbob wrote:
yeah u got some good points...i am wondering why asian guys seem to be shy at all? why is that so? i know why i am shy but that is another thing...and sometimes i am not it depends...and you shouldn't worry too much about first impression as you said we are all humans. if you worry too much then u will be very insecure and in high tension and that is what will make you acting like an idiot maybe xD but it is not a problem as long yo don't get dirty or give the girl a feeling of being not respected or anything like that. is yoe are shy it even can be sweet. but at the same time you should be able to protect a girl.

haha i have a non asian male friend who'd be interested in me. i like him but once i needed his help because of another person wanted to harm me. i asked him to help me and he said, yeah i can come but forward i have to tell you that if the person wants to slap you i will be frightend and roll on the floor like an anxious animal. and i was Ö_Ö wtF????????
this was SO disappointing!!!!! i did't feel save then and went to my parents...

Umm I think there's a difference between being shy and being a P*ssy. ROFL. you fren was being the puss right there. and your right about first impressions. when someone worries about it too much, they often mess up. The way i think bout overcoming shyness is to think its now or never. u meet someone first tyme. being shy wont have gd impressions. So just being yourself, saying n doing things you normally do wud help the person understand and approach you easily. And it's not always the shy asian guys. Shy people exist all around the world.

Also i noticed sum people are shy because of their past experiences. Like my ex was super shy n scared with guys wen i met her coz her ex BF didnt treat her right. Now she is confident as hell lol. I guess sum shy people need someone there to help them to boost their confidence.

oh wow, good words...i totally agree...hhaha! i could write a whole thriller about my experience lol thats why i need a strong but understanding guy who will treat me well. but no pussy!!! pussy is awful T_T so disappointing...so u think guys can be shy but be no pussys at the same time? hmmm i hope so...u know what wonderful feeling it is if a guy is standing behind u and will kick the shit out of someone who wants to harm you? i so wish for that T_T im honest although it is hard to admit...

actually people who are shy are more likely to be more open online then in person until they actually feel like they know that person until they meet them in person and they can be themselfs in person like they act online im not sure if this makes much sense

Sakuranantoka wrote:

schwagbob wrote:

Sakuranantoka wrote:

schwagbob wrote:
yeah u got some good points...i am wondering why asian guys seem to be shy at all? why is that so? i know why i am shy but that is another thing...and sometimes i am not it depends...and you shouldn't worry too much about first impression as you said we are all humans. if you worry too much then u will be very insecure and in high tension and that is what will make you acting like an idiot maybe xD but it is not a problem as long yo don't get dirty or give the girl a feeling of being not respected or anything like that. is yoe are shy it even can be sweet. but at the same time you should be able to protect a girl.

haha i have a non asian male friend who'd be interested in me. i like him but once i needed his help because of another person wanted to harm me. i asked him to help me and he said, yeah i can come but forward i have to tell you that if the person wants to slap you i will be frightend and roll on the floor like an anxious animal. and i was Ö_Ö wtF????????
this was SO disappointing!!!!! i did't feel save then and went to my parents...

Umm I think there's a difference between being shy and being a P*ssy. ROFL. you fren was being the puss right there. and your right about first impressions. when someone worries about it too much, they often mess up. The way i think bout overcoming shyness is to think its now or never. u meet someone first tyme. being shy wont have gd impressions. So just being yourself, saying n doing things you normally do wud help the person understand and approach you easily. And it's not always the shy asian guys. Shy people exist all around the world.

Also i noticed sum people are shy because of their past experiences. Like my ex was super shy n scared with guys wen i met her coz her ex BF didnt treat her right. Now she is confident as hell lol. I guess sum shy people need someone there to help them to boost their confidence.

oh wow, good words...i totally agree...hhaha! i could write a whole thriller about my experience lol thats why i need a strong but understanding guy who will treat me well. but no pussy!!! pussy is awful T_T so disappointing...so u think guys can be shy but be no pussys at the same time? hmmm i hope so...u know what wonderful feeling it is if a guy is standing behind u and will kick the shit out of someone who wants to harm you? i so wish for that T_T im honest although it is hard to admit...

lol this is why guys get into trouble, if absolutely necessary and you have to fight to protect yourself of someone else then i'm all for it. however if you can walk away, its best to do so in my opinion. though some times you just want to beat the living shit out of someone though lol but takes a bigger person to walk away.

was that dude joking about rolling on the floor like a anxious animal? if that wasn't a joke then that sounds pretty Pussyish. LOL

girlygirl45 wrote: actually people who are shy are more likely to be more open online then in person until they actually feel like they know that person until they meet them in person and they can be themselfs in person like they act online im not sure if this makes much sense

i think it does yeah...

