Ok...so....do girls like shy Asian guys?

Tami wrote:

Sakuranantoka wrote: haha yeah, where are they?? X) i don't feel being loved. never did.
no matter how cute, intelligent, funny or creative or whatever i am.
yeah they want sex, wow, but i am not cheap.

agree

love you <3

it is like that. if any guy could giv me an answer for that plz?

haha it often is like this: guys want easy sex. if i offend someone now, i am sorry. but this is my experience. they will chase girls who show signs of being chased easily. that is in my opinion, showing much of body on your profile and showing as well that she is none of too intelligent and independent type. haha strong women are not easy to have but are also a challenge. most guys just dont have the guts.
r am i wrong? X) haha all this sucks if u ask me. just too easy.
i'm dreaming of an intelligent and strong man who can beat me.
in fair fight. but most of them have no clue of what i am talking about. haha a girl wants to have the feeling that she is special. if u just chat to any here just saying all the stupid same things, how can she feel special? u are just going for the most easy one to have or what?
u know this is getting boring. no challenge at all. why aren't guys picky? and have good attitudes? am i offending anyone again?
if i wanna go f*** its easy but why should i do that? what's the purpose having sex with someone i dun love??? haha.

and whats all this in a girl has to approach a guy? hello???

look into nature! it is the boys who will dance and look good all colourful and not the girls. why then are girls so serious about their looks? and guys so few? and THEN even complain about girls being too much into their looks LAWL. we do it for U??? damn!!!

think of what i say please. like this it is no fun at all. and whats all this chattng about how do i know what the girl wants and how far i can go??
WHY NOT JUST ASK HER?????
i dun get it i am sorry -_-°

Sakuranantoka wrote:

Tami wrote:

Sakuranantoka wrote: haha yeah, where are they?? X) i don't feel being loved. never did.
no matter how cute, intelligent, funny or creative or whatever i am.
yeah they want sex, wow, but i am not cheap.

agree

love you <3

it is like that. if any guy could giv me an answer for that plz?

haha it often is like this: guys want easy sex. if i offend someone now, i am sorry. but this is my experience. they will chase girls who show signs of being chased easily. that is in my opinion, showing much of body on your profile and showing as well that she is none of too intelligent and independent type. haha strong women are not easy to have but are also a challenge. most guys just dont have the guts.
r am i wrong? X) haha all this sucks if u ask me. just too easy.
i'm dreaming of an intelligent and strong man who can beat me.
in fair fight. but most of them have no clue of what i am talking about. haha a girl wants to have the feeling that she is special. if u just chat to any here just saying all the stupid same things, how can she feel special? u are just going for the most easy one to have or what?
u know this is getting boring. no challenge at all. why aren't guys picky? and have good attitudes? am i offending anyone again?
if i wanna go f*** its easy but why should i do that? what's the purpose having sex with someone i dun love??? haha.

and whats all this in a girl has to approach a guy? hello???

look into nature! it is the boys who will dance and look good all colourful and not the girls. why then are girls so serious about their looks? and guys so few? and THEN even complain about girls being too much into their looks LAWL. we do it for U??? damn!!!

think of what i say please. like this it is no fun at all. and whats all this chattng about how do i know what the girl wants and how far i can go??
WHY NOT JUST ASK HER?????
i dun get it i am sorry -_-°

i dnt know how to answer you seriously but guys go for easier girls, because like u said its easy, we don't like hard work. depends if they seek sex or genuine relaitonship. when we go for the real deal. most of the time we mess up, because the girl we like are too popular or too stuck up. so we choose the simpler option. i dnt agree in the term easy or hard. i believe if you generally like somone and they approach you, u will make life easy for them, however if u play games by making urself hard to get. they will only lose interest. lol

i say if u want sumthing, u approach them, regardless its good or bad. u only know if u go and ask rightttt.

I made my mind up. i am going to hunt some fish. lol

haha it is not like i was playing games at all. and even if i wanted to, u need two for that LOL smells like sarcasm here.
sarcasm is the outcome of certan frustration mixed up with cynical humor.
ok. then i guess i will stay single. or get rid of half my brain which still makes IQ of 100 lol but i am still able to breathe and talk then at the same time. guess i am just perfect for men then LOL

haha u have a point! yeah haha if a girl is popular and everyone thinks like that she will stay alone even she is most popular lol i think this is very funny. lmao

yeah if someone i like would approach me i would make it easy for him but not too much. nothing is for granted u know. also not he himself. but this is just not the case LOL bwahaha

I really hate when people say most Asian guys are shy and i hate Asian guys who act like a lady( about the look, the characteristic..) and men be stronger! there are a lot of Asian men who is very strong , confident and manyly,and we should change the fixed idea about Asian man!i think most of Korean star made a female image about Asian men( their look is like a lady, so weak...), i cant understand why teenagers these days really like those of guys, most of white lady is strong and u want to be weak in front of them if u want to date them? that is a shame !, so be more manly men!change ur hair , ur style...to be more male , i dont want to hear that fixed idea anymore and i am 100 % Asian.

i think shy guys are cute but of course i would them to make some kind of move lol at the moment im trying to figure out how to tell if a guy is just being nice or if hes interested..

kawaiikunoichi wrote: i think shy guys are cute but of course i would them to make some kind of move lol at the moment im trying to figure out how to tell if a guy is just being nice or if hes interested..

Well there are a number of ways, ask him directly. Play a question game and ask him what does he think of you, or "rhetorical" questions.

or if you live in japan, it would seem being psychic is key

yes I am also quite shy. I guess it's more about my personality. But if I am really interested in one, I would like to make the move.

It's just that I am not too talkative as a person, though my communication skill is decent as my job is teaching and most students loves me

Right it's not easy to tell if a guy is being nice or interested. Just like me, I don't show extra emotions or actions openly if I'm interested. But if I am really interested I will make the move sometimes, so that's the difference.

shy guys tent to run away, make sure you have a rob or a net with you ^^