ImBadWithNames wrote:

Sakuranantoka wrote:

schwagbob wrote:

Sakuranantoka wrote:

schwagbob wrote:

lol this is why guys get into trouble, if absolutely necessary and you have to fight to protect yourself of someone else then i'm all for it. however if you can walk away, its best to do so in my opinion. though some times you just want to beat the living shit out of someone though lol but takes a bigger person to walk away.

was that dude joking about rolling on the floor like a anxious animal? if that wasn't a joke then that sounds pretty Pussyish. LOL

haha, no he was honest for sure. i told him that at least i appreciated him to be that honest. yeah and then went to my parents to be secure...hmm, it is not like i want my bf to slap everyone aroud him that is looking at my lol i am talking of serious situations when there is no other way because i was grabbed already or molested!!! there are ppl who search for fights i know that and i am the first perso with cool head who will suggest to just leave. cause otherwise it makes no sense. but this situation was different and i really neede protection!!!

Sakuranantoka wrote: first thing i want to say, i was not talking only of asian men, i should have emphasized this i am sorry. it was more to all men out there, as i don't know so many asian men myself.

hmm and for me it is not for the looks but more for the character men have.
most lack of responsability and how can i say strong character?
haha a guy can have as many muscles as hulk, what is the sense i that if some other guy grabs me or treats me bad and the hulk will run away or is just not interested?

i know many men in my life who just want fast sex. if they see you are intelligent or have "inner style" they run lol
i just cant respect this. and they don't want discussions. if in relationship there is something wrong (hhaha not for him for him its perfect when i wash his clothes and feed him) one has to talk about it. which means i am giving my opinion, then the other one is givng his opinion and we BOTH think about a solution. as each one of us should be interested in that both partners are happy, i think this is normal, otherwise if i am egoistic i dont need realtionship, i need mama who will clean my bum haha

that i smore what i meant. i hope u understand.

cause before we discuss it is importat to make clear: what is strong? and what is weak? what do i expect and what not?

I don't know what kind of guys you're meeting. All of my male friends are either happily married, in serious relationships, or trying to find one. No one I know plays the party scene and goes for fast sex. Usually their problem is the other way around. They try to talk and get to know someone but the girl gets bored and says, "Sorry, I only want a fling."

The other thing to consider is why you're attracting these guys in the first place? Maybe there's something about your personality that makes you resistant to the normal/attractive guys approaching you.

MagicMarker wrote:

Sakuranantoka wrote: first thing i want to say, i was not talking only of asian men, i should have emphasized this i am sorry. it was more to all men out there, as i don't know so many asian men myself.

hmm and for me it is not for the looks but more for the character men have.
most lack of responsability and how can i say strong character?
haha a guy can have as many muscles as hulk, what is the sense i that if some other guy grabs me or treats me bad and the hulk will run away or is just not interested?

i know many men in my life who just want fast sex. if they see you are intelligent or have "inner style" they run lol
i just cant respect this. and they don't want discussions. if in relationship there is something wrong (hhaha not for him for him its perfect when i wash his clothes and feed him) one has to talk about it. which means i am giving my opinion, then the other one is givng his opinion and we BOTH think about a solution. as each one of us should be interested in that both partners are happy, i think this is normal, otherwise if i am egoistic i dont need realtionship, i need mama who will clean my bum haha

that i smore what i meant. i hope u understand.

cause before we discuss it is importat to make clear: what is strong? and what is weak? what do i expect and what not?

I don't know what kind of guys you're meeting. All of my male friends are either happily married, in serious relationships, or trying to find one. No one I know plays the party scene and goes for fast sex. Usually their problem is the other way around. They try to talk and get to know someone but the girl gets bored and says, "Sorry, I only want a fling."

The other thing to consider is why you're attracting these guys in the first place? Maybe there's something about your personality that makes you resistant to the normal/attractive guys approaching you.

well, i know her personally and i can tell you that this woman has a wonderful personallity.
but many guys are not sensitive enough to see that.

but its a normal problem nowadays i guess, noone is up to really understand and ask whats going on inside the other one